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Archived questions from: October, 2012 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Is my girlfriend getting on line and chatting because she is at home and bored?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - While I am out at work my girlfriend does nothing all day except chat to guys and flirt on the internet. I have found out about this now for the fourth time in a year. We almost broke up for good, and now I find she is doing it yet again. It is hard ...

Boyfriend reflecting his guilt on me, can this all change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - I've already posted on here a few times due to relationship problems but I'm really miserable with it now, I'm constantly thinking and worrying, and as a result I'm on edge. I can't enjoy work, university or time with friends, because I'm so bogged ...

Break up or stay with her? She's warned me that she may want to sleep with another guy, just randomly, in the future.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - My girlfriend has told me that she thinks there will come a time when she wants to sleep with another guy just randomly. She said she doesn't know when. She said that she now considered us to be only slightly more than friends but wants to stil...

How can I get out of this confused mess that's happened since I split up with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - im in a right mess split up with my ex. A few months back we occasionally slept together i recently found out he was dating this girl. I felt really hurt as he had slept with me two days before i found out. I went mad and messaged her to tell her ...

Should I let her remarks undermine my trust in him? She claims I was second best, that he chose me because her friend didn't want him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - Hi I found out my boyfriend cheated on me a few years ago Anyways we got back on track solved all the problems in our relationship, and everything was going great. We have a child our own home and I am madly in love with him. My problem is a ...

What is your feelings on someone getting drunk and making out with another person?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - Hey guys and girls, about three weeks ago I started dating this girl named lets say Cindy. We spent a lot of time together just watching movies, having sex, talking, and really liking each other. Cindy even bought me a Star Wars t-shirt when s...

Is this the sort of person I should date? He lied and now says I'm making a bid deal out of things

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - I have been going out with my bf for a year. I won't call myself psychic but let us just say I have a very strong 6th sense that is never wrong: normally they come in the form of dreams which will be recurring. (Keep an open mind here please, don't ...

My boyfriend cheated on me. Has anyone taken their cheating boyfriend back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - FIrst my question is, is there anyone out there who took their boyfriend back after cheating and is still happy today? With trust and no more cheating? My story: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years now. He is my first and ...

Did my alcoholic husband cheat on me, and was it to get back at me for cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - My husband has a drinking problem and likes to stay out later than I think is right especially on weekday nights. Things haven't been going well for us and on Monday we decided that he should stay in the camper for a little while. On Thursday...

Long term boyfriend looking up ex girlfriend on facebook!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - I know this may seem dumb but I need some advice on how to deal with this. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years planning our marriage now. he is my first. from the beginning I knew he had an ex. nothing special from what he told me. ...

Why does he need to date one last girl before he can commit to me? Should I wait while he does this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Help me please ? I am devastated by the fact that the guy I am dating told me he needs meet one girl to be sure he really loves? The guy I date said he thinks he loves me and we have been seeing each other for 3 months now. We were making pla...

Husband is away. I'm feeling horny. Should I give in and be unfaithful while my husband is away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Am a girl of 26 married with two kids. My husband traveled out of the country a year and 5 months now I don't know when he will be coming back. The problem is that am feeling lonely and horny, many guys do comes around to have sex with me, wh...

My Gf will not give up on me and yet her loyalties are divided. She's cheating again. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - My gf is torn between two. She left me in the past for this women and she is currently is doing it again. So I broke it off but we still live together and she sits and lies to my face about the situation but when I cough up everything she w...

After all this time I still can't get over my wife's deceit and betrayal..help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

29 October 2012 (M) - I am in a real mess and am extremely in distress. I hope I will get some help from here. Phase 2: Aster, marriage, kids and all other staff. Here is my story. I married my girlfriend of four years; only to find out she was unfaithful and l...

My husband left me for a 19 year old and took our kids with him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - I have two children, a 16-year-old son and a 21-year-old daughter. Me and my husband have been married for 20 years now. I'm 42, and he's 45, and recently he left me for a 19-year-old and moved in with her taking the kids. I'd gone out to work one...

My partner is accusing me of cheating because of my body!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - i am in a relationship of more than 20years, now my partner is accusing me of cheating he told me that my vagina is loose from the outside i am worried because he said he will end our relationship and yet i have no cheated, please help me ...

This is a very bad situation, but who do I choose ? And how do I solve this problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

29 October 2012 (M) - ok, worst situation ever. the type that makes a man not feel like a man. ill try to keep this extra short.. this all started 2 and a half years ago. at the time i had been with my girlfriend for seven years. we fought all the time. arguing. s...

