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anonymous
writes:hi there myself and my boyfriend have a son of 4yrs old.in the past 4yrs we were experiencing lots of problems. his been cheating on me with lots of women and we broke up and made up.then last year july we made up and things were just perfect between us. we had a close couple which was our friend and we did alot of things together. myself and this chick was close and alway spoke about problems we saw in our relationships and gave each other advise. the guys always use to go out on a boys nite and we would always be at home.For me it seems that his friend was speaking a lot of nasty things about me and trying to drag him a long.that is were the arguments come about. he can never say no to then.we had a fight and broke up.we didn't speak or see each other for a whole month until one day he phoned me and waited to speak to me face to face.we soughted out everything.how do i keep things cool,do we cut out the friends or what can i do to make things more understanding between us? i really know deep down that we can work through our problems but how. i love him.how do i make him understand that we are a family and that his family comes first and these will always be good time?yesterday his friend come to him and they we all suprise to see me with him.
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reader, hails  +, writes (27 February 2007):
 you cant make him understand that family comes first, he will have to learn that himself im afraid, it may b he needs somethin in the family to shake him up an then he will realise how important family is but id say he will realise familys more important eventually
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