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*oveOnaStick
writes:I am engaged to a great man, we'll call him "Joey" (Common names, yay!). We've been together for many, many years and are planning our wedding a couple years from now (College). Some nights, if I forget to call him when I come home an hour late (I came home at 7 instead of 6) he gets really, really angry and ignores me for a bit, and then when he's done ignoring me he starts to get defensive, saying things like "Does making me worry about you make you feel like I love you more?".He honestly just gets really angry, upset, defensive and then he stays that way until the next day. Tonight he said that he doesn't need to deal with my bullshit, kissed my cheek and went to bed. When I crawled in bed an hour later after watching House, he rolled over towards me, kissed my cheek and whispered "I love you, Lexia Danelle Riley. Always. So what if our relationship has drama? It doesn't change that you're my everything. Goodnight." and then went back to bed holding on to me. (Riley is his last name and my soon-to-be last name...again, fake names, those aren't our REAL names.)He's really sweet after this, but why does he spend hours being mad at me and ignoring me and being just completely unreasonable about things? Does he really mean what he says, that i'm his everything even though he's so mean to me sometimes? Are men just like this? Why does he act like this?I know this is sounding really weird, and I know our relationship is great, I'd just like some help correcting his reaction to my hour-late-ness. (Work is hard!)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2009): Guy is a control freak and you will end up a wreck. Get rid of him.
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reader, LoveOnaStick +, writes (8 February 2009):
LoveOnaStick is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy age on this thing is wrong, i clicked the wrong number and didn't catch it for a while-- I'm actually 17.
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