Is my Bf involved sexually with an older lover? He says no. His text to her implies yes. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Am I over reacting or what? My boyfriend has an older lady friend who stays at our house quite frequently, helps us out a lot. They've been friends longer than I've been around and she's like 20 years older than him so I never thought twice ab...

Married user man vs nice guy

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - Hi, I have been in an affair with a colleague of mine for about 5 months now. He told me he is having a really tough time with his fiance that he has known for 10 years and lived together with. They are separated now and live in different states. ...

How to earn my wifes love back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - my wife and i have been together since she was seventeen and she is now 21. we had a very passionate realationship before our marriage and before our son was born. i lost my career before marriage and went into the marriage depressed. i have not ...

She thinks I'm telling lies. So many misunderstandings. How do I convince her that I am the one telling the truth?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - i posted a question a couple weeks back and got some good feedback. i wanted to see if i couldn't get a few more opinions and elaborate on the most recent happenings. about six weeks ago, my girlfriend had asked to use my phone to look something u...

What is the best way to support and deal with an emotionally damaged boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months. We met online and before I got into this relationship I knew he was damaged. All I know that one or more past girlfriends have cheated on him other than that I don't know a lot. He is very gua...

Has my boyfriend really changed?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - I have had a rocky 8 months to say the least, with my first ever boyfriend and now i'm just wondering has he really changed? I first met my boyfriend when i went back to school after missing a year, i was sent to learning support ...

I think my girlfriend likes somebody else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - I try to be the best Girlfriend i can Be To MY Girlfriend, I think she like this Dude. He was on her, and they probably would have kissed if i wasn't righ by her side. I asked her do, she like him she said no, but i feel like she do.. I just need ...

I have the hots for my sister's husband!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - I am 36 F. I know what I think is wrong. but it is difficult for me to stand this. I think it is due to I am Pisces and he is Scorpio by Sun sign. I am interested in my younger sister's husband. We flirts and he calls me to talk personally. I feel h...

He did things with three different girls, but only told me there was two. Should I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - I got back with my boyfriend two months ago after breaking up with him due to are relationship just being a real mess. We broke up for about a month before getting back together but during that month we both made mistakes and just moved on too quic...

He makes racist inappropriate comments. Now it seems he may have been seeing a local prostitute of the same race he vilifies. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is nearly 40. He makes comments all the time if we are out and see an oriental woman with a man he immediately says "oh look it's bought your wife". He even said that my friend who was 27 and going out with a 42 year old was going ou...

Do I choose to love the one I'm with? Or the exLDR who loves me but doesn't want an LDR again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - Hello everyone. Any answers at all are so appreciated! I have been in an LDR for 2 years now. It's working fine. Before my current boyfriend I had a different LDR but with a guy who I had never met. I broke up with this guy before we got to mee...

Which woman understands me best? I feel more love for this second woman. What should I do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

25 October 2012 (M) - i have a baby with someone and i stay with her, but the problem is i have beendating someone else, for more than a year now. The other woman and I love one another so so much. It is like my first relationship ever ,we talk ,we laugh and we understan...

Do I need professional help? I STILL can't get my ex brother-in-law out of my mind!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4410 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - Can't get ex brother-in-law out of my mind! I'm going to try and make a long story short! I'm still attracted to and in love with my ex brother in law and I can't get him out of my mind! It's driving me crazy! We has sex one time, and use ...

Girlfriend of 3 years has confused feeling between me and another...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I had been together for 3 years, it has been the best 3 years of my life, we have conquered every kind of task possible. we even had to do the long distance thing for about year because she went to school elsewhere. we had fought ...

We are about to move into a new house but I'm worried he's cheating again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - I've got trust issues with my boyfriend as he has cheated on me before. I try to let go of my in securities but it seems hard to let go. Now it seems like he has met someone new. He now takes good care of himself which is something he never did ...

Should I call to get this ex-player back in my life? I love him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - Yes he talks to other girls while we were dating... Yes I know he was cutting them off one by one as he did not like his behavior but I broke it off before he could cut the last one off so he continues to talk to her. Now it's been eight months, I...

I am seeking people's opinions of my actions in this failed relationship. What do you think?. I did some bad things, so did she.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - so i started seeing a girl as friends id heard a lot about her ( she's easy,been with this person,been with that person etc etc) but i didn't care because i make up my own mind about people and me and this girl got on great so after about a month of...

