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Archived questions from: January, 2014 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

How do I flirt with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3945 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - There's a guy I am interested who works at a pizza place I go to now and then that I'm interested in. He is young probably near my age (19). I am quiet and don't usually flirt so I don't know how to put myself out there. How do I go about flirting ...

Can attraction develop after some distance between 2 people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3947 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - You tell a guy you've liked him for ages. He's really flattered but admits he doesn't share any deeper feelings. Apparently he's started seeing someone at the moment, you hear from a friend. And 3 months later, they've broken up. Because he's ...

How do I cope with strong attraction to a co-worker who I have no intention of getting involved with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Hi I need some advice on how to deal with a situation. Firstly I am 23 and do not intend to act on my feelings. So I have fallen for a guy I work with. He seems a lovely, genuine guy and I very much enjoy working with him. To paint a pictur...

Guy is touchy feely. Does he like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - There's this guy (all stories start like this haha), and I don't really like him romantically but as a friend. He's generally pretty affectionate with people he likes, but sometimes I feel like he gives me extra attention. He would always playfully ...

How does chemistry work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3947 days ago

28 January 2014 (M) - I want to know how it works for example when you're with a girl and you're looking into her eyes and she's also looking into yours you start feeling that chemistry between you and her, my question is, is she feeling it too? Or is something that you ...

I discovered that I'm bi? should I come out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3949 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - I have a huge crush on my friend. Its my second crush. My friend is a girl, so that means im bisexual. Should I tell anyone or wait? ...

I'd do anything for this guy even though he hates me and probably was never even a true friend to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3949 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - Ok so I've been struggling with this for a few years now I and just want your guys opinions. I was a freshman in high school I didn't have many friends and was really quiet. Well when I met...this guy I immediately wanted to get to know him. This ...

Why do girls suddenly distance themselves from a guy, when things seem to be going great?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3949 days ago

27 January 2014 (M) - Dear cupid I have experienced during my dating that sometimes girls suddenly distance themselves without any warning or explanation whilst you are dating a girl. (She doesn't like anyone else and she's single ). Why the sudden change in attitude w...

Is my boyfriend being too friendly with her? He says he doesn't want to be mean to her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

25 January 2014 (F) - About a week ago my boyfriend met a girl through some mutual friends. My boyfriend says this girl flirted with him like crazy as soon as she was introduced to him and even told my boyfriend that he seemed like an amazing guy and that she really ...

Why do I feel bad for having these feelings for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

25 January 2014 (F) - I think I'm in love and I hate myself for it! For the past about 18 months a guy has been trying to pursue me romantically despite the fact I had a boyfriend. His family own a numerous businesses where I live, including the one I work at so I see...

Coworker crush.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

24 January 2014 (F) - Ok so here's the situation. I have this coworker who is 31 and I'm 21. When I first started working there, I always noticed him, but not to the point where I really found him attractive. I heard that he had some of the same interests as I d...

After a bad relationship I'm not sure I want to get involved again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3952 days ago

24 January 2014 (F) - I met this guy that I'm developing a huge crush on. He is intelligent and mature and creative, and we have the same passion for performing music and we are going for the same careers. We talk for hours and he says he also has a crush on me, and he ...

I want him but he is committed to somebody else.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

23 January 2014 (F) - I have been in love with this man for 8 years. He has a 9 yr. old son and is committed to the mother They live in the philipines. He visits them every year for 1 month. He is not married to her but says But I have a son. I want him but he won't ...

My girlfriend is sleeping with my 'enemy'

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

22 January 2014 (M) - Three years ago while I was in my final year in the university I dated a junior girl who just got out of a relationship. Her ex tried getting her back but failed. In the long run, I and the girl split after few months as I discovered I was a ...

He put food on my plate, does that mean something?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

22 January 2014 (F) - I have liked one of my guy friend for three years already. Whenever we played the game truth or dare at social events he would admit in truth that he liked someone. I decided to ask him one time who he liked..and he went completely silent on me. I ...

Does he like me? Should I pursue a friendship or just leave it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

20 January 2014 (F) - Basically, I met this guy in church along with his sister. He was really friendly, even though I was shy and awkward, and tried to start a conversation. He even introduced one of his friends to me and invited me to the youth church. On the days when ...

She has a boyfriend, so why does she keep telling me I'm sweet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

19 January 2014 (M) - Women are very confusing to me My friend has been telling me I'm very sweet lately when we talk or text. Last time I texted her , she told me I'm sweet like 4 times. I know she is going through a tough time but still. She talks to me when I'm ...

