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Archived questions from: March, 2012 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I now regret taking him back after his fourth cheating episode!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - my partner of two years has technically cheated on me and i have taken him back for the fourth time and now i am regretting it what should i do?...

I just don't want to hurt anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Ok well I was.with my boyfriend for two years the first year was wonderful. Then he cheated on me hurt me bad but I loved him so much that I gave him anither chance then he started accusing me of cheating the whole time ive been fathful.he dosent ...

How men like making wives jealous

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - This is trick of the mind.My male cousin has been cheating on his wife since time they've been married.We don't know what it is that he's telling her but shes posting things on fb to prove that their marriage is great.He don't tell us much but the ...

Over the past few months our sex life has declined, and he is spending more time taking care of himself.....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4610 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly two years. I realize that over time, sex can dwindle a bit as relationships progresses, but I'm trying to keep the flame alive. He seems, overall, less enthusiastic. I find myself initiating sex most of ...

Is this a game to keep me and three kids on a string, instead of us both moving on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - Is this part of his emotional games? My ex and i have been broke up for 4 mts now. When we were in a retionship our sexlife was non exsistent, we would go months without any intimacy and when we did it was never intimate. We had a good xmas and new ...

What are the boundaries of cheating?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - Ok so I feel like I should know this already but I don't. What are the true boundaries of cheating on ur bf/gf ??? Cause one of my friends thinks it's when u have sex with someone else, another thinks it's when u make out with someone else, so ...

My husband can't keep hard. Is he cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - my husband for the past 2 days hasnt been able to get his penis up, but sitting on the couch yesterday looking at me, rubbing up behind while cooking , and in tje shower he did get it up.... but when time to preform his penis wouldnt do ANYTHING, so ...

I know he'll be dating someone else. How do I forget him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - I'v been in a relationship with this guy who claims he loves me.I asked him why he don't do certain things with me and he replied by saying he just doesn't like doing that.I was cool with it. Some days later,i saw him doing the samething with a ...

Husband wants to have sex with other women and I'm about ready to end the marriage!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - lets make this short and simple......... my husband wants to be intimate with other women. but he wants to be with me. (or so he says) i dont want him to sleep with any one but me. im 39 wks pregnant and it hurts to be intimate. we used to b...

Could my husband really have went to a massage parlor and not have gotten hard?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - Here is my dilemma with some background: I've been married almost 21 years. Late last year I had sex with someone else one time. Felt bad and my husband could tell so when he asked I confessed instead of lying. He promptly kicked me out. We ...

I can't let it go that my b/f had sex with his ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - Should I split up with my boyfriend? To give you a bit of background knowledge, I started seeing my boyfriend after a drunken works night out and it very quickly turned into a boyfriend/girlfriend situation. At the time I was living with my b...

Is it ok to flirt with someone so young whilst doing business? Or am I just jealous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - I was on my partners computer tonight sending email for him on his instructions as he is away when a message came up saying Sally was wanting to talk. I clicked on link and I saw there were messages dating back a few weeks. I was surprised by what I ...

I have serious insecurity problems and they are going to ruin our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - Hello Can anyone help with my issue? I have serious insecurity problems! I have been with my bf for 6 months, when I first met him he was a bit of a jack the lad, out all the time, had girl "mates" calling him all the time, would reply to his girl...

I can't get out of this affair!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - Hi, I need help. I am a maried woman and mother of 2 and had an affair with a man i met on the internet. About 6 months after the affair started my husband found out and i asked him to leave the house because at the time i thought i was in love ...

Why does my b/f treat me so badly now? He never spend money on me or does anything with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - i honestly don't know where to begin, this is going to be a long story but ill try and keep you interested, my friends aren't helpful, and i have a lot to say, i'm hurt, i'm depressed, it bothers me everyday and i can't find a way out, i just can't ...

She's the one who is getting him to cheat on me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - the guy that i've had a crush on finally asked me out, we've been dating for almost a week. and i think he's cheating on me. he's been texting my friend ******** and she's always getting him horny. at first, she said she was happy for us both ...

Can happiness cover up the truth?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - When your hubby is having an affair can you make it go away by letting everyone know that your happy and everything is perfect?...

Does he have feelings for another girl?

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28 March 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I had been together for nearly 4 and a half years. To cut a long story short, he used to work with a girl I felt uncomfortable with because she is very pretty/sexy, confident, flirtatious... you get the picture. I may have felt ...

