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writes:Hey.I'm a 16 y/o boy and i need help.I'll start at the beginning, I met this girl wen she was going out with my best m8. She started texting me, telling me she wanted me and not him. I tried to keep away as he is my best mate and it wouldn't be fair to do that to him. They eventually broke up anyway and me and the girl got together. We lasted for a month befor she dumped me and went out with another boy that hangs around with us. This hurt me because I genuinely thought she wanted to be with me. A week or so after she started going out with this other boy, she started texting me again saying it was wrong to dump me n dat i mean so much to her. I textd bk sayin i still wantd to be with her as well. Well once again, she broke up with him and got we got back together. It was great for the first couple of weeks, then she started getting very friendly with this other boy, txting him loads and meeting up just the 2 of them at the cinema. This went on for a couple of weeks before I started to ask questions. She explained to me but it made no sense and unfortunately(after a night's drinking) I got in contact with the boy and threatened to stab him. He told my gf, she then txt me saying she didn't no what to think, and that she was scared of me, and thought we should have a break. Once again I was heartbroken, all i want is to be with her. Well a month or so went past and I got very friendly with her mate, who also hang's around with us. Somehow, my ex found out i was going to ask her mate out. Unfortunately at the same time on of my mates was going to ask my ex out. Later that day, my ex text me saying she doesn't want my mate, she still wants me, she really sorry for what she put me through and she thinks we'll last foreva this time. I believed her and even though i thought i was over her, i realised i still love her more then anything. A few more weeks went past, we were texting each other all the time, then, just before i planned to ask her out, she text me saying that i shouldn't ask her out, and she wants to think bout me and her at the moment. She says she doesn't no what she wants.What i need to know is, am i stupid for keep letting her back in with me? Is she just playing me? Does she really love me like she said? My mate said if she loves u, she wouldn't have to think whether she wants to be with you or not. I'm so confused, i feel depressed because all i want is to be with her but I don't think she feels the same way. Plz help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2007): All you want is to be with her? Hum lets look at her for a minute. She dates a guy, makes a play for his friend, dumps him for the friend, repeat as neccessary. Yeah, she's a prize. I think its safe to say she gets her ego trip from seeing if she can get a guy and then hurting him. This girl has problems. Tell me again why you want her? And why you think she loves you? Oh, thats right 'she said so' Well, there you have it. Oh, but then she changed her mind? see pattern above.
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reader, Farris +, writes (26 February 2007):
 Yes, she is playing you. You're just being tagged a long with a whole string of other guys.
I know it hurts, but don't let her do this to you anymore. Just don't contact her anymore. If she asks you why, then tell her you don't appreciate her treating you this way and you won't stand for it.
Move on and find someone with the respect that you deserve.
Good luck and be strong.
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reader, nicola79 +, writes (26 February 2007):
 If I was you I would eraze her number from your phone and maybe change your number.
She is well and truely messing you around flower and its not fair,you seem such a lovely lad and deserve better.
Tell her to carry on with her life but without you, it seems that she only wants you when she is at a loose end. You need to meet someone who will be there for you and love you.
She will never be that for you,you have given in to her too many times so now she knows she will get away with it time and time again. You are daft if you let her do it again. she is a player and will always be
Keep me posted and if there is anything more I can help you with let me know,xxxxxxxxxx
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