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Archived questions from: February, 2015 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

I think anything I did while we were broken up is none of his business!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3581 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - I broke up with my BF for 5 months. He's married by the way and we had an affair for 2 1/2 years. We have started talking again and want to pursue a relationship but only if he leaves his wife. I refuse to get back to that stressful, wrong mess. ...

I broke it off with him and wonder if my feelings of anger are normal

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

26 February 2015 (F) - Hi, I would really appreciate some reassurance about the stage I'm at in ending a relationship. Please don't judge me, it's honestly been very hard. I became physically ill due to the stress of living with a binge drinker. I was with him for nea...

An people ever change, and if they can how do you know they have really changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3588 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - Can people ever change, and if they can how do you know they have really changed? I ask because for the past six years I have been on/off with my ex boyfriend. We met at school and our relationship began when we were 17. At first, everything...

I found lip gloss in his car and I suspect he is cheating. Should I end it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3588 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - I had a dream where my boyfriend told me "I'll always be your friend" and it was basically a break up. Lately, things have felt different and I do suspect another woman is in the picture. His behavior has changed and I found lipgloss in his car he ...

This man doesn't want to deal with his child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3587 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - I have been knowing this guy for 17 plus years and all we do is have sex argue and then be ask for money. well we lost touch for a couple of years because he went to jail. i took it upon myself to contact him while he was in jail. i even started ...

He has too much baggage but I don't have the courage to break up with him!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3578 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - Well, I'm trying to put an end to my 6 month relationship but I'm having a bit of trouble. I can't quite figure out my feelings towards him. To briefly describe my relationship, I've always had second thoughts about us, but really wanted to try to m...

Should I stay with my girlfriend of 6 years?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3583 days ago

23 February 2015 (M) - Hi, I just wanted to get some advice on my relationship as probably I could do with it. I'm 33 and my girlfriend is five years younger than me. We have been going out for 6-7 years. I’m not sure if I should stay with her. When she has no problem ...

What are the ground rules during separation from spouse?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3587 days ago

23 February 2015 (M) - Just curious, what are the ground rules for separating with a spouse i.e. we need some time apart? Is dating and seeing others ok? Please don't look at this as an excuse but rather a consequence of separation....

Husband has apologised and wants me back, but I haven't changed since I left him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - I left my husband because he had a problem with my body and would make comments. Mainly about loose skin ( dr says its as good as it will ever be again short of surgery which I'm not doing ) from babies and my breasts sagging , the general aging ...

How can I cope with this? Hasn't been a good marriage. Wife is leaving me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3587 days ago

20 February 2015 (M) - So after five years of marriage my wife is leaving me. It hasn't been a good marriage, with her spending our money and leaving me to pay off he debts, she has ben humiliating me. She makes herself look good, but she rarely helps around the house et...

33 years of amazing mariage but the spark has gone. How can I deal with my wish to leave my wife?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

20 February 2015 (M) - I'm thinking of leaving my wife after 33yrs of an amazing marriage. It all began three years ago. I was let down badly by people I trusted (including my wife)I needed to feel valued again. I met someone and we began a relationship. I ...

Aside from telling his ex to really stop it, what else can we do to make stop calling him?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3572 days ago

20 February 2015 (F) - Dear Aunties and Uncles, I've posted here before about my boyfriend's ex who has been contacting him on a regular basis. It started with her grandmother being in the hospital in October, then her grandmother's passing in November - my boyfrien...

So many broken promises from my Bf. After 4.5 years how do I break up with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

19 February 2015 (F) - Modnote: some graphic language removed from post, without changing the meaning. . . . . . . . . . . I am so sick of the rubbish that comes out of my boyfriend's mouth. I'm at my breaking point and want OUT of this relationship. I'm miserable with h...

Can I ever win him back or is that unrealistic? I'd like another chance to reconnect. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - Okay I feel like an idiot even writing this but I need other peoples insight. I was with my ex for 6 years, I have borderline personality disorder which caused alot of stress and fights and I believe ultimately was the ending of our relation...

Did he use me? My married lover just stopped seeing me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - So I know that what I have been doing is wrong. I wholeheartedly know this. I just feel sometimes you cannot help who you have a real connection with. This is my situation in a nut shell; I am now 26. When I was 18/19 I used to work for a l...

He's in jail and was my wild Bf. How can I help him without it becoming a relationship agani?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - I have recently split up with my boyfriend but I'm really confused about what to do. I was in a relationship for 8 years with a guy who was really quite boring, we had nothing in common and my life was a bit mundane. After I split up with him...

What can I do to help him understand he is ruining our relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

17 February 2015 (F) - Im in a relationship with a younger man there is no doubt on my mind we love each other, he goes to work I am home I rarely go out I pretty much stay to myself before the relationship began I was always surrounded by fam and friends they were always ...

Everything was going great, and out of the blue she disappears!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

17 February 2015 (M) - What is going here? We've been dating for some time now, ans she has this knack for cutting me off, putting me in no-contact status, like a bolt out of the blue. I've noticed a certain trend in which everything will be great between us for a couple ...

We are separated but trying to work it out, I'm worried that he's not attracted to me or prefers to watch younger women in porn! Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3574 days ago

17 February 2015 (F) - My husband and I have been seperated a year and living in different houses. We mainly seperated because we had drifted apart and I felt the love wasn't there or at least that he never expressed it. He has always had a major problem with e pressing ...

I care for my husband but don't love him. I'm confused and made to feel guilty because I want out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

16 February 2015 (F) - Hi all, I am a little confused at the moment and am not sure what my feelings mean! Please help. 9 years back I opted for a traditional marriage with a cousin from India (I'm from the UK). Before we were married he said he had business ...

