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Archived questions from: April, 2012 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

He cheated, prom is only a week away and the dress is paid for. What to do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - Help! I just found out my my boyfriend of 7 months has cheated on me. He kissed another girl while he was wasted at a party....and Prom is a week away. We already have tickets and i bought a $500 dress. My family is super excired to see us go. Im ...

Should I stay with my boyfriend of 6 years even though the spark has gone? Or leave him for the schizophrenic, compulsive liar who I've only ever flirted with over the phone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - I am falling for 2 men, I can't seen to choose who to stay with! one i have been with for 6 years we are both the same age 6 days apart even lol i loved but i have started losing my spark with him. he used to be romantic now he's not hasn't been for ...

I've been waiting for her to leave her husband for me for 15 years! Should I confront her or should I let this go?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

30 April 2012 (M) - I'm still in love with my childhood sweetheart and she said she is still in love with me and we have a child togeather but she is married to another man. I've been waiting for her to leave her husband to be with me for 15 years. What should I do. ...

I'm 22 weeks pregnant and I think he might be cheat on me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - When I started a new job last June, I started a relationship with a man at work. Not the best timing since he was just at the beginning of ending his 12 year marriage. That being said, I guess I'm worried now. I've heard rumors of him cheating, and ...

My Facebook friend is very secretive. Should I cut him loose?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - I met this guy through a facebook friend almost two years ago. We talk only through emails and text. I can say I fell for this man but now I want to let him go but everytime I try, I keep going back. When we first start emailing each other he seem ...

I'm engaged. But should I act on my powerful crush I have with my co-worker?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

29 April 2012 (M) - I have been working with this married woman for about two years. I'm engaged. There was an instant attraction. She is this sexy hipster with a really cute face and a hot body. We started texting and the texts became heated. We decided to pull bac...

Does a lack of sex justify cheating in a committed relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - Could the lack of sex in my relationship have caused my boyfriend to cheat? We were together for 2 years and we both live at home with our parents. We both come from very strict households which made it hard for us to have that "quality time" to...

My ex wants to come clean about why he cheated on me,should I talk to him or let it go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - my ex and I had a 4 year relationship that ended because he cheated on me. I cut off all communication after we broke up until he posted a long status on Facebook about our relationship, and how he made mistakes and his mistakes shouldn't be coun...

Why do girls complain about guy's cheating, yet they do far worse to the good guys who don't

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 April 2012 (M) - I don't quite understand what is going on. I try, so very hard to maintain a relationship. I always go into it with all the hope and care I can muster. Now I'm 26 years old, and I'm single. I've been beaten, broken, crushed, decimated, maimed, and ...

Boy swapping gone wrong?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - Ok, last night my best friend and our boyfriends were hanging out at my moms place. She and her boyfriend are out of town for the week. Anyway, we were partying pretty hard, having a lot of fun. We started playing truth or dare, long story short we ...

I'm upset by friend's affair and its making me question my marriage

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

28 April 2012 (M) - I'm not really looking for advice here, but I've got to write this because I can't talk about it to anyone. Everyone I know is too deeply involved. My wife and I have known this really nice couple for ages. They've been married for about twenty-f...

Guilt over cheating on my gf with my best girl friend has led to me breaking up with my best friend. Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

27 April 2012 (M) - I cheated on my girlfriend of 2 years and told her and we have since broken up. I cheated on her with my best girl friend (the ex-gf and bf don't really know each other). I feel so guilty about cheating on my ex and have now broken things off with ...

Why did my father-in-law have no empathy when I revealed the extent of his son's infidelities?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - I was wondering if anyone could give me some insight or thoughts on the reaction of my in-laws (particularly father-in-law)when I revealed to them, when I was extremely upset, about the extent of their son's (my husband), cheating on me over a 6 ...

He told his ex he loves her then denied it with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - I just saw emails that my boyfriend sent his ex 2 weeks ago, that say how he misses and loves her. There was mention that he had a girlfriend but yet he stated he love her......why? Also he lied to Me by telling me he never bought her an engageme...

I know the cheating is wrong, but I don't know how to stop

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4571 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - i am married for almost 2 years with the man i really love and spend the rest of my life with. as time goes by, i felt rejected to him everytime i want to have sex with him. either he is tired from work and he has a habit of having a hard time to ...

I am separating, but my male friend is dating someone else. Why won't he wait for me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - Here is my story. I am in the process of separating from my husband. The separation is in the beginning stages. We are going forward with it but are in the process of selling our home. Hubby works in another city and is rarely home which makes it ...

