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Archived questions from: February, 2010 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I think my best friend's boyfriend may be hitting on me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I'm wondering if my best friend's boyfriend's behaviour is appropriate? We often all go out together,we have all been friends for many years, but when he has had a few drinks he becomes very tactile with me. He hugs me, grabs me and strokes me and ...

Would you consider this cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I seem to have that feeling of distance between us for a few months now. For me- it seems as though he is just comfortable and doesn't feel like he has to try anymore. I believe the two most important things in a relationship are ...

My boyfriend of 8 months just started an account on a dating website

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I've been seeing an older guy for almost a year. I've been living far away from home for most of it, but I go home to visit on the holidays. Also, I'll be returning home for good in a few months. Everything seemed to be going fine until I was snoo...

My boyfriend has other girls listed as 'my baby'. He said it means nothing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - What do you do if you asked your new boyfriend about him having girls number under my baby that isnt you and his reply was that it doesnt mean anything to him?...

Torn between myself, two men and two kids

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - So I have an issue. I have a husband for 4.5 years now. We get along fine with eachother's family, and we have two kids. Just like in every relationship he has promised me many of things and only a couple where fulfilled. Like the movie "The ...

Dating, abortion, cheating, now a break up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Hi there...i am hoping you can shed some light on my current situation...i know i made a complete mess of everything...pls know that i am deeply hurt for my selfish/coward choices...and don't need anyone judging me...i need serious advice. So.....

Should I protect other women from him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I let my self get used, played, hurt by this man. This man picks women that have sworn off men for years and gets them to fall for him. He has a way to make you want to believe him. When you show any distrust he'll tell you its because of the way ...

My Girlfriend cheated but I can stop loving her should I try to get back with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - Hey Guys Ive never asked for relationship advice on the internet before so here goes ;) I had been going out with my girlfriend for just over a year when she cheated on me with one of her house mates.. I wouldnt have ever called the guy...

Should I pursue her even though she cheated with others in the past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - I need some serious advice from someone who can relate or can put themselves in my frame of mind. Quick outline of the plot to my story. My best friend is a girl. I have loved her for a long time. She has always known this. We met online 3 ...

My husband has cheated on me, how do I get over this and forgive him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles, I have been married over 30 years and recently found that my husband has had at least 2 'emotional' affairs (which he admits to and swears they were no more than that???). This has DEVASTATED me. Question is what do I do...

He is bad news, how do I let go!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5380 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - so hurt scared and angry overall confused. last week i told this guy that i like that i had a dream about him i didnt tell him what the dream was about. im gonna tell him ne time i see him i couldnt tell him then cuz i had to leave the dream is no ...

He says my actions prior to our dating permits him to have sex with other girls

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend of 3 and a half years suffers from retroactive jealousy. I was no slut in the past, far from it actually, but still, he thinks I was and that's what's ruined us. He knows a guy to whom I gave a BJ to, he knows that guy was a close ...

Drunken Cheating...what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dating for just about a year, and when I say we were perfect, I mean it. I wanted to marry that boy. He literally worshiped the ground I walked on. We're in a long distance relationship because we're both in ...

My previous boss wont leave me alone and wants sex with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Howdy all well se i have been married for about 12 years now. I did make a mistake a few years ago i slept with my boss. Now he keeps on phoning me and tells me he missed me. me and my husband moved a few months ago to another city somehow he moved ...

What was his mindset when he wrote this???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Recently I found out that my now ex boyfriend had been having an affair for what looks to be two years or possibly more. I found out about this just a few weeks ago and it's shattered my world. I'm trying to pick up the peices of my life and I am...

Do you think I should give him one opportunity to try and explain what happened and why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Hello everyone, I recently found out that the guy I've been seeing for many years has been having an affair. I found this out after that wrenching, knawing feeling in my gut drove me to do some investigation work on the internet.. and sure eno...

How to end a long-term relationship with a manipuator?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - I caught my girlfriend sleeping at this other guy's house who she previously promised not to ever see again. Her car was parked in front. This has happened a few times over the past couple years (we've been together almost 5) and I always forgive. I ...

