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Archived questions from: January, 2015 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

He admitted he cheated and with a woman I thought I could trust. Do I cut my losses? How do I get over his betrayal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3577 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - I have been with my husband for 10 years and have 3 kids. New year we had a massive argument and he admitted he cheated twice with the same girl. The girl who I thought to be a friend and who I confided in, although he did not know this. He has...

All the signs are there to say he is cheating!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3537 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend is the kinda guy that is usually so nice and understanding and not the typical asshole, even when we're super bad and he knows im upset he tries to make everything better. Takes his blame and even some of mine.. and just complete ...

I've got the hots for my boyfriend's dad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

29 January 2015 (F) - From the moment I met my boyfriend's father, I have been very attracted to him. But recently when my boyfriend's parents dropped by our house to tell us they were seeing each other again after 10 years of being separated, I got really jealous for ...

How do I assure my girlfriend that I'm not cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

29 January 2015 (M) - My girlfriend constantly accuse me of cheating. It started a year ago, when we split for a few months. I dated another girl and she and I hung out often. I genuinely liked her, but never planned on settling down with her. Fast forward, my gir...

How can I stop making my current boyfriend pay for the sins of my ex-boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3583 days ago

28 January 2015 (F) - [MOD NOTE - OP's title] My last boyfriend cheated on me and broke my heart. I never want to go through that kind of pain ever again. Because of this, I am having a very hard time trusting my current boyfriend. My boyfriend has done nothi...

He went from being a jerk to Prince Charming overnight.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - Me and my guy live together for about a year. However I was thinking about moving out because We never do anything special and we never go anywhere. In fact it's usually always on his terms on what he wants to do and even when we argue he needs to ...

Should I be worried? He brought up an ex of his and mentioned that she's a porn star now.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were talking last night and he brings up a friend of his that is female (and also his ex)that she said that she is a porn star now (which I think might be a fib I don't know and I don't plan on finding out). He tells me that she ...

Is my 61-year-old husband fooling around inside the health club? Or am I just paranoid?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - My 61 year-old-husband has a health club membership to use the sauna/shower/steam room. He does not go there to exercise. He is there a few times a week to shower after work before coming home. Is there cause for me to be concerned?? Is it p...

Will my boyfriend cheat on me if we don't commit and have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

25 January 2015 (F) - Hi there, I've been thinking all this while about my current boyfriend, who is 31years old. I am 23. Let me brief you all before i ask for help here. So, my current bf used to be my ex-boss in my previous company where I worked. He casually asked me...

I really love the new guy but how do I break up with the current guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3587 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - Hello! I'm confused of what to do. I have a boyfriend and we have been dating for almost a year now. I met a new guy recently through a male friend. This new guy has really been nice to me. He said he wants us to get into a relationship but I told h...

How do I get this girl out my head?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3588 days ago

24 January 2015 (M) - I have been married to my wife for 11 years and I do love her we have a child together. The last 8 months I have had another women on mind 24.7. I met her through work well she's a client not a co-worker. The girl is beautiful and in her late 20s ...

My sister in law is cheating because I showed her how to use the internet! How do I stop this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3588 days ago

24 January 2015 (M) - Let me start out by saying a love my little nephews and brother to death and would do anything for them.I a very sensitive person and consistently asking people are they mad at me. I feel so bad and it's totally my fault that their mom is che...

I want him to realize what he lost and change for me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

23 January 2015 (F) - [OP's original title] I and my ex were together 5.5 years. We had some problems in december cause he get a new job so he wanted to hang out more with his coworkers including admins(girls).last saturday, first time after a month saw each other an...

I found out my boyfriend lied about being married, should I keep dating him? He only sees his wife once a year

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

21 January 2015 (F) - Started dating a guy in the army back in June, it was more casual than anything else. Then the last few months it got more serious and I could tell me was falling in love with me. When I first went to his place I asked him if he was married as there ...

I have a boyfriend but have been talking online with this girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3592 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - Im so confused about what to do. I have a boyfriend of nearly two years who I love, but I'm also talking to this girl online that I really like. I've known I'm bisexual for a while but I have never dated a girl or done anything sexual with a girl. ...

She has changed but I love her and don't want to throw 2 years down the drainpipe!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

20 January 2015 (M) - Here goes, I’ve been with her for 2 years, everything was great, she started uni 6 months into our relationship (i’ve always worked full time), her starting uni never bothered us, we worked through it, didn’t argue and we were good… In September s...

