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writes:I have been dating a man for 3 1/2 years. Throughout the relationship, commitment to the relationship has been challenging, i.e., making time to see me. My boyfriend has also had problems with intimacy, i.e., sex and taking the time to have sex. Sometimes we go for months. Things were getting better for a while. He even accepted a job closer to where I live. He lives in the city and I in NJ. However, he doesn't see more and he still doesn't stay with me much, maybe once per week. He says it's because he has to pick up his 21 year old daughter at work. Recently, I have found some phone numbers of other women, and I even found a number to a phone dating service. I am 47 and he is 48, and I want more. I have asked him to move in, for a ring, and a wedding date. He says he wants to marry me, but not now. He says he's not sure when. I have said I have had it! He won't even go to counseling. I am preparing myself to leave him. What to do?!
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sadsadsad is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you kinky boots. I gave him two weeks to respond to my requests for more commitment. Two weeks have gone by. As far as the dating service, he said his daughter was using his cell phone. This is really doubtful because the phone call was placed after midnight, she has her own cell phone, and there is also a house phone. Not to mention, that it was an adult dating phone service. I confronted him about it, and he also said I was crazy, and it was all in my head. sad, sad, sad, for me and for him.
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