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Boyfriend's habits have changed. Is he cheating?

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Question - (23 October 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 October 2012)
A female South Africa age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I just need a clarity on this matter. My boyfriend is those kind of guys that wear uniform to work and changes their shirts maybe 3 times in a week. My concern is that this past 2 months he has been acting strangely, he now changes the shirts everyday. Doesn't want to be with me on weekends alwys something comes up. He's the kind that doesn't like to sent sms often let's say at all. I was fighting with him over the fone on friday so he suggested that I must come on saturday and he will call me later but never called, as I was preparing to see him that day I called an he told me that he is going to see his parents. To my surprise he didn't mention that to me as we are having issues that we need to sort. I was furious and angry then I typed some message to him, he replied and said 'okay sharp!!!!!' Which is something he had never ever did in his life. The only word he knows to type its when he says' morning my love or hi love that's all. I'm getting worried about us as I've been with him for 6 years. He has cheated before but I've let the past be the past. I'm really stressed about this. Please give me your honest opinions and advices!!!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2012):

If he has cheated on you in the past and you are seeing that his behavior/habits have changed, trust your instinct.

Now you need to change your behavior, as hard as it may be, don't contact him, and don't take his calls. Someone who has cheated on you, isn't worth stressing over. Good luck.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2012):

It seems more than likely as i experienced a similar behavioural change in my ex boyfriend an this is why he is now an ex he was cheating after 6 years also

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