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Archived questions from: February, 2007 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Should I confront my cheating girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - I have been suspecting that my girl has been cheating but i didnt have proof. Two days ago I finally caught her with some guy, who was her ex boyfriend, leaving her apartment but she didnt see me. No wonder, the night before she did not pick up my ...

I am in love but keep pushing him away because I was cheated on in the past. How can I fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6189 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I have had issues the past few years with letting people in. I am in love right now with someone, but I keep pushing him away. It's like I don't want him to love me back. I think this is due to my past of being cheated on. How can I fix this?...

I think my girlfriend is cheating with my ex-best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6475 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - I think my GF is cheating on me with my best friend. Him and I aren't friends anymore because he did something to her when they were alone in his apartment so i stopped talking to him. I just want to know how i can find out if she really is cheating ...

I am in love with my Boyfriend and My girlfriend! I want to keep both, What should I do!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6475 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - I am 23 and had a sexual relationship with an older gay man since i was 17 when i fell in love. up till then i have always just fancied girls, and though i had the odd one night stand (girls) in the 5 years. i have always been in love and happy with ...

My husband cheated and we spent 18 months building bridges, but then I find her number in his wallet!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I am so lost. My husband of nearly 20yrs had an affair for almost a year. He ended it when I found out and we have been building bridges for the past 18 months. Obviously the trust is very shakey thus the reason why I sometimes check his wallet. ...

Found my wife kissing her best friend! It bothers me, should I discuss it or ignore it!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6110 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - Found my wife kissing her best friend,did'nt overreact but feel quite insecure,married for 23 yrs although I suspected that she might have done this before or gone further.Love my wife and kids,what should I do,discuss it or ignore it.It was put ...

Is this just my trust issues coming into play or might he be playing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6476 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - Now everyone has heard of myspace im sure of well there is this new guy im talking to and yes i meet him off of there. We went out on two dates and i saw him at his job and he came to mine. we have so much in common and i really like him. I never ...

Shes asked for a divorce, But also needs money, I want her back, dont know what to do!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6475 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - Separated,no children,12 yr friendship,10 yr relationship,4 yr in marriage. We were best friends, we studied together for sometime. My W confides in friends, Mother and diary but never me. I was insecure,jealous,overpro...

I just found out my boyfriend has been having a sexual relationship with another man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6475 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I am 26 with a young child, i have just found out my boyfriend of 8 months has had a sexual relationship with a much older man for the last 5 years (including the 6 of months with me). at the start of our relationship i did not see much of him as he ...

Should I continue to see my girlfriend who's bi polar? We get on great but there's problems too.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6475 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - im 15 years old and going out with a bipolar girlfriend.I used to go out with another girl and she left me and went out with my bestfriend which i was devastated over and kinda got depressed over and my current girlfriend was with me all the way. ...

Went to a party, got drunk and went overboard with another guy! How do I tell my boyfriend what I did?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6475 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - okay. so i'm completely inlove with my boyfriend. we've been going out for six months. right now he's in the airforce; basic training, and he's been gone for 3 solid weeks, and 3 1/2 to go, at that. i havent talked to him or seen him. i miss him ...

I cheated b/c I thought having sex w/ this other guy would lead to a relationship, but now he's ignorning me! I'm humiliated! Please help.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - i need advice, i have been in a 12 step programme for 2 yrs and met a guy at the meetings i really felt a connection with 1 year ago. nothing happend because i was in a relationship of 12 years already,i left my boyfriend for 4 months to sort out ...

I kissed by flatmate...but I love my boyfriend! Now my flatmate's trying to make me jealous! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6474 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I need help!!! ive been with my boyfriend for a year and we are really happy together, but i moved away to uni last september and i think i fancy one of the lads i live with, we kissed but i felt so guitly coz of my boyfriend, now my flatmate keep...

My husbands persisting affair! It's kept a secret but what can I do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6474 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I have decided to divorce my husband after his second affair in 5 years ( we have been together for fifteen). It is very difficult for me because we moved to a different country with our children and I have no family of my own or close friends. ...

Once a cheater always a cheater? Will he cheat on me too or should I give him a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6476 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hi im in a dilema im in a new relationship with a guy and I really like him. Last night we ended up getting into a conversation about cheating. He admitted that he had cheated on his ex twice basically she cheated on him so he cheated back. Im a ...

I dont know if I have something wrong with me, but I think mentally cheating on someone is way messed up.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6476 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I have been with myboyfriend for one year last month. During that year I found out that he was emailing his stripper ex girlfriend and telling her how much he needed her and she would write back the same, never mind that she was MARRIED. I dont know ...

