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writes:Oks, so, I like this guy (naming no names) and I'm not sure whether he likes me or not but I'm pretty sure (80% maybe?) that he does. We used to go out a few months ago but split up due to certain reasons, nothing serious though that would stop us getting back together. We've both been out with other people since we split up and so neither of us had the right to flirt with the other (if that makes sense). The other week, we hung out for a few days and just talked and stuff and it was good, I enjoyed myself and I'm pretty sure he did too, going by the look on his face. During those few days, we send flirty text messages to each other and it felt just like it was when we were going out.The day after at school, he asked out this girl. I understand it's his life and he can like who he wants/ask out who he wants/do what he wants ect but when we talked, he send he didn't fancy anyone at that time.I REALLY like him and REALLY REALLY want to let him know, but need advice on how to do it.Should I tell him now, when he has a girlfriend? Should I wait and see if they split up, then tell him?When I do come to telling him, what can I say?I know I'm young and have "much more important things to be worrying about" but I feel like this is taking over my life, and that's no exaggeration!Maybe if you could just give me some advice on how to get over this whole thing and focus my mind on better things, that would be greatly appreciated.Thanks (=
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (10 February 2009):
So you want to tell him to make you feel better and because you hope he'll then dump this girl for you.
This is all about you, isn't it?
Why not just leave him be? He was flirting with you and you hung out and had fun so he had his chance to ask you out and chose someone else.
If you tell him it will hurt her, cause trouble for him, and it may not make you feel any better / you may make a fool of yourself.
Why not to just leave him to it for a while and if he splits up with her then you can ask him out again.
Good Luck!! xx
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