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Archived questions from: April, 2013 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

It's getting harder to resist my urges!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

30 April 2013 (M) - Hi all I'm a 28 y.old guy and I've been in a good relationship with my 24 year old gf for more then a year now. We love each other, and spend all our spare time together. It is important to mention that I find her very attractive, yet, I can't sto...

How do I get my girlfriend out of my house? I'm sick of her lies and her cheating...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

30 April 2013 (M) - I have been dating a girl for almost two years. She has constantly lied and told me she was not talking to guys. She talks to guys that don't help her I help her financially and emotionally, and I have taken care of her when she is sick or car ...

He left his first love for me. Now how do I learn to trust him, despite his past track record of distrust?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - I have trust issues with my partner, Ted. we met when experiencing the worst times of our lives, and eventually fell in love. became best friends, study partners and each other's greatest comforter. the issue is, Ted had cheated on his former gi...

I'm married with 3 children, one of my children may belong to my lover. How can I make everyone happy? I don't want to lose my husband.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - I got married eight years ago to a man i seriously thought was my soulmate. Shortly after our wedding he started shutting down sexually and left me wanting for more. Since that time i have had a few affairs, nothing that would threaten my emot...

Confused as to why he keeps threatening to go to prostitutes if I do something he doesn't like!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - im in relationship with w for more then five years. the only thing i promised him was that i will never leave him or for sure i will never betray him. but i will leave him if i get to know that he is with other girls. if any girls cross into our ...

Ways in which I can get my emotions out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - This question should be realitively short, but basically i'm trying to find ways to get my emotions out? And it sound strange, but I need help. I have one or two mental health disorders, and I have always beleived the reas...

My boyfriend has asked if I'm ok if he goes to Amsterdam with 2 single friends. I already don't completely trust him! Should I tell him to stay behind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - HI all, Im in a sticky situation with my boyfriend of 3 years, and really need some advice! last year for valentines we went away to Amsterdam on a city break for a couple of days and had such a good time we went again in december, my boyfriend has ...

Boyfriend cheated once, now he has a second chance, will he do it again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 3 months broke up for about a month, due to the fact I had caught him cheating and chatting up other girls. It all started when we were about a month in, and he was accused of kissing a girl at a party, w...

Breaking up with a married man.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Hey everybody. Thanks for choosing to take the time to read this. So, I was involved with a married man. Over time, it started taking its toll on me. (He initiated the flirting, I stayed away because I knew he was married, he started initiati...

Why am I dreaming about the girl my boyfriend cheated on me with??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - So, mad question....i keep dreaming of the girl my boyfriend cheated on me with??? im nice to her in the dreams...here's my story we have been together 4 years now i have 3 kids 2 are his my eldest from a sperm donor (lol) hugs my partner took on we ...

Is it ok to kiss others if you are dating but not exclusive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - Honest opinions on this, if you are taking a girl out on dates, so you are dating now. Is it okay to still kiss other girls, or does that count as cheating even if she isn't your girlfriend? I don't mean a lot of dates only about 2 maybe 3, but s...

He calls me immature for questioning his relationship with his ex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - I have a serious problem with my boyfriend. We have been together for five years and have a three year old twins. His ex girlfriend, who is also his other child mother is a serious problem in our relationship. He cheated on me with her multiple ...

Is she being practical or shallow? Dumping me for a rich old man? Can our relationship be saved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - Yeah, I'm a 25 years old guy working as an architect, ambitious and I love what I do. Always recommended by higher managers, you can say that I make good money compared to a new starter, and receiving better job opportunities from other companie...

Yes she is married. At the last minute she ripped up the divorce papers.How can I be friends with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - I’m in a sticky situation. I’m in love with a married woman and she’s my first love. It’s really hard. See they were getting divorced but still sleeping in the same house(different rooms and beds}. She had the papers and everything suit ...

Truthful? Can I trust her? Is she going to screw me over again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - I have been dating this girl for almost four years, we love each other and have been through alot together, divorced parents, long distance, the works. Last october we had an incident, she cheated on me (kissed a guy at the club) then proceede...

What he said to me made me so sick to my stomach that I didn't sleep all night. What are my options?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years we had a perfect relationship but then he got addicted to drugs. I had to become more of a mom figure to him. Then a girl friend due to everything he was getting himself into. But through it all I stuck by h...

He's separted from his wife but still legally married . We've been dating but now he wants a break. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles, this may be long so I apologize in advance. I have found myself in a situation I can't really talk to anyone about, except all of you. For seven months now I have been in a relationship with a gentleman who is separat...