Our outlooks are different. I already have a Bf. So why an I crushing on this very different guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - I am very confused. Something very strange is happening to me, and I really need an explanation. I met someone that I have been talking to..l will call him X X and me used to work together and were always good friends, he moved to another...

He cheated and had a baby with another girl, we broke up because of this but he still thinks he can get me back! How do I tell him he has no chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - This guy and I were together for almost a year from 2010-2011. While we were together I thought everything was fine until 2011 came and he told me he had a baby. After finding that out, I ended it with him because the baby was a newborn meaning that ...

My husband and I are not in love anymore but trying to work it out for our child, should I stay or follow my heart and be with the other man I love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - I have been married for about 6 years and am not in love with my husband anymore but am trying to work things out for our 2 year old daughter. I am in love with another man and have tried to stop communication with him but can not. The feelings take ...

Is my fiance having a relationship with her cousin who is in prison?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 April 2012 (M) - I was cleaning my fiancé’s car and notice while in the trunk there were a number of letters in a large bag. The letters were from someone in prison to my fiancé. Curiosity made me read a letter and in the letter it stated that he was going to take ...

I can get past her cheating, but the cause for it is killing me...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

25 April 2012 (M) - I understand this is a lot to read, but please do not answer if you do not read it. It took me quite a while to write down exactly how I feel and I would really like thoughtful answers. I do not believe that "once a cheater, always a cheater" ...

I'm leaving my husband for having an affair and the strip clubs and partying. How do I explain to my children?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

24 April 2012 (F) - I have decided to leave my husband of 22 years due to his recent affair, visiting strip clubs and partying at bars. I have two children ages 19 and 17. They have no idea what their father has done. How do I tell them we are divorcing without me ...

Am I allowed to tell him I don't trust him on his holiday?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 April 2012 (F) - I don't trust my boyfriend to go on a lads holiday with his 2 mates (one who is single and the other who is taken but has the mind of a single boy) because my boyfriend lied to me and cheated on me 2 years ago (hasn't done anything since). Am I ...

How do I move on from my married lover?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 April 2012 (F) - Hi, I have been seeing a guy for 5 months and we had a fight thru text messaging. The guy is married and I am married but separated. One day I was upset with a family issue and after he had not call that morning which he normally does, I sent him a ...

What are the top reasons for cheating?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

23 April 2012 (M) - hello, thanks for ansewering me... i appreciate all advices. one question. Why girls/woman cheat? What are top reasons? Thank you....

I love my friend but he is married!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - Hello, I'm in love with my friend and he loves me as well madly! The problem lurks in the fact that he's married !! First of all, regard the fact that we are muslims while analyzing our story ( as for the traditions, customs, etc..) Las...

How do I get over this worry? I keep thinking he cheated on me with those girls

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - Hello I wonder If anyone has been in my situation or could give me some advice what to do? I have been with my boyfriend for about 7 months now and at the start of our relationship he was out all the time and once he stayed at a girls house ...

I don't want to leave my boyfriend but I don't know how we can go back to being lovers now that I've cheated on him and that we've been living as 'friends' for a year

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and half and we have been living together for a year. He started having serious back problems a year ago and we have not had sex since then. He now wants us to buy a flat together but I am scared of committing ...

I have a girlfriend but was touching up on my best friend. I'm too afraid to tell my girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (M) - So I have been dating my gf for like a year and a half now... About 4months into the relationship I did somthing with my best friend. I hung out at her house and we got a little bit close. We didn't kiss or anything but I was touching up on her and ...

I found out my wife had an affair. 20 years of my marriage have been a lie

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

22 April 2012 (M) - Hi I need help I have been married 33 years and have just found out that the last 20 years have been a lie. 20 years ago she entered an affair whilst I was serving in the Army we had been married 11 years and have two children. I went to war and ...

I know my man is going to meet this woman tomorrow. I am going to confront them

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) - The man I have loved for the past 10 years is once again cheating on me. I confronted him and his lover last year , funny enough about the same time of year. Since he has promised not to see her or meet her. Last weekend I picked up his an...

Why is this lesbian flirting with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) - im a lesbian in a relation ship of 5 yrs,and im flirting with another lesbian in a 11yr relation ship she doesnt love her partner and says she wont leave her they dont have sex anymore so why is she flirting with me? ...

My boyfriend cheated with over 26 women, how do I get over him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) - Dear cupid I need advice on how to stop thinking about my horrible ex boyfriend and moving on with my life. I cant sleep I can barely eat I'm so hurt but anyway here's the story. We were together for three years, high school sweethearts and very ...