My boyfriend cheated on me but I forgave him. He still keeps in touch and has had lunch with her since. Is it time to finally let go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - My boyfriend cheated on me with his friend. I decided to stay with with him but i told him that i could never forget what happend. I have forgiven him for the incident. But lately I've found them eating lunch and dinner together. He doesn't like to ...

My girlfriend lied to me about her past relationships, should I stay or should I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I recently went through a break-up. We did our fair share of dirty deeds while we were seperated, but when we got back together we asked each other about the things we had done(not really the best idea we ever had). I told her of ...

How do I catch a cheater?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, Do you think it is alright to accuse someone if they recently started not coming home from work and coming home late when they have not done it before? What should I do stop accusing him until I get proof. Any advice on how to catch ...

Does he really want me and he's just too scared to admit it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - theres this guy and wev been friends for like 2 years but not like realy close close friends. and well everytime we wld get drunk together we wld fool around even tho he had a girlfriend. and well the first time he told me stuff like he wanted me ...

Is there a strong connection between me and this guy or am I imagining it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6477 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - I have a boyfriend whom i've been with for 5 years and he has a pretty high profile job. Recently I met a few of his work colleagues whom are older, but there is one who is around the same age as me and my boyfriend. People at work think he is...

He says 'he doesn't want to marry' due to being hurt in the past. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6477 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - I'm in a serious relationship with my bf of 1 1/2 yrs. I'm 23 and he is 25. I love him very much and I know he loves me very much too. We are now planning to move-in in the next few months. My bf had a divorce 3 years ago because his wife cheated on ...

My current bf doesn't see how I could sleep with someone else when I was in love with him. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6476 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - I broke up with my ex boyfriend at the start of the summer last year because I fell out of love with him... Partially because he treated me badly, partially because I'd fallen for my best friend. My ex and I stayed friends until recently. A li...

What can I do to make things more understanding between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6476 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - hi there myself and my boyfriend have a son of 4yrs old.in the past 4yrs we were experiencing lots of problems. his been cheating on me with lots of women and we broke up and made up.then last year july we made up and things were just perfect ...

Am I stupid that I keep taking her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - Hey. I'm a 16 y/o boy and i need help. I'll start at the beginning, I met this girl wen she was going out with my best m8. She started texting me, telling me she wanted me and not him. I tried to keep away as he is my best mate and it wouldn't ...

I think im driving myself mad with jealousy. Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and i just cant trust him at all.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6478 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) - Really need some advice. I think im driving myself mad with jealousy. Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and i just cant trust him at all. he's a bit of a closed book and something just isnt right with him. Sometimes i wonder do i ...

What should I do? Who should I choose? My current boyfriend or my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6310 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) - i need help here.... it all started when i got back in contact with my ex. my ex and me had been friends before for 7 years and then one night we kissed and everything changed and we started dating. i fell in love with him but he just walked away...

I have a serious feeling my girlfriend is cheating on me. What do you think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 February 2007 (M) - I have a serious feeling my girlfriend is cheating on me. She's really close friends with this guy in Singapore ( she lived there for six years but now we live together in Australia) who is supposedly her "best friend". I have met the guy a few ...

He married and he wants me! Do I upset my parents by being with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) - Hi All, I'm in love with a colleague. He is damn cute, a perfect gentleman, 12 years older to me, is in an unhappy marriage and has a 2 year old son. We're not even of the same religion. In the begining, we just used to talk alot, mos...

He loves me but is going ahead and marrying his finacee! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6478 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) - I am in love with a man who is currently engaged, and i know he feels the same way about me... We have been working together for 8 months and ever since we met we have had a really strong connection. He has been with his fiance for 7 years...

How do I know for sure her and her ex ARE only friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6479 days ago

25 February 2007 (M) - i really need some help, so can someone out there give me some advice. i really don't know who to turn to or what to do... (sorry this is so long) it all started over Christmas, i talked to my girlfriend everyday (we go to school together but live...

I'm 38 weeks pregnant and just found out my boyfriend has cheated with my best mate!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - I'm 38 weeks pregnant, 19 years old and my partner has been cheating on me with my 'best mate' he's moving out on monday but I hurt like mad, I know I'm stupid but I still love him, how can I get over him? Please help! ...

He came home with a lovebite on his neck but said his mates pinned him down and said explain that one to your wife! Do I believe him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6478 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - Has my partner cheated? HI all, well my partner went to his mates last night, they all had a drink and he stayed over. He didnt come home till 5pm the next day and he has a love bite on his neck. He has never given me reason to think he has cheated ...

I've agreed to stay with her but I don't know how to rebuild the trust.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

24 February 2007 (M) - My partner recently cheated on me with her ex boyfriend. she said it meant nothing and she was drunk, at first she denied it and when confronted with overwhelming evidence she still tried to lie about it. Yes the cheating hurt but so did the lying. ...