I'm distraught about his actions. He's been lying to me and talking to another woman on line. Do I stay quiet or confront him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4219 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Not long before my fiancee and I got engaged, we had a fidelity issue- on his part. It took me a long time (and I am just summing this up to keep it short) but eventually I forgave him. Its been YEARS since then but sometimes I get bitten by the b...

Involved with a married woman. So why is she acting this way? Why is she treating me like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

24 April 2013 (M) - hey guys i need advice. ive been involved with a married woman for about 7 months. i know its wrong but hear what i have to say please. we started off as friends good friends. talking everyday spending a few hours together. and i started falling ...

Which cheater is worse? I want your opinion of the women in these scenarios.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - i was just having a discussion with someone and i was wondering what you guys think of these 2 situations. my question is regarding the females of these situations. Scenario A: a couple (Tom and Lisa) has been together for 1.5 month. the girl,...

How do you stop becoming obsessive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Hi. I was hoping to find some tips here since I'm really, for the first time in need of help from others. I've had a really awful relationship of 3 years to early 2011 and I felt I was recovered from it. However, I've kinda developed an obses...

Pregnant and he finishes with me?? What the...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. This may be a bit long-- but please bare with me. I'm very shocked. I found out yesterday I am pregnant. I'm 24 and very fortunate to be in a good well paying job with a good maternity package also. I have been with my boyfriend for...

I created a fake ad on Craigslist to see if my boyfriend would make contact. He did, now what do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - A little background info first: my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years. He always told me I was his first love and I'm the first girl he's even considered marriage with and so on. His family has even told me I'm the first ...

Do you think anyone would be upset by his actions? I'm doubting myself and I feel like I'm in the wrong all the time.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend seems to have 2 personalities. He said he come to dinner with my parents earlier but then changed his mind, my mother went to the effort of cooking for him so I told him he was being rude. He went out and I have no idea where he is and ...

I'm being accused of cheating because I bruise easy. Men don't trust me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - I divorced my husband with whom I had an almost ten year relationship due to the fact that I could no longer take his jealousy and accusations. I had never been unfaithful to him. Part of the accusations were my bruises, I am clumsy and bump into ...

Hubby has no job and exchanges sexual pictures with girls online. Help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - Ok im not sure what way to turn... i can really go to my friends like i want too because i dont want them to judge.... but all ive done is cry today... i been with my husband for 15 years off and on but only been married 4 months... we have 5 lil ...

I lied to hubby about child being his, marriage is unhappy and another child on the way! Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - I am 35.I met my hubby 2009 through a friend. Immediately we fell in love. I have a good job. He works as shop cashier. I was abit uncomfortable and embarrassed with this, but later accepted him. He however intelligent, hardworking. He was sharing ...

I pushed her away in the past, but now we've rekindled the spark, but we are both married and not sure how to proceed.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

20 April 2013 (M) - This is hard to share. I met the love of my life (I'll call her Jane) in High School. It sounds typical, but it's true. We dated for three years, and it was love from the very first moment. Those three years were the best of my life. The feelings...

I feel like a dating mess. Insight welcome. How can I meet someone new?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

20 April 2013 (M) - I was in 11 year marriage that was dying a slow death. I wasn't happy neither was wife but for some reason neither of us knew what to do. I was approached by coworker and had affair. At the same time wife was too. She chose affair over marriage...

Am I crazy to think the man I"m dating is secretly having an affair with a married woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - I started dating a man 53 whom is newly divorced few days back in Feb 2013. Yet he is always talking about this woman whom helps him with his dad. My guy's Dad lives with him. The woman who helps is also married and is a co-worker of his. This ...

I feel like I'm second best in all this, to him. He chooses her over me. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

19 April 2013 (F) - I'm in trouble I need help...my boyfriend and me had a girl as a friend but after I trusted her with everything..with the first bump (he thought I was cheating) this while I couldn't even handle any guy even relatives next to me..and she told him ...

Girlfriend sexting and texting nude photos to other men

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

19 April 2013 (M) - hi my girlfriend and i have been seeing each other for nine months.i just found out she has been sexting and sending nude pics to other guys. im crushed but i love her. trust is an issue now.i was given a really lame excuse about it all. its been a ...

Being cheated on and the other girl getting pregnant I don't know what to feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

19 April 2013 (F) - I've been in a relationship with the love of my life, but with every relationship there is a problem, he kept me a secret for 3 years and always had time for his ex he would never contact me when she was around and told me that she was just really ...

BF cheating with his EX, Help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

18 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend confessed to me that he took his ex home to northridge yesterday when i ask him when was this he change the subject on me than he told me it was last wk. i think he is cheating with her please help....