His best friend has told me very upsetting things about his sleeping with other women, including her! What do I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - I always knew my boyfriend was hiding something from me regarding his best friend but I was never sure about what it was. I do have trust issues due to be hurt in the past but it was something different this time. It was like I could see it with my ...

We started to rekindle, but he can't let go of the past!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - Ran into my bf the week of new year's. We instantly felt the connection again and we started talking and went out a couple of times. We live in different states now so it's a little complicated. We decided to try to see each other again and keep ...

Will someone please help me? I feel the worst I've ever felt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - I became good friends with a boy a year ago and then we started behaving as a couple, we held hands kissed and cuddled we talked all the time. I really really loved him. A lot . New years day he slept with another girl. I found out from our mutual ...

Should I talk to him about putting off sex until he feels he can trust me again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3595 days ago

17 January 2015 (F) - I am in a rut in my relationship. Long story short I cheated, There was no physical cheating. I was texting my manager and deleting the messages..they were not in any way inappropriate but I knew the fact bothered my fiancee so instead of nipping ...

How do I get my wife to forgive me for cheating with a coworker?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3595 days ago

16 January 2015 (M) - I have been married for 2 1/2 years. 2 months ago, my wife and I welcomed our first child, a girl. Over the last 6 months, however, my wife and I have disconnected. We fought, argued, and argued while fighting consistently during this time. ...

My boyfriend says he wants to break up due to financial problem. Does this mean he is involved with another woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

16 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend told me that he wants to be friends because his job lower his hours and he is having a hard time paying his bills. Do this sound like he is involved with another woman? ...

I'm in love with this girl, but I have a boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3596 days ago

15 January 2015 (F) - Me and my boyfriend David (not his real name) have been together for over a year, we're perfect for each other, total puppy love. We’re both 22. But there is this other girl, let’s call her Luna, she's a bit younger than us. I’ve met her in college ...

Flirting with my best friend's wife...should I go further?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

15 January 2015 (M) - My best friend started dating this girl years ago. My gf at the time and her were bffs. My friends gf and i had this chemistry that is so lustful and exciting. We would mess around a bit and eventually it came out in the open. We admitted guilt and ...

I'm devastated to find out my wife and brother had an affair!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

14 January 2015 (M) - after twenty years of marriage i have just found out that my wife had an affair with my brother.this happened several years ago and had been going on for a few years.i love her so much and she says she hates herself for it.she says she's sorr...

Should I tell my husband I almost cheated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

14 January 2015 (F) - So I am married two years to my childhood sweetheart, and I love him dearly. Lately we have been put to test with stress, family issues, his mentally ill mother and trying for a baby. Its all been very stressful and was starting to take its toll on ...

Nine year affair and the woman I love decides to have another child with her husband.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

13 January 2015 (M) - I am a married man with 2 kids who fell in love with a married woman 9 years ago. She was in a "loveless" marriage with 1 child and I was getting bored in mine. She recently "broke" it off with me without any explanation a few months ago and would't ...

He's moved in and we're in love. But after what I found on his phone - could he be cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3600 days ago

12 January 2015 (F) - Hi I have been seeing this guy for10 months he has moved into my home and is sweet and I'm so in love. I found porn on his phone which I don't mind but now I have found this site called f^^k buddy Could he be cheating? I work, he doesn't....

I'm fed up with letting the past year haunt me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3600 days ago

12 January 2015 (F) - Hi everyone. Can I firstly say thanks to everyone who reads this questions and reply. Please don't judge me as I'm finding it hard hence why I'm asking for advice. Il try to cut it short. Me and my boyfriend started dating when I was only 16. Fiv...

What should I do as I can't stop thinking about my love affair !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3601 days ago

11 January 2015 (F) - Hi, this probably a really silly situation but I really don't know what to do.... So I've liked this guy for around 4 years every time I used to see him out when I had a drink I used to say things to him I.e I like you, I fancy you etc but things ...

Two years together and he's married. I don't want to be in love with him any more. How do I supress my feelings for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3604 days ago

7 January 2015 (F) - This has been a bit of a problem for a while. About two and a half years ago, I fell madly in love with this guy that I know. I guess that scared me quite a bit because I'd never had such feelings for anyone before. This wouldn't be as much of a ...

My husband is deleting texts from his ex-wife. How can I handle this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3605 days ago

6 January 2015 (F) - My husband deletes texts and calls from his ex wife, even after we've had discussions about doing this, and he said he wouldn't do it anymore. Also, I've seen texts where she sends him x's and o's. At one point I even texted her myself to ask her ...