My husband has gotten his ex wife pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been married for five years, lived together for ten. His son has lived with us for five years, and we have a child together (adopted). My husband recently had an affair with my step son's mom. This is the fourth affair, all ...

She doesn't deserve him but what did I ever do to cause this distance between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - Well here is my story its my senior year in high school and the boy that I plan on pursuing a relationship with is still with his girlfriend of 4 years off and on she cheated on him numorus times and he has taken her back but a couple of weeks ago ...

My ex keeps contacting me, when he was a total jerk!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - If anyone can give me their opinion? I broke up with my ex about 5 months go. He met someone else and i found out about it. However, many times he would try to speak to me again just when I was starting to move on. I would ignore his communication ...

I cheated. What can I do to try and fix things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - Recently, i cheated on my boyfriend with his bestfriend, i feel really guilty about it and made up a different excuse to split up with him, his friend is acting like nothing has happened what can i do?...

He's married, could he be interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - I'm not interested in getting with a married man, but I am wondering what his behavior means so that I know how to act accordingly (if its friendliness, I'll continue to be friendly, if its interest, I'll know to show him that I'm not going to be ...

Should I go out on a date with my friend in spite of being married?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - i am married but i want to be with my friend and he wants to be with me but i don't think it will lead to sex should i go out on a date with him or not? I mean i am not saying I don't want have sex with him I do but we are both a bit more mature ...

I wanted to leave my boyfriend, but he made me feel guilty. Now I am cheating on him with the guy I liked. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - i split up with my boyfriend of 2 years in november as i had feelings for someone else. after seeing how hurt he was i got back with him the day after. it was a rushed decision, just like the decision for him to move in with me and book a £4000 ...

Sould I stop talking to this married man for good?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - Hey, I need your help. Please don't be so mean against me when you read my story, because we all make bad choices and I never planned on being with a married man nor do,I want to break up anyone's marriage. So, here's the story. Some years bac...

I am afraid of the consequences for my family if I leave my husband

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - my husband and i fought 2 days ago because i let my maid wash clothes...my bad relationship started 10 years ago when he started womanizing with about 5 different women....i was submitted to slaps,kicks,gunpointing,shouting,black and blues,all kins ...

Everything I have done has been for him, now I find he is having an affair

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - I found out very recently that my husband was having an affair for the last 6 months. I am not sure if I can forgive him or ever trust him again. It's not like it was a one time thing. He wasn't even the one to tell me, I had to find out when I ...

My husband has cheated in the past and now I think he may be having another affair!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - I hope you can help me I have been married for 22 years and have 2 teenage children. I think my husband is having an affair he is very secretive with his phone I have found txt messages he has sent to a woman he denies everything. He has had an ...

I'm in love with my husband and another guy. Which should I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - I am in love with 2 different guys. One is my husband. We have been married almost 4 years. We have spent more time apart than together. He has a record for cheating on me. He's cheated on me more than count. He says hes changed. He is also the ...

She never says anything bad about her husband. Will she ever leave him for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - I have been dating a married women for some time she says she is leaving her husband but when. She tells me she has no feelings for him. She also says that she has told him already and she says she is not leaving him because of me. She say he is ...

I think he is having an affair with a colleague of mine. How can I find out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - I have been married for the past 3 years to a man who is also my work colleague. We lived together, at my house, for 5 years before that. I was wealthy when we married; my husband was not. Since my marriage, due to a very bad investment, I have lost ...

Insentive girlfriend and I don't know what to do.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - For 18 months i have been in a relationship. I knew she had seen a married man long before we met. I never thought much as mistakes do happen. Yesterday we were talking in bed. Its now she tells me that i`m the only single guy she was interested in. ...

Can I get back with someone who cheated on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - (Mod note: Title set by the poster) Recently, I discovered that my girlfriend of 5 years had cheated on me. I left, of course, and moved out of state. Here's the problem, She is telling me that she is going to do everything to make things right wi...

Does my ex still want me in spite of our current relationships with other people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - Just after some advice really. Known my ex-girlfriend since 2005, split in 2006 because she still had feelings for her ex-boyfriend. However shortly after this we had sex on 2 occasions after a few too many beers Since then I've been married and now ...

