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writes:My husband has been chatting to women on a game site, what he has said to them is very explicit.I confronted him and he said he doesn't know why he has done it and it was only words, he said in a conversation that he was going to meet said women, x3 women that is on the same site.He then says he adores me bla bla bla, how can I trust him, he did it a year ago to please sny advice is needed Reply to this Question
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reader, lyndy +, writes (13 January 2015):
My new bf was doing this when I met him I waited for him to fall asleep them blocked the site and the women he was friends with just said he had a virus on his computer and phone lol x
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (8 January 2015):
 What is your love life like? No relationship goes south by itself. It takes two people to destroy a marriage. Sure we blame the man because he was caught doing something wrong. But what about you? What have you being doing to keep your man's interest on you and only you??Most marriages fail when the people in it stop doing their part. They get comfortable, stop trying to get their man/woman because we are married now.Marriage does not turn off our needs. We still have them, still want them looked after, and if the man's, or woman's needs are not being dealt with...guess what happens??So although your husband was wrong, it does not mean you are in the right either. Don't you think it's bad when a woman in an online game can peak your husband's interest when you are right there in the physical world???That also goes for any man who makes it easy for a his wife to be charmed by some stranger.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2015): He's using a game site as a hookup site. Apparently that game site has no rules of conduct; if he can make explicit comments to women.
Sorry, your final comments are a little confusing. "sny'(?)
"he did it a year ago!"(?) Was that the last time he did it, or was that the first time?
When husbands start flirting and coming-on to other women; then dismissing it likes it nothing, they doesn't respect their wives. She's simply the maid, cook, daycare provider,
laundry lady, and an extra paycheck. A roommate with benefits. He considers his marriage license toilet paper.
She's next in-line behind the pet dog or cat in importance.
The odds are tremendously high that he's cheating, or trying to. He knows you're not going to do anything about it; except maybe bitch, moan, whine, and complain. He knows you feel helpless, and don't have a clue what to do about it. He also knows you lack the courage to do anything drastic.
He's not really concerned there will be any consequences for what he's doing. He's almost mocking you.
Time to decide if you want to stay married to him.
If you don't trust him, why keep him? Grow some nuggets!
Use your backbone! Call a lawyer!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2015): Urgh men! He sounds incredibly disrespectful if he can do thst to you, me personally wouldnt put up with it, but if you feel you can move foward then give it ago. Good luck.
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