I think I'm in love with his brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) - Me and my ex broke up about 6 months ago when we were in a relationship he had cheated on me 3 times maybe more! We was living together so when it ended I moved out I had no where to go so I stayed at his mothers for a bit,I was happy their until I ...

I'm afraid my LDR boyfriend could be texting other girls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

21 April 2012 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy i met online. We met a few times and we get on like a house on fire. The thing is because its happened me alot I'm afraid he might be texting other girls. like he said he isn't but look how he met me. ...

Why do wives cheat on their husbands?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

20 April 2012 (M) - Why do wives cheat on their husbands? Can any of you who have cheated enlighten me? What are the reasons you cheated? Was there anything your husband could have done that would have made it so you would not have cheated? Thanks...

I still can't get over his indiscretion of 3 years ago! What can I do without professional help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

20 April 2012 (F) - To cut the long story short, me and my boyfriend have been together 3 years now. When we first went out, I found out he spoke to his ex behind my back saying sexual things to her. I was absolutely mortified by this, it made me very ill at the time. ...

Can bragging get you caught?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

19 April 2012 (F) - Married man running his mouth bragging that he's been sleeping with an older woman.Wouldn't you think he'd be scared it'll get back to his wife. It's not like the wife don't know this woman they all belong to same organization. Someone even said to ...

Can you please help me understand this insecure man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

19 April 2012 (F) - I've been with this guy 4 years and have had a child together, who's almost 3. At first he always accused me of cheating then it went away for years. Last Saturday I went to work at a fundraiser for my daughter's school to build a new play...

She wont commit to leaving her husband for me, should I keep trying or leave her once and for all?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2951 days ago

19 April 2012 (M) - Hello. For past six months I have been in affair with colleague from work. We are both married, none of us has kids but her husband is often away for couple of months. Things between us developed pretty fast and we soon realised that this is more ...

I've developed feelings for the guy I'm hooking up with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

19 April 2012 (F) - Okay so this is kind of a long explanation so bare with me guys. Alright so about a month and a half ago I got out of a two year long relationship, basically the guy was really controlling and I was just getting fed up with it. Anyways, about tw...

He got another girl pregnant when he and I first started seeing each other

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

18 April 2012 (F) - Basically its a long story but I met this guy about 6 months ago now and at first i didnt think anything would happen. But as time passed I gradually fell for him. You could say we've got a "thing" going on. I probably like him much more than he ...

Do I believe what this married man is telling me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

18 April 2012 (F) - i met this married man at a night club 3 weeks ago he called me first thing the next morning and has texd and phoned every day until last week when we met up ,i texd him yesterday and asked him if we re finished he said no im just busy at work ,?? ...

How do I cope with cheating ex seeing our son and him bringing the woman he cheated on me with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

18 April 2012 (F) - MOD NOTE: Poster wants advice from women in the UK Just after some advice off women in the uk please. I am in court has my ex wants access to our little boy. I have never denied him access and I have always tried to get him to see our son but he h...

Why would a guy who admits to being taken still ask me for naughty pictures and videos?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

17 April 2012 (F) - Why, oh why would anyone who admits to being taken still ask for naughty pictures and videos? I have a male friend who I've known for a year. We met through a mutual friend; and so every time we see each other, we're in a group. Over time this g...

He and I want to make things work, but I'm struggling with his past!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (F) - So here is my story. I have been dating a co-worker for the past 14 months. He is 10 years older to me and single. 6 months into our relationship, I found out that he cheated on me with two other women physically. After I confronted him, ...

I don't think my husband is cheating but we don't have sex very often - he says he is too tired from work What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

16 April 2012 (F) - I don’t think that my husband is cheating (though he has before - and so have I) but we don’t have sex very often. My husband and I are both in our middle 40's and sex began to slow down somewhat a few years ago. We usually have sex two or three...

Husband accusing me of cheating when he had said we were seperated and could do what we wanted!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

16 April 2012 (F) - My husband has cheated numerous times during our marriage. Most recently I became suspicious and recorded a female voice in the house while I was at work. He will not admit to having a woman in the house but he admits to previous activities. I ...

Is it still cheating if I was with a girl not a guy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

15 April 2012 (F) - hey guys..so last nite i had friends over..two girls and a guy..we had some vodka and ended up drunk..this girl and guy left about 2am..and i was left with the other girl..we went inside the house and had sex..it was my first wit a girl.she is ...

Fiance has lost her trust in me because I sext other women

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

15 April 2012 (M) - I need some advice, Me and my fiance have been together for nearly 2 years and we have been fine. However, there have been times where for some reason I would sext other women. I can't say for sure why I did it, I just did. When she found out ab...