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*zraMayweather
writes:Hi, lets get straight to the point, see, I met this guy one day. I was leaving the nailery, and it was him and a few of his co-workers, they worked with the water department in my city. As soon as I walked out the store they all were yelling and waving there hands trying to get my attention and motion for me to come back and stop to talk to them. Then, like an opening scene for a Tyler Perry film, one of the guys stopped, put all his tools down and walked down to me. I took that to be really flattering and manly. When he walked to me, I didn't look him in the face I jus looked down at my phone to take his number down. After he gave me the number I looked up at him, he had to been the most beautiful man I had ever seen. I was extatic. Long story short, we hooked up about 3 time maybe four, and then I left for college. We talk randomly and text here and there. Nothing consistent though. But lately it has been really tough because I cannot stop thinking about him, I don't know how or why me liking him had gotten this far, but seriously it is out of control. I don't talk to any guys, because I am waiting for him, to come and say we can be together. And I don't want to have any baggage. I think about him 24/7 and I even cried on the phone to him, (really embarassing) telling him how I tried to move on from likeing hime because he hasn't showed me that he is that into me. He explained that his job isn't giving him any freedom and all this other stuff as to how the summer will be diffrent, how he just needs some time. So I told myslef (not him) that I will wait for him, and not get involved with anyone else. But its honestly getting rediculous, I feel like I love this guy. I cry myself to sleep at night sometimes, jus because I long for his touch one more time. I want to smell him one more time. And no...we didn't have sex! We jus talked in his truck (dodge ram) those 3 times. And I'm mad I love him, or feel like I love him this much. So what should I do,Beacause I met this guy and I can't stop think about him!
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reader, Natalie90  +, writes (24 March 2009):
 just think do you really love this guy for who he is and what he does for you or do you love the idea of what you could be together ?? i think you need to find out if there is a chance you could be together if not there could be many decent guys out there who you are passing by waiting for this man who may never be yours hope this is helpful
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