I don't like how I feel around former crush!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

19 January 2014 (F) - Has anyone ever had a similar awkward situation like this?.. I've known this attractive charismatic guy over 5 years. Our conversations started off warm and friendly. I once asked him his name when I ran into him at a store. I will admit to ha...

Is the girl in the pics his girlfriend or his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

19 January 2014 (F) - I was so attracted to guy i met at the mall,he told me he don't have a girlfriend. when i check with his friends they said the same thing. he showed me a picture of a girl and said she was his ex girlfriend and they are not together. he asked me...

I'm so lost. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

18 January 2014 (F) - A guy I really liked asked me out over text but i got scared and said no. After that i got depressed and as a sort of anti depressant talked to a guy. i fell in love and i was sure he loved me. He didn't. He felt nothing for me, i was just his ...

I have a crush on my music teacher

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3959 days ago

18 January 2014 (F) - Hi I know there is a lot of stuff on loving teachers, well the problem is, she is the same gender as I, is this normal? But she is a music teacher, and whenever I perform, she watches me closely smiling and whenever I'm around her I go bright red. I ...

My head is going nuts and he has left me confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

18 January 2014 (F) - I wrote here about a week ago about a guy I'm dating, it isn't serious I don't particularly want it to be serious I just want to go with the flow kind of thing enjoy the moment take things slow. Last night we went out and had a great time decid...

He said he loved me and I didn't reply. Now he isn't talking to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

17 January 2014 (F) - hello guys!:).well,there's a foreign guy in my university he's so hot and good looking,and every girl wants to date him,but i didn't care actually,two weeks later ,i've seen his profile in facebook so i added him and he accepted,he send me a message ...

Married but fell for someone else

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

16 January 2014 (F) - I am 28 and married. I have never cheated on my husbands and never looked at another man until now. My husband has always been flirty with other women and chats them up right in front of me sometimes which is hurtful and embarrassing. I always take ...

I just can't deal with falling for a friend who is incapable of ever feeling the same way about me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

16 January 2014 (M) - I suppose I'll jump right in. I'm a 23 year old, gay, college student. I've been interested in one of my friends for a while who is in the same major as me. His name is Chris. Last spring I asked him out because I knew I liked him and I wasn't 100% ...

A hypothetical! What would a guy think about something like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3960 days ago

16 January 2014 (F) - This is a question for guys. Lets say a not so attractive girl tried to invite herself along for lunch,stammered and then in the end couldn't do it.Would you feel angry,irritated or wonder "how dare she tried to invite herself along" if you are in t...

He wants to be friends, but don't friends wish each other happy birthday?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3909 days ago

16 January 2014 (F) - I told a sweet, decent guy I had liked him for a long while (over facebook, only cause I hardly get to see him) about a month ago. I'm a little embarrassed about it... I had told him every single quality I found admirable about him and while ...

Should I stick around for him or bail out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3963 days ago

14 January 2014 (F) - i met this new guy over the christmas period at the lake. xmas day to be precise. his name is John (not real name). we started off very well.we met by the beach.i had a little problem with my car and it just happened that i mentioned about it in ...

Are they just playing with me, how can I tell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

13 January 2014 (M) - Hi I need advice. I am gay, and I have a guy friend who I hang out with. I noticed he was gay. He used to look at me in a certain way, and I began to have feelings for him. He sent me flirty sms. I didn't know how to respond. He met another guy. ...

I'm married to a nice man but have a crush on my doctor!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3964 days ago

13 January 2014 (F) - Help! Gee, this may seem silly but I need help getting over a crush! I am married to a wonderful husband, great kids, career, and I am fit and healthy. When things are going wrong in the office, or my husband and I have a disagreement I can't help ...

Why did this happen? I don't know why. Can you help me understand what went wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3966 days ago

12 January 2014 (F) - after two months of dating he told me we have no connection. when we first meet we did hit it off. we would talk on the phone text. text in the morning goomorning baby. we talk about our future. i told him about going into the military and stil...

Did my poem scare him away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

10 January 2014 (F) - I wrote a poem for a guy I really like. We have had some good conversations but since it was his birthday I decided to write a poem on how great a person he is. The problem is its been about a week and a half and he has yet to respond. The poem said ...

I have feelings for my friend, now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3967 days ago

9 January 2014 (F) - I am in 25yrs and bio all my friends know about this and some of them are lesbians and gays others are strait now I have this friend I meet usual we enjoy our friendship my problem about her I have morethan feeling a friendship with her I do have ...

Does anal sex usually hurt so much? Should I feel guilty that I had sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

9 January 2014 (F) - This might sound kinda crazy but I need to hear if anyone else has had an experience like this. I've been seeing this boy for a little while now and he is super cute. A few days ago he took me on a date to the carnival and we got a little drunk a...

