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writes:if a man lives with a woman that he saids he love and this is the one for him would he get another woman pregnant? and also, would he tell her? the other woman told the guy she wasn't on birth control,nor did she do abortions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007): He's a cheater...plain and simple. That is why he did it. His current live in gf should never believe his emotional stroking. He's scamming her. If this man has gotten a female pregnant while living and telling another woman he loves her, then he is lying. While I feel sorry for what his current gf is going through, I have to be blunt. The entire time his current gf been involved with him romantically, she likely played it straight with him. Most woman in love are this way...committed and loving. She's probably been honest, up front, caring, and giving. She's given him everything he wanted. She hasn't lied to him or cheated on him. So why did he not do the same for her? Because he lacks character. What is a healthy, successful relationship based on? Mutual respect, honesty, communication and trust. Without all four of those ingredients a relationships cannot last. And he didn't strike out in one area, he struck out in all four. He is a classic Taker. He lies and cheats. And now, the other woman is having his child and that child will need a Father.
This man is in this, for the next two decades. If this pregnant woman decides to keep the child, he will be paying monthly child support payments, he will always be obligated to live close by...as he is a father and that child will need two parents. He will always have to be in touch with this other woman, as decisions will have to be made in regards to the child. And they will crop up...lots of decisons,child rearing choices, etc, etc. Even though he may not want to be with the pregnant woman, he will be connected to her now, for a lifetime. His whole future and destiny has changed in a blink of an eye. Amazing how he didn't think of the consequences when he was having his monetary thrills and cheap orgasms. His current gf could forgive him and carry on but she will have to deal with all this, as well. Not sure if that's what she wants in her future--she has some big decisions to make and I sincerely wish her the best.
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reader, iagirl +, writes (22 February 2007):
 I'm not sure if you're asking a hypothetical question, or if this actually happened to you. The answer is yes, men sometimes cheat on women they love, and they get other women pregnant. Now, would this happen to you? I don't know; it depends on your man. Is he trustworthy? Only you can decide that.
Now, if it already happened, you need to get out now. There's no sense in staying with a cheater when you aren't even married to him.
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