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writes:I go to this gym where while group exercising they check the heart rate of the exercisers at random. There are 2 or 3 instructors who do the checking.Yesterday a girl checked mine while I was on the exercise bike. She did what no other had done, which is to lean completely into me while checking, body on body. I watched her doing others and she definitely kept a distance from them, only her hand touching their wrist. The guy next to me also noticed her closeness to me. Whilst it felt good, do you think this is enough to show that she is interested in me and for me to ask out? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2014): You're a man, you don't need women "to show interest" before asking them out.
The greatest way to know if she's interested is to ask her out. Or as Oldbag suggested start getting chatty with her in the gym as a lead up to asking her out.
Again though OP, use being a man to your advantage, we don't need signs, clues or permission to ask women out, they appreciate a guy with the balls to hit on them without worrying about any of that crap.
OP men who need to be sure before asking a woman out are the guys who generally play it too safe to succeed. If you decide to get chatty with her, do so with the end game of asking her out no matter what in mind. Don't dance around playing games trying to test her interest, unless you're a mind reader you'll probably just end up finding things to overthink about and put doubt in your mind. It's much easier to just ignore all that crap and go for it.
The greatest enemy of a single guy is overthinking, he who dares wins and if you don't, then at least you gave it a shot.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (6 January 2014):
 Its enough to start a conversation with her next time you go, then you will have an idea where you stand.
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