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writes:i split up with my boyfriend of 2 years in november as i had feelings for someone else. after seeing how hurt he was i got back with him the day after. it was a rushed decision, just like the decision for him to move in with me and book a £4000 holiday for december. my problem... i feel so awful because i am cheating on him with the person that i wanted to be with instead. not only do i feel just disgusted with myself i feel unhappy, confused and i just dont know what to do. i want to be with the other guy and let my actual boyfriend down its just i know how much it will hurt him and we have moved in together and have £4000 on a holiday. i wanted to wait until december until the holiday was over but i am just going insane. it isnt fair on my boyfriend, the guy i want and even me... please help!
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reader, dyeruz +, writes (25 February 2010):
Why exactly are you looking for from here, you're cheating on your boyfriend because you didn't have the guts to say no when you really didn't want to be with him, you know what you have to do but don't have the guts to do it yourself. Tell the guy and be over with it holiday or not, and start being responsible, instead of looking for excuses
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reader, Flyguymyeye +, writes (25 February 2010):
You cannot make an omelette without breaking eggs (well, you can if you're clever... But anyway).You are going to have to leave your boyfriend because it isn't fair on him or you. The other guy should respect the relationship and be patient.Don't tell you're BF you have been cheating as it will tear him apart. What you say only you can decide but be gentle as it seems he loves you very much.Hope that helps.
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