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Archived questions from: October, 2005 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I love him, but I don't trust him any more after he cheated with a much-older woman!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

31 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend of 3yrs cheated on me with a much older women. I've tried to get over it and move on as I have stayed with him, taking his word that he will never do it again. I can't seem to forget no matter how much I try. It haunts me but I love him ...

My husband has a double-life, another woman and another child!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

30 October 2005 (F) - Hi, I am in the biggest dilemma of my life and need some help. I am 26, Indian, female. I had an arranged marriage 7 years ago when this really sweet guy from UK came to my house in UK and said he wants to marry me with his family. He seemed r...

Two guys, neither wants what I want right now. Do I wait or carry on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6953 days ago

30 October 2005 (F) - Hi, I am a 28year old girl and have been seeing a fantastic 37 year old man for the last 2-1/2 years and had a really great time with him. The problem being this man does not want the whole marriage and kids thing and just wants to have a good time ...

My partner is cagey about why he needed condoms when he went away...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6925 days ago

29 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend recently went away for almost a month and he claims that he has not cheated. He gives me conflicting responses to the number of condoms he has, the amount we use and the reason he had them while away. I have been giving him oral sex for ...

For 8 years I've kept breaking up and getting back with a married man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6637 days ago

29 October 2005 (F) - I'll describe a very sordid process at the risk of getting a humungous barrage of insults for being an idiot cus that's how I feel...... At 23yrs I was married to a chap who well kept me til he got a stay in the country. He then got violent I divorc...

My partner's pregnant 'fling' is threatening to keep the baby from him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

28 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend cheated on me with this girl as soon as he met her in March. She got pregnant that same month. They both said it was protected and the condom broke. They claimed it was an accident, but now that she found out he was in a serious ...

His online dating profile didn't mean anything. So why does he want to meet the fake person I put on the site?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6523 days ago

27 October 2005 (F) - HELP me:( I thought I found the love of my life. I have been with him for 2 years. He has two wonderful children that I love. He got married at 20, and divorced after 6 years. then was in another relationship of 3 years that did not work out...

I want to settle down... or leave and have some passion in my life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6956 days ago

26 October 2005 (F) - Me and my partner (7 years) moved 3 months ago to a new area where we don't know anyone but are enjoying a better quality of life. He is supporting me whilst I go back to do my dream course at college. He's kept the same job but is working from ...

Seeing a married man. Am I just a fling?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

26 October 2005 (F) - I am sort of seeing this guy at the moment who has been married and has three kids. I would like to see more of him and get to know his kids better. Do you see this getting serious or just a fling?...

My husband is never at home any more. All we do is argue. Sometimes I don't know why I stay...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

26 October 2005 (F) - My life is not the same anymore. I have been with my partner for quite a few years and we used to go everywhere together and was always together. Then he started to get into fitness started with jogging to begin with,which I didn't mind him doing. ...

He cheated and the other woman might be pregnant. Do I cut my losses and move on, or forgive him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6849 days ago

25 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years has just admitted to cheating on me and possibly getting someone else pregnant. I am devestated yet still in love with him. Should I forgive him and try to work on our relationship or just move on with my life?...

I was drunk, I kissed another guy and I'm so ashamed. I really love my boyfriend!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

25 October 2005 (M) - I really need your help. I have been dating this boy for the past two months. He is the best person I have ever met. I love him so much and feel totally ashamed at what happened over the weekend in what was a drunken moment at at a party. I got dru...

He cheated, repeatedly and with multiple partners, but now he wants to come back...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6957 days ago

25 October 2005 (F) - My fiance just told me he's been cheating for the past year - off and on, no one in particular. His job takes him away for the majority of the year and definately puts him in the position to cheat, musician. I've kicked him out and told him it's ...

Just discovered that my girlfriend cheated 18 months ago and I can't stop thinking about it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6944 days ago

24 October 2005 (M) - I am 21 and my girlfriend is 18. We have dated for almost 4 years and she just admitted to me that she cheated on me about 1 and a half years ago. I can't sleep at night and I am always thinking about it and getting frustrated about it. What should ...

I don't feel like I have anything about me that would attract women. And my penis is bent like a banana!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6958 days ago

23 October 2005 (M) - I'm a 28 year old male living in London. I would love to be in a relationship but I don't have any confidence at all. I'm going bold, losing my looks, and the big thing is that my penis is the shape of a banana (it's bending to one side)..yes my ...