Is he worth my time? Can I believe him or is he stringing me along? he says he loves me, that he would like to marry me one day.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - first of all I’m just looking for advice not for people to judge me. Well I am 18 years old and there is one guy that is about 15 years older than me. He would always flirt with me and he would say stuff to my sister so she could tell me. Ab...

I thought marriage was all about cherishing the one you love. All he does is cheat? And ignore his children and me. Should I break up with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - I have been in this relationship for 7 1/2 years and I have been married 2 1/2 years. Through the time of all these years. He has done nothing but cheated and he feels like its not a big deal at all when he gets caught in his lies or the females ...

Ex and I are both lonely but he won't give in and give us a chance

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - My ex and I were married for 38 years and I found out he was cheating for the last five of those years. He divorced me over my objections, and was willing to pay dearly for it. Now he doesn't see the girl as much (she is married) but I think they ...

Psycho girlfriend treats me so badly ever since she thought I was cheating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - What can I do to cover my own butt? My girlfriend of 2 years has anger issues. It all started a year ago at a friend's wedding in New York. my phone died and when I got back into our hometown she refused to pick me up from the airport. she was ...

Boyfriend's habits have changed. Is he cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - I just need a clarity on this matter. My boyfriend is those kind of guys that wear uniform to work and changes their shirts maybe 3 times in a week. My concern is that this past 2 months he has been acting strangely, he now changes the shirts ...

Why do I keep on wanting what I can't have, namely: married men? Is there something wrong with me? What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - Why do I go for married men? Even though I know it never works! I really like this guy, who is quite a lot older than I am; and married! He confessed he had fallen for me, I tried to convince him he hadn't because he was married, but I knew that ...

Should I leave him? I'm tired of feeling 'second class' and "not quite good enough for him".

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - My husband and I have been together now for about 14 years. We have 2 beautiful children. However, i am so sick of dealing with his selfish ways. He has cheated 3 times, the first was about 9 years into our relationship and was a full on relations...

Why does my husband keep going on dating sites looking for women? he knows I know. So why does he keep on hurting me like this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - For at least the past 6 months I was coming across my boyfriend going on dating sites to chat to different women. Of course, he has always denied it and called me weird and neurotic. He knows that I know, so why won`t he tell me if there is somet...

Has my Boyfriend cheated on me with his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - Dear all, I am so hurt and miss my boyfriend after breaking up with him. I will try to keep this short, i meet him last Feb. we hit it off. Initially we started off fine, met him saturday nights with my friend and his, it was difficult to get o...

He 'likes' so many sexy girls on FB. What should be my plan of action tl deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - Hi there. I have a bit of an issue and was wondering what you guys and girls think. My boyfriend of less than a year has started "liking" pages on fb that feature bikini-clad/naked girls that post daily pictures. He liked one today and it really h...

Can I stay close to my BF's family if we finish our affair? Life with my husband is not good. And My BF now has a new GF.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I am married without children and i have a lover. we have been seeing each other for 4 years now and for the the first year we were only friends. I am not happy with my husband but i dont want to leave him as he is a handsome guy and it ends ther...

But which one? The guy who drinks a lot and is cheating on me versus the nice good looking guy? And why do I still feel so much for the first guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I am confused, i am in a good relationship with a great guy, who loves me and the sex is great. however he's in a relationship with the mother of his daughter.(they stay in the same house, she doesn't have anywhere else to go, plus he loves th...

We've been fighting every day for months. Is it any wonder I have trust issues over her sexting etc

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now and we've been fighting nearly everyday for the past few months. We have sat down and talked about this and the arguments stopped for about a week. Now it's the same old arguments. Heres the tricky p...

B/f accuses me of cheating on him but I didnt do anything wrong!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend a year and a half. We live together and have never been apart more than a day. He is constantly accusing me of cheating on him and doesn't trust me at all. (He is 40 and I'm 27 by the way) Every single girl he has ever ...

Can I trust her? Does not seem so. What should I do about this unacceptable situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4414 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - My girl and I been together for 3 years. It was great until freshman yr of college wen i started having trust issues and then we became unstable. She cheated on me with a guy then told me a month later they had kissed; it took awhile to get over but...

My married lover is putting up barriers to me seeing her. And she wants to hide me from her children when her divorce goes through. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - Hello, I'm going to give the whole story of my situation. I know it's morally wrong but no one is perfect. So please don't respond if you want to talk about morals. I just need some honest opinions with my situation. I have been in a relationshi...