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writes:is it wrong to like a younger guy and i am 2 yaers older.he was born in 1982 and i was born in 1980.is it wrong to like a younger guy.i like younger guys but i don,t mean to ?is it wrong .do younger guys like older girls?can you help me ?i get depressed about my age becaue i am lot older.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2009): theres nothing wrong wiv liking a man older den you..
if u like him and he likes you then its fair.
im 16 and i like sumone hus 28.i prefere oldert men because there more mature and treat you betta ..
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reader, Artistry  +, writes (8 February 2009):
 Hi there, Come on now, stop it, two years older is really nothing, unless the gentleman is very immature for his age. I used to know someone who made the point that women should marry men who are younger than they are, because men die younger than women do, if they are the same age. So marrying a younger man might insure that you would still have a husband, instead of being a widow in old age :o). The other thing is that women are marrying younger men without any qualms on either side. Not that you are considering marriage, but if you should, nothing wrong there. I think if a man and a woman are comfortable with one another, get along, and like the others company, age should not be a factor, as long as both are grown. Look at the divorces rate, over 50% in America, so a man being older than the woman is not adding to marriages lasting, is it? Judge a relationship by the compatibility factor not the age, as long as both have no problem with it. Away with the depression, life is too short and theer are too many other pressing things to worry about. Stop beating yourself up. I might suggest you go to a web site: www.socyberty.com/writers/quiet+voice.8137 and look for the title, "Finding Your Core". See if this helps you in some way, to build your confidence in yourself. Write down things that are good in your life, write things also that make you happy. Then write down things that you want to accomplish and step by step, try to accomplish those things. Life is good, think of the alternative, have fun and be glad you are alive. Practice writng down a positive thought each day and carry it around with you for encouragement. Learn to be your very own best friend. Take care, stay in touch. By the way, when I was younger, I attracted and had boyfriends who were younger than me, it was fun. They are usually spontaneous.
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reader, Faye Telattraction  +, writes (8 February 2009):
The answer is no. Its not wrong to like younger guys. And yes younger guys do like older women. A lot. Be confident about your age and who you are. Being confident is one of the main things that attract men.
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reader, FountainOfIndifference  +, writes (8 February 2009):
 I remember reading this somewhere.
Standard Creepiness Rule:
Don't date under (Your age/2) + 7
So I think you're good to go. Of course, everybody's different.
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