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writes:Three years ago while I was in my final year in the university I dated a junior girl who just got out of a relationship. Her ex tried getting her back but failed. In the long run, I and the girl split after few months as I discovered I was a rebound. I started dating again two years ago when I'd left university and told my new girlfriend (who just got admitted to the university) my experience with that other girl because she was still in the school (now in final year). I wanted my new girlfriend to know every thing and warned her that that my ex's ex boyfriend planned to get one over me. Just last month, having dated this girl for almost 2 years with plans of engaging her this year, I found out she was sleeping with that same guy I warned her about 2 years ago. I'm so pissed and upset because finally the guy got his wish, however, I love the girl. She begged and claimed to be sorry and threatened to kill herself if I leave her. Please what do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2014): Don't rush into marriage; but forgive her. It's the decent thing to do.
It was his mission to get over on you. She stabbed you in the back, after being warned. That doesn't say much in favor of her character. She is a cheat, and she went so far as to be with someone who was out to get you. That is the definition of betrayal.
I wouldn't let anyone threaten and manipulate me with suicide. That's a desperate and unstable person. She can't be trusted. This may work out with a happy ending in a drama, or a novel. If this is real-life, we handle it with logic and common-sense.
Forgive her, and let her go. You must also forgive him in order to move forward. This drama is over. Purge all of this from your life, and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2014): "Please what do I do?"
How can you profess to "love" a chick who has been playing you for a chump?
Stop being a sap, grow a pair of balls to match your too-big penis (per your other post), dump her, and if she threatens to kill herself then call her bluff and call the cops to report an attempted suicide.
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