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writes:It's been over six months now since my breakup with my partner of 17 years. She moved on in two weeks of the break up and I suspect that she might have been cheating on me. She would not give me closure and has not made any form of contact with me. Would this be deemed as normal behaviour for somone who has cheated and has to much guilt to confront me.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (22 February 2007):
 Hi
Sometimes in life when a relationship is gone what we are left with is only pain and unforgiving heart, and this happens because we are all human and cant help but feel awfully rejected and full of despair when you start to feel this way, that’s when you don’t have to rely on the other person to give you closure but you give yourself one. At this point in time your ex has moved on and you cant because you are waiting for her to give you a go. Learn to accept what happened, let your heart explore the possibility of u having a new woman in your life. I know it seem impossible after 17yrs but life goes on so give yourself a second chance in love life will never be fair she might have cheated on you but we don’t know that and you cant let it destroy your life while she is having a good time. Keeping your life on hold is just giving her satisfaction that you depend on her and have no control over your life. Writing here was the first step which is good so take it further by taking back control of your life.
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reader, Psyche  +, writes (22 February 2007):
hard to say. It is, however, a sign that she is a horrible communicator. In some cases people just don't deal well with change. In all the years you were together, did she have any fallngs out with friends or family? How did she handle it?
It sounds like the redirection is for the best, whether she cheated or not, you are free.
Peace
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