Confused about long term crush

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

8 January 2014 (F) - I am quite distressed due to the fact that the guy N that I am pretty infatuated with did not attend my birthday party when he told me that he would come along and did not keep to his word. I took this at face value and was very eager to see him....

Need help dealing with a crush

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

8 January 2014 (M) - Hey I really need some help. I'm gay and one of my best friends is bi. We had a mutual crush on eachother, he told me about his but I didn't tell him about mine because he had a girlfriend at the time and I didn't want to be a home wrecker. This ...

How can I get over such a devastatingly intense physical attraction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

8 January 2014 (F) - First of all, I would like to begin with a disclaimer that I have absolutely zero intentions of attempting to get close to this man. But somehow, I simply cannot get him out of my mind. Here is the back story: I am studying a very specific tr...

How can he determine that there is "no chemistry" after just two dates? Is that possible?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

8 January 2014 (F) - I met this guy two weeks ago and he came up to me and introduced himself. We talked on facebook for a day and he asked me for my number, he ended up calling me and we talked on the phone for three hours. He texted me everyday first and every night ...

I missed my chance when I was in hospital, do you think it would be ok for me to contact her at the place she told me where she usually works?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3970 days ago

7 January 2014 (M) - I was having a procedure in hospital and was there for a few days. One night, a young nurse working overnight(with only one or two others in that ward), got very friendly with me, telling me all about herself, her plans etc. What made it very int...

My friend says she wants to change. How can I help her see the difference between being friendly V flirty towards others?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3970 days ago

7 January 2014 (F) - I have been friends with my best friend since I was in 6th grade. We're both seniors in high school now. But slowly my friend has less and less people who want to talk to her and when asked why they say because she's a kiss-ass and she's a major ...

So my brother's friend is two years older than me and he's always really nice to me and laughs at my jokes and stuff, what does it all mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3970 days ago

7 January 2014 (F) - So my brother's friend is two years older than me and he's always really nice to me and laughs at my jokes and stuff and when I catch him looking at me he holds eye contact for a few seconds and when he does break eye contact he has to tear his eyes ...

I feel like he is playing a ton of mind games...but is he just shy with girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3896 days ago

7 January 2014 (F) - 1. Starting in Oct '11 when he moved in. 2. Took him seriously three months to even talk to me. 3. ALL of 2011 when he DID talk to me the VERY few times, he would pick small stupid fights with me, not even a normal conversation. 4. He gave me his...

Is he developing feelings for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

7 January 2014 (F) - Ive been friends with a guy for just over a week and its a friends with benefits thing, we've seen each other most nights and he has stayed the night a couple of times. He says things like we should go away for the weekend and offers to take me ...

Why did she change her mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

6 January 2014 (M) - Hey, I try to make it short I know her for over 6 years now. She was with my best friend for 5 years. They immigrated to NZ, but she came back because they had rs problems. She was totally down and sad. I tried to be a good friend for her and ...

Her leaning into me felt good, does it mean I could ask her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

6 January 2014 (M) - I go to this gym where while group exercising they check the heart rate of the exercisers at random. There are 2 or 3 instructors who do the checking. Yesterday a girl checked mine while I was on the exercise bike. She did what no other had done, ...

I feel so low, I thought he cared but he implied I am a stalker!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

4 January 2014 (F) - Please give a good advice I'm really hurt I thought a guy I worked with for ages liked me and we became close He told me he was unhappy with the girl he lived with and had 'issues' Anyway over time we became close and he gave me the impression t...

Caught the guy I like in a lie about where he was! Should I just ignore him from now on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

4 January 2014 (F) - hii..need alitle advice i started seeing this guy and i sooo like him..and what shocked me yesterday is that i needed him to bring me a phones charger because i had misplaced mine and he is the one who brought up the issue of helping me with his ...

He turns up on my doorstep, yet in 10 years has never invited me into his home. Should I get back with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

4 January 2014 (F) - I have know a guy for 30 years. I have two children from someone else and that did not work, so Id re-linked with this guy. We continued from where we left off, it was very natural. He has other children too. I now have a 10 year old fathered...

Is my guy friend still angry with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

4 January 2014 (F) - I met this guy in my class who asked could we be friends. I knew that he did not want to be just my friend because he kept suggesting for us to get together for dinner or "chill at his place." We had exchanged numbers and I told him that I would...

Why didn't he mention his girlfriend ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 January 2014 (F) - Hey :) I met a guy a year ago, we "dated" briefly a month but nothing happened between us. Indeed, I want to build friendship with a guy before dating him. The consequence is that he thought I was disinterested so he faded away. Two weeks late...