Friends with benefits for 8 years, then I find out he is married! How do I get over this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - hi everyone, could do with some advice please, how do you get over a man who you see for 8 years as friends with benefits? im totaly heartbroken and there isnt a day goes by i dont think of him. he got married 2 years ago and never told me and yet ...

Should I tell my fiance I had sex with someone while we were broken up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4614 days ago

26 March 2012 (M) - Recently I found out my fiancé had been having an interstate affair and was broken hearted. I broke up with her multiple times in a week but each time I was drawn back. Eventually I left for a few days and in that time I had sex with another woman. ...

Why do I still feel everything is ok with us even though he cheated and we broke up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

26 March 2012 (F) - my boyfriend of 17 months broke up last thursday we have a 8 month old together. we always had problems in our relationship fighting,drama ect. we have broke up 10 but each time we always find our selves back together. like as if something more was ...

Dating a divorced man

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

25 March 2012 (F) - Hi everyone! I have been with this guy for 2 months now and he is in the process of getting a divorce. He was very honest to me in the very first time. He told me after he broke up with his ex wife, he only went out with 4 girls and nothing seri...

I get so tired of having to feel like a sneak like I just want people to know I have found someone else but its impossible

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

25 March 2012 (M) - am having an affair and need advice basically i am married 14 years to my wife I am 40 she is 39, we never had kids because she never wanted them at the time i thought it didn't matter because i was in love with her, i don't need children but about ...

I'm pregnant and he cheated on me. Should I give him another chance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

25 March 2012 (F) - im 19 years old and my boyfriend is 21 years old. Last week my boyfriend went clubbing with his friends and brother while i stayed home alone. I am 6 months pregnant with our first---twins. While he went clubbing he started dancing with this girl ...

What are a man's intentions when he says this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - what does a guy really mean, if he says " you looked pretty fine to me last night?" He has a gf, but they only been going out 2 months, and me and him were emailing b4 they started going out. anyway i turned up to his gig where he was playing ...

Boyfriend said he doesn't feel guilty about cheating or lying to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - My bf of 2 years told me he cheated on me with his ex in October. He told me right after it happened and asked me to pleas forgive him please lets try to make this work. I called her and she tells me jhow this is the only time she crossed the line ...

I want to change to stop this happening again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4615 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - boy keep using me and its making me so depressed, theres this boy iv been texting a while now and he stated clearly he didnt want a gf but he did like me, we only met up once, as we do live about a hour drive from eachother. i accepted this...

He says no but my gut says yes!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - Hello! I'm a female, 40 yrs old. I've been with my husband over 24 years, been married for 15 yrs. There's NEVER been anyone in between, for him or I, I know. However, bout 2 n a half years ago, a problem arose. It was my fault. It has nothing to do ...

Why does my husband like to mentally undress my female unattractive friend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - My husband has admitted that he likes to undress my female friend whom we have met on two occasions, mentally in his mind. However, he claimed that he doesn't find her attractive and is not fantasizing about having sex with her but merely her figure ...

I wanted to extend an olive branch but was confronted with the truth instead!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - What are the chances of a relationship ever working out for the long term if the person is an alcoholic and after breaking off a long term relationship continues to become seriously involved with one woman after another. My ex left me after 7 ...

Am I worrying unnecessarily about his female friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

23 March 2012 (F) - okay im really sorry if this is too long, so ive been with my boyfriend for 9months and i love him to bits. He tells me he loves me all the time. But im really worried at the moment. He's acting differant and he was talking with his parents and they ...

Would you marry your cheating partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

23 March 2012 (M) - Would you marry your partner that you have been cheating with. Do these relationships work? What are the pros and cons. My partner left me after 18,years together for another guy who she has now married...

How do I know if her emotional affair got physical?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

23 March 2012 (M) - I think I am ready for a divorce. It has been 15 months since I found about my wife's affair. She was having an affair with my little cousin brother/best friend. He is married also with one child. We have three children, and have been married ...

Should I be suspicious of my ex husband and our mutual friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

23 March 2012 (F) - My husband and I separated 3 months ago. He thinks I cheated on him, which I did not. And this is still something we are trying to work through. We have some mutual friends and it has been kind of awkward trying to remain friends with them. And he ...

