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writes: My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and 10 months and I feel games are being played. I kissed a couple of guys frequently and he kissed this one girl he dumped me for frequently. I got back with him. But he kissed her again after we made up. But, I kissed one guy a couple of days ago and I haven't told my boyfriend about that one yet. What should I do?
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reader, pops +, writes (16 October 2005):
Stop kissing other guys, unless you want to end the relationship. Talk to him about how much it hurts you to see him kiss another girl, and ask him to stop, or end the relationship with you. You both seem to be more interested in punishing each other than in learning to love each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2005): Your both playing tit for tat you do it he does it you do it and he does it back, talk to your boyfriend and set boundaries and stop all this game playing if you both want to be together then stop cheating with other people because that is what you are both doing with all this kissing others.
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reader, Karlos +, writes (16 October 2005):
It seems to me the answer to your question is very easy. You owe him the decency of telling him that you have kissed another guy. In my experience honesty is always the best policy. If neither of you can remain faithful then i feel it's time you searched for pastures new! The key thing in this situation is to talk about how you feel and talk about why you both cannot keep faithful to one another. If what you have is meant to be then you will work it out, if not then it is time to be honest with eachother and end now before you both get hurt.
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reader, Kay-the-Cloud +, writes (16 October 2005):
End your relationship, if you can't stay loyal to each other then you better stop seeing him. If you can't stop cheating on each other then it means that you're not happy with him, and he's not happy being with you. Face the facts, the relationship isn't worth it any more.
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