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writes:I'm 24 Years old i'm dateing a 16 year old girlfriend who i never see.the problem,i never see my new girlfriend but i have a big heart to dump her for not seeing me. i kind of blame myself for us not seeing each over. v-day i lost the car i was driveing around. by the cops. so i kind of see it my fault that we dont see each over. now i arranged to meet her Thursday but she told me she was moveing to her moms. so then i arranged to meet her Friday she told me her dad didn't come home and he took all the keys to her house and left no money. so i arranged again to met her saturday she told me her dad didn't come home so there no chance.ok the bigger problem. i spoke to 3 of her mates and they all say the same thing " shes cheating on you " but there just kids and they get bored. but to make show i don't get hurt in the end i'm gonna cheat on her i know 2 wrongs dont make a right but the biggest problem is i'm gonna sleep with someone on tuesday 12noon till 2pm and i sould be back on the road. and i've arranged to meet my girl again to see her that night.ok this is what i need to know. will she notice i've had sex that day?what should i do about us not seeing each over?p.s - 1 of her mates told me shes 14 not 16 i'm thinking of phoning the collage shes at and asking for her birth date. is that a good idea?i'm not gonna break up with this girl because her mates or ex mates say shes cheating until i have proof.what do u think?any help would be great.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (24 February 2007):
 You say her mates are "just kids" so it may well be she IS only 14. That being said you say she attends college and 14 is too young to be at college so it's probably the case that she is 16. Why would you ever want to go out and sleep with someone else? Will that make it all better? Doing that makes you as bad as she is so come on, I thought you were the mature one in the relationship here. Forget getting "even" (IF of course she is cheating) and ask her outright.
Tell her to put her cards on the table and level with you. Is she seeing someone else or is she not? Watch her eyes, see if they dart about and look everywhere before they look at you. Watch her body language, is she fidgiting, playing with her hair, biting her nails? All of these signs are signs she is cheating. If she doesn't want to be with you she tells you, plain and simple and if she doesn't then the least she can do is be honest with you and let you know.
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reader, caraduddy +, writes (24 February 2007):
 If her friends say she is cheating on you then they may be lying or something but going and sleeping with someone else maybe a mistake! you dont know if she is cheeting or not. Her age.. yeah ring up the collage its best to find out. Keep me updated on whats happening
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