My married boyfriend of two years is torn. He cannot give me up but he cannot leave his marriage. How do I handle this?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 3605 days ago

6 January 2015 (F) - I have deep feelings for a man who has been married for 20 years. I have been with him for almost 2 years. It happened because I suppose we met at the right place and the right time and we had this undeniable connection... right from the very st...

How can I trust him? Considering his online chats and explicit conversations with other women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3599 days ago

5 January 2015 (F) - My husband has been chatting to women on a game site, what he has said to them is very explicit. I confronted him and he said he doesn't know why he has done it and it was only words, he said in a conversation that he was going to meet said women, ...

I still feel there's something he is hiding. Was his reaction normal after my accusation of infidelity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

5 January 2015 (F) - Married for 14 yrs..we have 2 kids.. I love my husband and I want to grow old with him. He loves me too and he loves our kids and family. Yet he has cheated on me in the past with escorts.I forgave him but never forgot. Everything was going smoo...

She's blamed me for her sexting, flirting and flashing on webchat. Is this classed as cheating? Can I trust her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3604 days ago

5 January 2015 (M) - i have been with my fiancee for almost 4 years now and we are actively planning our wedding. she has confessed to me that she has been flirting with her ex on text, flirting with other guys on web chat and has also been flashing on webchat....

I can't help thinking the worst. Is his past browsing history a sign that he's becoming a man I no longer feel I know?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

4 January 2015 (F) - Hi I would really appreciate some help I feel like my boyfriend of 3 years is becoming someone I don't know. I love him so much and couldn't really imagine life without him but I keep finding little things that make me feel unwanted; I foun...

How do I get over him when there is so much history?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

4 January 2015 (F) - o I'm 16 and have been dating this guy for a while. Two weeks before our two year anniversary, I got a call off a friend dating she caught him with another girl. I cried for hours and he begged for me back. On the next day he told me he didn't ...

I found out my boyfriend is cheating, how do I handle it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

4 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 months has been acting strange he used to reply to my messages within an hour at the most but usually straight away but now he keeps coming up with stupid reasons like his phone needs charging I can charge my phone and still reply ...

Would it be awful if I finally confirmed the break up over the phone? Or should I go round?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

4 January 2015 (F) - Hello I'd like some advice please. My boyfriend and I have been having problems for a few months now due to the fact he is a compulsive liar and was talking to other girls inappropriately. I went round to see him yesterday with the intention of ...

My ex girlfriend's new guy snooped on her facebook and found our hookup messages.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

4 January 2015 (M) - SOOOOOO here's the thing. Roughly 6 months ago my gf and I broke up. we had been together for 3 years and best friends for years before. We had just been fighting for a few months because the struggles of life (bills school etc) had gotten to us. ...

I made out with someone else on a break with my fiancé

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3610 days ago

2 January 2015 (F) - Hi. Please, for the love of god, don't judge what I'm about to say. I'm already beating myself up over this. I just need advice on how to handle the situation and possibly get rid of these damn dreams. I just really want a fresh start with my brain ...

I'm in a new relationship but noticed topless photos of another girl on his laptop

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

2 January 2015 (F) - I'm in a new relationship with a guy I met online. He moved from Paris to Canada about 2 weeks before we met (we met online). Anyways, it's been going great, he's respectful, caring, romantic. But the other day, we were together and he was playing ...

Maybe or maybe not in love with a taken guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3610 days ago

1 January 2015 (M) - Hey, this is going to be a long post but I am dying to talk about this. This past April I met a guy online and we just cammed with each other. We continued to do it every once in a while and I thought he was handsome and nice but nothing els...

Am I just being selfish that I want a life with this woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3610 days ago

1 January 2015 (M) - I have been married for 13 years (22 when married), have two kids of 10-12 years. Very soon we started having problems in our marriage. We were arguing all the time, and at my point of view, she was very negative, making a problem for ever...

Why is my B/f so hesitant to let his ex know that he is with me? And if he's wanting to save his chances with her, why is he talking about a future with me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3610 days ago

1 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now. Throughout this year, he has kept in touch with his ex. They speak on the phone to keep in touch. During their phone convos, he has never mentioned to her that he is dating me. I didn't mind...

How much texting is too much texting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3611 days ago

1 January 2015 (F) - How much texting (of the opposite sex) is considered flirting or cheating when you are in an exclusive relationship? I got angry after discovering my bf has been texting other girls almost everyday. I asked to see his messages but he deleted them ...