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writes:You tell a guy you've liked him for ages. He's really flattered but admits he doesn't share any deeper feelings. Apparently he's started seeing someone at the moment, you hear from a friend. And 3 months later, they've broken up. Because he's leaving. A year later he's back and you are in the same faculty. You've 'moved on'. Is there any chance he will ever, ever feel anything towards you again? Might the fact that you're now happy, maybe with someone else and not so in love with him anymore (plus the fact that he now sees you everyday when he never did before) suddenly make you a lot more attractive? Right now, in the present, he's just left. I don't actually plan on trying to attract him again - I know it might never work and be a waste of my time and life. But my mind wanders sometimes... How will things be like in a years time when I'll be forced to see him everyday? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2014): Anything could happen . I can't tell the future so I cannot reassure you of anything. I had a friend who ended up liking me. I hadn't seen him in a year and now I see him everyday too because we have the same friends and we live right by him and I haven't grown to like him anymore or any less than before. I do wonder sometimes if he still has those feelings, but its just a thought that crosses my mind for a split second occasionally when he looks at me weird.
But whose to say, everyone is different. Peoples thoughts, emotions, and desires change.. If he does become attracted to you what would change, and if he doesn't how would you feel then ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2014): Time does sort out a lot of things, but the only thing you can really do is concentrate on yourself. If its meant to be it will be, but I suspect his initial feelings will not change & to make yourself stronger emotionally - be realistic, he is not sitting around thinking of you at all.
Good luck in the future and I hope you find someone who makes you very happy x
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