He's too good for me so I don't dare ask him out! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

23 March 2012 (F) - I'm in love with someone who's too good for me. So I've been having feelings for him for over a year. We're good friends but I always feel a bit inferior when I'm with him. He's just so all-rounded amazing at everything. And because of that I could ...

Is a massage with an 'unintentional' happy ending cheating?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

22 March 2012 (F) - Is a massage with an 'unintentional' happy ending cheating? I'm a married woman. Before I met my husband I did take some classes at a massage school. I never persued that as a career (my husband would never approve). However, I am very good at giv...

Major crush on my neighbor, but we are both in relationships! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

22 March 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I have a question. I have this neighbor who lives right next door to me who I have a major crush on for a while. I know he likes me too we flirt all the time and he acts all shy and nervous when we talk. This is the thing, he is with ...

Should I just move on from lying boyfriend and not become cold hearted?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

22 March 2012 (F) - I just found out through fb tht my bf is a lieing dog. And what ive come to find out is tht while I was sticking around wanting his attention and holdin on to his broken promises tht I shouldve been left all the times I was ready to walk away but he ...

My husband blames stress for the cold sore on his lip but it seems highly doubtful, given his closeness with his co-worker. What do you guys think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

22 March 2012 (F) - I need some advise on cold sores. (Okay, let's call them what they really are Herpes.) I have been with my husband for 7 years and not once has he ever had one. But then about a year ago a younger woman got a job at his office. I didn't worry about ...

She lied to me about her relationship with her husband, but I still have to see her at work. What should I do in this situation?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

21 March 2012 (M) - I am married and in love with co-worker since 4 years. We share very intimate relationship like soulmates. Few months back she got married and she started to hide and lie things from me with regards to her relationship with husband inspite of ...

Caught mid kiss, now she wont talk to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

21 March 2012 (F) - I went away recently to visit some family, my nans brother and his step daughter / her husband. We are all very good friends and have met several times before this visit. However this time was different, it started the same as always, meet up as I ...

We are separted, he thinks I cheated. I want to send him a birthday card. Should I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

20 March 2012 (F) - My husband and I are separated for the last 2months. We had a lot of issues going into this, but the main issue now is he thinks I cheated on him. I want to try and work things out with him, and in the beginning he said he did too, but I am not so ...

I don't know why he did this, and why I let myself be treated like trash. Was it all my fault? Or is he partly to blame?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

20 March 2012 (F) - I added a guy i vaguely knew from school on Facebook and he accepted. (this was in 2008) We started chatting online, reminiscing and what not and eventually we arranged to meet up after he got back from travelling. I barely knew him from school (we ...

Is this an unforgivable mistake? Should I believe nothing happened between my husband and the other woman?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

20 March 2012 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 13 years and married 7 this year. We started dating when i was 15. My Husband is my best friend and love of my life. Until Nov. of last year our marriage was great really. We had our fights and my husband w...

We've been married for 10 years but I fantasize about making love with another woman!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

20 March 2012 (M) - Do i love my wife? We're married for five years but no one knows i have a fantasy about making love with another woman! WHat should i do? I don't want to get divorced!...

Is it normal for an attached man to pay for lapdances?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

20 March 2012 (F) - Hi- I'm interested in guys' opinion on this one. Do ou think it's normal for a guy who has a gf to still go to strip clubs on the weekend with his guy friends and to pay for lap dances? I could understand the bachelor party thing and for single guys ...

My wife wants the woman I cheated with to tell her about things before she can let it go!

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

19 March 2012 (M) - hi there i had an affair 11 years ago and my wife found out 14 months ago .The affair lasted 2 a half years and my wife was devastated i have tried every thing possible to win her back.we have been on holidays i buy her flowers all the time and ...

I told my boyfriend about having a lesbian encounter.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

19 March 2012 (F) - hi, i am in college and i have been dating my amazing boyfriend for almost 10 months. he is the best man in the world and i know he was put into my life for a reason. well i went to this girls house who is a lesbian and she started kissing me and ...

I know leaving him is a good idea but the thought of being alone scares me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

18 March 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a total of three years. He has cheated, I only know of about 6 girls but I don't know how many times or who else, one of which was one of my closest friends so I cannot trust him around my friends. He has ...

What does all of this treatment with an ex mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

18 March 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a total of three years, in this space of time we have broken up twice because I have been unhappy. We started out pretty bad- He went out with someone else when we were on a break and then led her on for another 4 ...