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*anoul
writes:hello guys!:).well,there's a foreign guy in my university he's so hot and good looking,and every girl wants to date him,but i didn't care actually,two weeks later ,i've seen his profile in facebook so i added him and he accepted,he send me a message saying that he saw me that day in school,we kept talking the whole day, he was great and nice to me. we were talking everyday since then but we didn't meet.he sees me everyday but i don't see him ,i don't know if he's hiding lol,last night, he called me and we kept talking for hours, it was the first time i heard his sweet voice,i could not stop laughing and smiling with him. He said to me that i'm the only girl that he's talking with now and he only dated one girl and they broke up, after that when i was going to sleep he sent a vocal note saying that he's in love with me.i was shocked and happy at the same time but i didn't reply, he texted me saying that he knows that i don't love him,he was so mad at me in his words i felt it he said that i can't be in love with anyone and i'll be always be alone like that.I'm so sad because things turn around this way,i really do like him ,i've dated a lot of boys but i've never been in a serious relationship, I Have Never Been In a Long Term Relationship the longest one was for one month i get bored so easily,but i really tired of all of this, i want to be loved and in love, i really hoped things will work out this time with this guy,he is not talking to me right now, he is always offline and i can't call him now, what i should do ?How to deal with this situation ,i'm really confused:( please please help me :(
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reader, Viktobi  +, writes (24 January 2014):
Hi there,
Well look at that!
How very immature of him, sending you a voice note and not meeting you directly yet he says he sees you in school.
You do not need this...because darling, tell you what...that man spells out DRAMA.
Don't even go there. Stay away from this situation! The best thing to do is to completely ignore that message and continue enjoying life. You will meet someone who will take you seriously, who you can have a committed relationship with, in due time.
But this gentleman seems confused and you do not need this.
Hope this helps. Good luck.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (20 January 2014):
 Hi manoul, he sounds to be rather immature and very dramatic, is he young? Telling you over voice mail that he loves you after never actually speaking to you in person is very presumptuous and the act of a very shy or insecure person.
I think I would let him keep his drama and rather silly pronouncements and focus on boys who take the time to get to know you, in person and who don't try to rush things.
Good luck.
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