My girlfriend cheated, then lied to me about it. I'm so angry and upset I can't sleep...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6828 days ago

21 October 2005 (M) - Hello , I am 17 and in a very serious relationship but my girlfriend cheated on me a month and half ago when she went away for a weekend. She blames it on being "caught up in the moment". She has been lying to me about the facts and I finally ...

He got drunk and cheated on me. How do I know it won't happen again if I take him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6957 days ago

20 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating off and on for 8 months now. He has cheated on me once before, we broke up for a while, but he put a lot of effort into getting me back. I recently found out that he has a child (he didn't know either),...

Honest mistakes led my girlfriend to think I cheated on her. But I'm innocent!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6963 days ago

20 October 2005 (M) - I need help. I have been faithful to my girlfriend of almost 5 months. She has a history of dating guys who, unfortunately, cheated on her, including her ex-fiance. I love her deeply but made 2 mistakes: right after we started dating, on old, ...

We're trying to work through his cheating and my needing time on my own, but there's so much pressure!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6964 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - I just don't know what to do. I've been married to my second husband 13 years. We met when I was married to my first husband at the time. Things happened very fast and we married and had a child all within a year. I never showed him much affectio...

It can't ever work out, but I'm in love with a married, older woman...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6964 days ago

17 October 2005 (M) - I'm 17 and I have fallen in love with a 22 year old married woman with a 2 year old kid I used to work with. She has also fallen in love with me. We have seen each other quite a lot since I left my previous job. My heart constantly aches and so ...

Should I break up with the guy who cheated, just to make a point?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

17 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 months cheated on me, and I can't move on or forget what happened, but I don't want this to end, I don't know what to do. Should I leave or stay?...

Neither my boyfriend nor I can keep from kissing other people!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6967 days ago

15 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and 10 months and I feel games are being played. I kissed a couple of guys frequently and he kissed this one girl he dumped me for frequently. I got back with him. But he kissed her again after we ...

My husband has cheated for the last two years!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6300 days ago

15 October 2005 (F) - I don't know what to do. I am 36, married with 2 children and work part-time. My husband and have been happily married for 14 years but he has been having an affair for the last two years. I am devastated. He doesn't know that I know about it ...

I felt it was destiny that we got together, but then he told me he just couldn't leave his relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6967 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - I have felt a strong connection with a colleague at work for a few years now. We have always been friends and we are so much alike and share similar interests. We can make each other laugh and we can talk for hours non-stop.... About a month ...

Slept with a co-worker who now says it was a mistake. He treats me like a leper!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6967 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - A married co-worker came on to me at work and we started fooling around and after a week I cheated on my husband by sleeping with him. The next day he said he was freaked out about it and now he can barely look at me. He initiated this situation and ...

Ever since my partner cheated, I snipe at him without realising...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6961 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - I've been with my partner for 5 years now and since he cheated on me we just do not get on. We seem to clash. We have a 3 year old son together. I just don't know what to do anymore. He says it's always me biting his head off over silly things, ...

I cheated, and my boyfriend can't handle it. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6960 days ago

13 October 2005 (F) - I'm 17 years old and have been with my boyfriend for One year and three months about six months into the relationship I cheated on him with a male friend of mine. About a month later I told him and he still hasn't got over it and is becoming more ...

After he told me his was visiting a mate, I discovered he's going out with someone else...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6970 days ago

13 October 2005 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 4 months and it has all been going really well. We have a great time together and get on like a house on fire. The problem is we met online and haven't really got to the stage where we are exactly exclusive ...

A stray text led me to find out that he's been calling 2 other women...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6969 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. We live together, and everything has been great until about a month ago, when I realized we hadn't made love for almost 2 months. I asked him why, and he said we have different schedules. ...

My cheating was just a symptom of our failing relationship...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6969 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - I have just cheated on my partner with a guy that I have kinda known for nearly 2 years. I am now in the process of breaking it off with my partner because the attraction with the other guy is like fireworks going off! Even though the other gu...

Snooped on his phone and found some messages that make me wonder if he's cheating...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6972 days ago

10 October 2005 (F) - When staying at my boyfriend's house the other month I found a dating services newsletter in the post he had left it in his room, obviously put to one side. I have since looked on his mobile and found text messages from online dating services. I ...

Even after I promised not to kiss someone else, I did it again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6973 days ago

10 October 2005 (F) - I am 17 years and have been in a relationship for 2 and a half years with Sean. We have never had sex during this time but have been intimate. However, as I started high school, I became attracted to another and began flirting. This led to me ...