The Cheating young Husband and an older wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

18 April 2013 (F) - I have been with my husband for four and a half years he has cheated 3 times and treats me like crap, will his cheating ever stop, is it my fault? He is 25 and I am 50....

I`m bisexual and married and am deceiving a good hearted lesbian.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

18 April 2013 (F) - I`m a bisexual married woman and have fallen in love with a woman who`s a lesbian. She doesn`t know I`m bisexual or married. She`s fallen in love with me as well because she tells me all the time. The thing is I`ve never told her I`m in love with ...

My boyfriend constantly accuses me of cheating and I don't know why!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

17 April 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am twenty years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. Shortly after we got together, I became pregnant. Through out out relationship we have had problems as all couples do, but it has been worse here lately. He ...

What's the best solution? My LDR who lives in another country? Or the new guy who wants to see me again later this year?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

17 April 2013 (F) - i have a long distance relationship, my boyfriend (A) is in one country and I am in another country, One time, I met my past puppy Love,(B) and we felt the love between us again. I'm realy in love with him. And I can feel that he is too much in ...

Am I wasting my time trying to save this marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

16 April 2013 (F) - My husband of 13 years had affair that went on for 6 months. She didnt know he was married and he never told her. Didnt. Take long for me to figure out what he was doing and i never left our home all info i learned thru different things. Its been 6 ...

I kicked him out for cheating and now he's begging to come back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

16 April 2013 (F) - I am 35 years old and have been with my husband for 7 years .. i found out 8 months after our marriage that he was cheating on me even before we got married... I forgave him.. in Sept 2012 i lost my baby at 6 months pregnant and 2 weeks later fo...

Married coworker loves hugging talking to me but won't leave his wife. What is his game?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

16 April 2013 (F) - How can I make him feel differently? Ok i am infatuated/obsessed with/in love with a male colleague. I put all 3 as I am not entirely sure what it is yet. I work with him everyday very closely. In fact we cannot avoid being in close proximity...

I told him about the dreams that kept me from sleeping and he reacted harshly

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

16 April 2013 (F) - I've been having reoccurring dreams lately about discovering that my husband cheated before we got married. These dreams have been vivid enough to wake me in the middle of the night and upset me enough to the point of not falling back asleep. ...

Do I tell my girlfriend I got 2 drunken pecks on the cheek? Or let it go?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

16 April 2013 (M) - Hello All, Quick overview on the situation: I have been dating this woman, whom I love deeply, for about 6 months now. We live about a short distance apart and I shortly plan to propose to her. She is definitely the one for me. I couldn't imagine...

How can I simmer down the relationship between my boyfriend and the girl living with his family?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

16 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of 8 months is worrying me. He has never had a girlfriend before me for more than a month. When we started the relationship, we were living together, alone, and I was working. I didn't know at the time but he had cheated on his previous...

Are there danger signs in this relationship or am I just insecure?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

16 April 2013 (F) - I have a boyfriend I love very much. He understands me more than anyone I've ever met and loves me for who I am, even my bad qualities. I care about him so much and can't keep him off my mind, which is something I definitely never thought I'd ever ...

Husband cheating, left me. How do you go on after this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

16 April 2013 (F) - im soooo hurt. i dont know what to do with myself, or how to get over this betrayal. my husband of 15 years was caught red handed with a 23 year old. and now he has packed his stuff and told me he does not love me anymore.... i dont understa...

Am I fooling myself into thinking we could get together again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

16 April 2013 (F) - Hi, here is my situation: One night i got drunk and kissed a guy. I told my boyfriend the morning after and he broke up with me. That same day we broke up i got depressed and slept with the guy. A week after my boyfriend and i got back together. 2 ...

Should I marry a girl I love but has cheated and lied to me in the past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

16 April 2013 (M) - Hi, I ve posted on this website before and I ve found the answers helpful so I am back looking for some more advice please. Should I get married to my on off girlfriend of four years given that we have had quite a volatile relationship? ...

Do I tell him that I was intimate with another guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4230 days ago

14 April 2013 (F) - I don't know where to start with but... I after finishing 12th always wanted to have a loving and caring boyfriend...when I entered B.tech i stayed at the hostel where i found that almost every girl is committed to someone...I too wanted to have a r...

He's still with his girlfriend, so why is he still seeing me? Does he like me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

14 April 2013 (F) - I was seeing a guy about 3 years ago and we never broke it off In bad terms we just fell apart .. So he ended up with someone and i was really happy for him so last year i messaged him and we spoke about the past and he asked if he could come ove...