Do YOU think he's cheating on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6469 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - quite a few times ive suspected my partner of cheating on me, having read messages on his mobile phone, but when ive asked him about it he says hes not doing anything and these girls are just his friends. today i was supposed to be meeting him at ...

My partner had an affair, we have 3 kids together and I just can't get over it, I feel his mom planned it all.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6479 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - My boyfriend had an affair a year ago..We have just started our 9th yr together and have 3 beautiful children.To say i was shocked and devestated would be an understatement. The woman he was with was an ex..she stayed best buds with his mom. I never ...

I cheated on my boyfriend, how can I regain his trust?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend, how can i regain his trust? Me and my boyfriend have been together a year in April. When met in a bar, and this night we didnt realised we liked one another until our friends talked together. But before we knew this (or...

My girlfriend tells me she's 16, her mates tell me she's only 14, I'm 24. She never wants to see me and always has excuses, her mates tell me she's cheating on me, I don't know what to believe! Help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6479 days ago

24 February 2007 (M) - I'm 24 Years old i'm dateing a 16 year old girlfriend who i never see. the problem, i never see my new girlfriend but i have a big heart to dump her for not seeing me. i kind of blame myself for us not seeing each over. v-day i lost the car ...

My husband is texting a woman constantly, is he cheating on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - if my husband puts some womans phone number on his phone under a false name and delets all txts he sends and recieves but only from her, and clears his call register twice in as many days is he cheating? several times i have asked him if he is seein...

She's just a friend but lately...she's been offering more lip than cheek, when we kiss! What's happening with this woman?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6469 days ago

24 February 2007 (M) - I have a very good female friend who I see weekly. We are both married. A couple of months back I went to see her at her home and when we greeted she got more of my lips than my cheek. I dismissed it as simply a kiss between friends. Recently I lost ...

I feel worthless, useless, unattractive and resentful, what can I do to change all this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6476 days ago

23 February 2007 (F) - married 23 years, husband had an affair a few years ago, I cannot get over it, he never wants sex, I cannot initiate it, I am angry and lonely all the time. Each time I say it's over he uses all sorts of tricks to make me stay, money, children...

My boyfriend cheated on me and said he was sorry, it's me he loves, so why is he still texting this girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

23 February 2007 (F) - hi i am 19yrs old i have been with my partner for 4yrs and we have a 2yr old son together i love him very much he has cheated on me once before but he cheated on me again just last week i have decided to give him another chance but the girl he ...

He was still texting females after I asked him not to! Do I forgive him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

23 February 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i had a long distance relationship while he was at uni which was a bit of a disaster because he couldnt stay faithful to me. He finished uni in June, so we decided to give it a go now he's at home. While he was at uni there were ...

If a man lives with and love a woman then why would he get another woman pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

22 February 2007 (F) - if a man lives with a woman that he saids he love and this is the one for him would he get another woman pregnant? and also, would he tell her? the other woman told the guy she wasn't on birth control,nor did she do abortions....

Hubby had an affair and I just found out! Do I throw 10 years away or give him a chance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

22 February 2007 (F) - I found out three weeks ago my husband has had an affair. We have been married for 10 yrs and he has just turned 40. he has spent since christmas being very moody and distant and said it was just things getting him down, fed up etc, however 3 weeks ...

Is there any way I can get him to leave his girlfriend, he says he wants to.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

22 February 2007 (F) - hey. well im in a bit of a situation, i met this guy a year ago, and we got together, for a few weeks then stopped contact for 6 months, then he approached me, and althou we not dating we've been seeing each other since november last year, then i ...

I discovered that my boyfriend has been visiting a known cruising place, a place where guys meet to have anonymous sex. He's told me to trust him but how can I? What do I do here????

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6463 days ago

22 February 2007 (M) - I’ve been dating this guy for the last 5 months and I really love and care about him. Last month, I discovered that my boyfriend has been visiting a known cruising place, a place where guys meet to have anonymous sex. I know he had been there a...

I really don't know how to take this any more, is she taking me for a mug? What's wrong with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

22 February 2007 (M) - I am married and have been for over 20 years. In that time I have had a few flings, as sex with my wife has always been difficult (she was never that interested). However I decided that for the sake of my 2 children that I would never leave my wife. ...

I can have sex with anybody but my wife!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

22 February 2007 (M) - Married with my wife for 5 years now but lately cannot have sex with her. I love her very much though. I can have sex with everybody else except her. The penis wont help me...sometimes even it does help but half down - it just dies down. I dont wa...

I think she was cheating on me before we broke up. She seemed to "move on" way too fast...is this normal behaviour for a cheater?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

21 February 2007 (M) - It's been over six months now since my breakup with my partner of 17 years. She moved on in two weeks of the break up and I suspect that she might have been cheating on me. She would not give me closure and has not made any form of contact with me. ...