My man just tells me that "we're more than sex" and he isn't interested anymore. But I am!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6974 days ago

9 October 2005 (F) - Hello, I’m desperately worried that I will end up cheating on my man. We have been together a little over two years and things seem to be a bit strained between us. We love each other very much and have always done everything together the trouble ...

Am I paranoid, or is my girlfriend cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6830 days ago

8 October 2005 (M) - Hey, I've been with my gf for just under a year. The problem I have, is that there is another guy who I think my gf is cheating with. He is always in her room, with his clothes off and they have internet profiles in which if someone puts som...

I moved on from my married man... to another married man. Why do I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6961 days ago

8 October 2005 (F) - I ended a 2 1/2 year relationship with a married man about 6 months ago. Since then, I have become close to someone who told me he recently ended a relationship with another woman and had no contact with her. However, I just found out that he has ...

My boyfriend cheats on his girlfriend with me, but he won't make a choice between us!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 October 2005 (F) - My ex has been cheating on his girlfriend of 2 1/2 years with me. This has been going on for 1 1/2 years. He says he doesn't love her and since she lives 2 hours away their relationship isn't going to chang. However he always has the same response ...

My husband's affair with a much older woman has been going on for 4 years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6976 days ago

6 October 2005 (F) - I'm 23, my husband is 25. I found out he was having an affair with a 63-year-old woman who lives down the road with us after a friend who worked at a hotel told me he'd seen my husband kissing an old woman in the restaurant. I feel disgusted ...

I've been reduced to sneaking around to find out if my partner is cheating...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6976 days ago

5 October 2005 (F) - I suspected my partner was cheating on me earlier in the year. What happened recently though was the person I thought he was cheating with told me he had been cheating - but with someone else. Anyway, he has (predictably) denied this. He knows da...

When we met, we told each other all about our pasts. It turns out he didn't tell me even half of his!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6977 days ago

5 October 2005 (F) - Hello agony aunts, I have a problem. I can't deal with my boyfriend's past. Well, we've been together for 3 years and it's been a happy 3 years. I was a virgin when I met him. He wasn't which wasn't an issue in the beginning. Before we had sex we a...

After my husband's affair, and dealing with my own problems, I'm fed up with my marriage and my kids!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6979 days ago

4 October 2005 (F) - I am married with three kids. I have been married for 15yrs now. I'm 32, yes just 32. I got my parents to give me permission to marry. We have had a hard life with finding ends meet but we have and still are putting up with it. The thing is 2 1/2...

I'm planning to meet my lover for sex, but I don't know why I'm doing it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6977 days ago

4 October 2005 (F) - I'm with a partner and I was always happy to stay at home and be housewife and mother. Then my life changed. I had a affair which only lasted a while until I finished it all. He was married. Now I don't feel the same anymore, as if i'm a differen...

My man promised that he was going to leave his wife, but he went back to her! Is it me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6966 days ago

4 October 2005 (F) - I have just broken up with the love of my life, whom I have been with for 2 years. He is married but he promised he would leave, which he has done several times. He always goes back for the children. This time I confronted his wife and he now says...

My husband wants to come back... but I've met someone else. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6963 days ago

3 October 2005 (F) - My husband fell in love with someone 700 miles away and carried on his relationship with her for 5 years. I only knew about it the last 2 years. He left me and my 2 kids a year ago. In March of this year they broke up. He now tells me he wants to...

I've found evidence that my girlfriend is playing up with someone else, but how do I bring it up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6979 days ago

3 October 2005 (M) - I have recently receieved information from a mutual friend of my girlfriend of 4 years and I. He told me that a friend of his was bragging about hooking up with my girlfriend and how he was going to visit her at her college and have sex with her. He ...

We've both been cheating on our partners, and last weekend, we almost got caught!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6979 days ago

3 October 2005 (F) - Hi all. I am in a seriously confusing situation, and I need all the help I can get. I have been in a relationship with Bill* for almost 3 years, and its always been unstable, we fight almost every day, and never agree on anything. We've broken up ...

I'm a big tease, what can I do?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6894 days ago

2 October 2005 (F) - Hey im 18 and have been with this guy 4 about 4 months i love him alot but i still take other guys phone numbers and find it hard not to flirt with them, i have a problem with leading people on but i dont want to loose my bf because of it what ...