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writes:im a total outcast in school i only talk to people who i knew for a long time and boys thats it! i thought about suicide once but im way past that now. i feel that if i talk to a girl they would reject me, throw a insult, or a long moment of awkward silence. i just so scared of girls (i guess you could say) and i think im ugly. so my question is how can i feel more happy and how do i talk to a girl. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2009): Try just saying 'hey how are you..' etc to girls if you're near them, just be casual, you can only start off as friends, if you have msn/facebook then just start up a converstaion with a girl, it's much easier to talk when you're not face to face. When you're meeting up with you're guy friends then maybe suggest inviting a few more guys along that you're not so close to, widen your circle that type of thing, hopefully you'll find that will lead to you becoming friends with more people. Everybody has things about themselves that theyre not happy with but just focus on good things about yourself, if you're really unhappy with how you look then how about a change of style? try getting a new haircut and changing you clothes, eat healthy for better skin and go to the gym to improve your body, none of these things can hurt so you might as well give at least a couple of them a try if not all!
Hope this helps a bit
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reader, VampyricHybrid +, writes (8 February 2009):
 I use to be the same way, I was very shy. I was also insecure, I still am. The only way you'll get over you're fear of rejection is by trying. Everything takes practice. Just be yourself, if they can't accept you for who you are then that person doesn't really care about you. =) Be yourself and go with it. -Good luck. =)
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