I need relationship advice fast. Please ... :(

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - Ok, so me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 and a half years. We both love eachother but she lies to me so much about such little things for no reason. Well, anyway the big problem is today she said she was going to meet another guy and how ...

I still can't accept the fact my ex left me for someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - In know the reason why I can't get over my ex is that he preoccupies my mind. I have tried to to do other stuff, meet people, went on a vacation and spent cash on shopping. But when I am about to sleep and when I wake up, I feel so depressed to ...

Please help me before I do something I regret! I'm sure he has cheated and it is driving me crazy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - I have been married for about 2 years now,everything has been going very well.We loved each other like crazy,beginning of this year 2010.I started noticing my husband started to act very strange e.g when we are going to bed he will switch of his ...

Why am I sabotaging my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - hi, I'm in a wonderful relationship, so good in fact we are getting married later this year. My problem is that recently i have been feeling down and feel that my girlfriend no longer wants me. It has got that bad that i'm now feeling angry, a...

I cheated on my boyfriend and we want to work it out but don't know how to rebuild the trust

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - alright, my boyfriend and i have been together for 8 months now and he lives two states away. today i told him that i had cheated on him and i was wrong, yes. i want more than anything to take it back and that i was very sorry. he was extreme...

Should cheaters get a second chance?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - I found out my boyfriend cheated on me because I checked his email. He has since then apologized, said he really wants to be with me, and has treated me much better like when we first started dating. (I knew something was different when he was with ...

I'm fed up of waiting and believing his promises, so much so that I slept with another man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

24 February 2010 (?) - I have a live-in partner for almost 3yrs. he is a married man but they are separated. he has 1 son on his wife and 1 son on me. since of our being together i always helped him to support his child on his wife, i gave him money for the needs of their ...

Help, I don't love my wife but can see no way out.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - Please help me, I'm in despair. Im 35 years old and married to a woman I can not stand. We have 2 children aged 5 and 3 and have been together for 8 years. We are not compatable at all, I am sociable, she is not, I am fun, she is forever serious....

Is he cheating or am I being paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - So lately I have not been feeling very good about my boyfriends and my relationship. I feel like crying.and also I have a weird feeling that he is cheating on me. Because last week he left work and went to wendys to get some food and he ordered two ...

Devastated...my gf is flirting online! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - Girlfriend is flirting online Today i found out an email by my gf sent to another man. asking him to visit her. and how much she is sorry for not talking to him. i was devastated because the date and the time showed was the time i am sleepin...

The man I had an affair with has called me 8 months after it ended, should I call him back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - I need help! the guy i was having an affair wtih for the pass 3 years called me last night. We haven't spoken in almost 8 months. I don't know if I should call him back! What to do what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

How can I put him past me if he is now coming to me in my dreams? I feel like I have lost my one true love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - I have been married for going on 19 yrs.. been together for 23 yrs. I had a horrible childhood. An abusive alcoholic father. When I got with my husband I was almost 18. Never had the feelings of "TRUE LOVE" with him.. thinking back.. I feel I ...

Is it possible for a man to love his wife but still have a wandering eye?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - Is it possible for a man to love his wife but still have a wandering eye? If the man is so satisfied at home...why would he look at other women? Does it boost his ego or is it just a male testosterone...being a hot blooded male that he can't...

How do I handle this situation? I'm sure she does love me but then there is another side to her that I just don't understand

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - Ok.. need help.. ive turned into something i never thought imaginable. If its long ..sorry LOL. Ok almost 2 years ago i met this girl, well kinda near where i work, she was 40 ish, very attractive. Anyway prior to that i chatted to a guy who was ...

Is silence the best thing here or should I just confront him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - My ex and I dated for about 3 years. In those 3 years we've had our ups and downs. Those downs and break ups largely in fact all to his part. He has cheated, broken up with me, treated me bad and all, then come back, beg do the same thing ...

How can I cheer her up and show her I do trust her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - Hello well Me and my girlfriend been dating for 2 months and we're having a really great relationship right now, then one day I ask her will she ever cheat on me? She said no, but she said "what would you do if I do? never know right?" well then i ...