Being so close to Valentine's day, what is the best way to break-up a relationship around this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

14 February 2015 (F) - hi everybody! happy Valentine's day! Need some advise on the best way to end or quit a relationship that you are just tired of after a year or more . Is it Ok to tell the other partner that 'I am tired of this relationship and I don't wish to cont...

Should I stay even though he says he won't love me anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

14 February 2015 (F) - I'm married with two kids. I have been married for about 11 years,going through some tought time with my husband. I'm so stress out, will my husband wants to end marriage because he says I don't listen to him and is always talking back, I feel tha...

I'm 31, alone, I spent almost two years trying to move on but my ex is happy in a new relationship.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3599 days ago

12 February 2015 (F) - It's been 2 years after my ex broke up with me.I was desperate and decided to move overseas and started a new life. My ex who has been in a relationship with someone else for at least 1 and 1/2 years contacted me a couple of times after I left home, ...

2 years of crazy and we're only teenagers! what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3599 days ago

11 February 2015 (F) - What should I do? Me and my boyfriend been together for 2 years now. At first, everything was fantastic. Like fairytales, lovey-Dovey for the first year. Second year, things changed. We became more busy, and I have a very busy life compared to his, ...

Pleaseee help me I want to die,my boyfriend of 7 yrs is leaving me because I told him about my past.?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

11 February 2015 (F) - my boyfriend of 7 yrs has a long sexual history including gangbangs,orgys, etc with 50+ girls. he done drugs. he neve r lied n we go to church and we are very in love. i trust he doesnt hide anything and loves me. we started off as f.buddya ...

How can I forgive them and move on when they're not even sorry?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3601 days ago

11 February 2015 (F) - Hi I was hoping you could help me with some advice, insight into my situation as Im desperate. I was in a relationship for five years I adored him, it was very passionate but fought a lot too,I was always afraid he would leave me for someone as h...

He ends his relationship with me, for no apparent reason, and then chooses to resume things. What should I do ? It's affecting my self esteem

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3602 days ago

10 February 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and every now and then he would end the relationship with me, for no apparent reason then a few hours or a day or so later he would call me and carry on like nothing has happened. I have tried to explain ...

Marriage probems and my sister interferring did not help. How can I get over this, and move forward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3602 days ago

9 February 2015 (F) - What should I do? My sister has meddled in my relationships for years including my marriage. She became his confidant and he ran to her with loads of stories, none of them good for years. My marriage came to an end, not because of her, but her inte...

He dropped me like a rag doll. Why, after I gave him some space? How should I react?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3602 days ago

9 February 2015 (F) - ok, long story- When I was in a really bad place in my life I half stumbled across this guy, we went on a date "just for fun" as it was- he then made moves and made everything a lot more intense, he was the first one to say "I love you" he was the ...

I am happy for my sister but very sad for me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3603 days ago

8 February 2015 (F) - Before I start, I'd just like to say that I'm very happy for my sister and this isn't about her in any way. It's about me. So on December 23rd just past, I ended my long term relationship because he just wouldn't commit to me. I'm now a month...

What can I do? He wants to still see me, but he doesn’t want to tell

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3603 days ago

7 February 2015 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I were together for a year we were wonderful together... But things started getting crazy. We broke up three months ago but still we were living together. He started talking to this girl and ended things completely with m...

Had a fling with a guy from work who's separated from his wife. We broke up. How do I now keep my distance from him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3603 days ago

6 February 2015 (F) - I recently had a fling with a guy that I work with. I knew it was just about sex, and it didn't bother me at first. He had just split up from his wife of four years and I hadn't been with anyone for over a year, and one drunken night, we slept to...

How can I get my ex girfriends to leave me alone? And I want my shirt back too - how can I get it back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3605 days ago

6 February 2015 (M) - Hello DC! Back again. So, this is something I may or may not have brushed on before, but... How the heck can I get my exes to get off my back? There's the first girl, she's "girl 1." She is VERY clingy and won't leave me alone, because I'...

Is this a red flag and how do I deal with it? I don't want to become the "rebound" guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

6 February 2015 (M) - Hey everyone, I met a really nice girl about 2 weeks ago and we had our first date yesterday. She is the girl-next door type, sweet and cute. I have to say I really like her. She is also a very interesting person with quite some knowledge. We...

Goodbyes that aren't so sad, what does it mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

4 February 2015 (F) - I've said goodbye to my first love and it ended up horribly. He said some very hurtful words and it took me 3 years to accept things as they are. We have kept separate lives since then. And yet there was another experience unlike the other...

Was I happy with my ex but just didn't get enough reassurance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3607 days ago

3 February 2015 (M) - Hi, I should probably apologise for the length of this post prior to posting it, just very confused at the mo and need help. Im gonna use bullet points to give context - -Dad left at 4 mths old -Mum got ill at 4 yrs and went to psych hospi...

I can't stand him but I still need him for some things. Should I break things off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

2 February 2015 (F) - I am currently in a reaionship which is due to be a year this february. I do not and can never like him. We women date for two reasons, either for love or because we need something from the guy. Yes I needed something from the guy and i know he ...

Can people really change when they realise what they have lost?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

2 February 2015 (F) - Hello cupids. My problem is simple and has happened hundreds of times - my boyfriend of 4.5 years refused to give me a proper commitment or answers about the future, and eventually I got together enough courage and told him I was leaving. Fast...

How can someone who loves you, move on so fast?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3610 days ago

2 February 2015 (F) - Hi there? I was in a very happy relationship for about 4 years, with the men I thought to be my soul mate. Somebody who I deeply believed was in love with me, and wanted to be with me forever. We was supposed to get married this year, and he ask...

My was my FWB. Since we broke up he's still friends with other women. So why does he treat me as if I'm ''Not Good enough'' for him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3610 days ago

1 February 2015 (F) - Hi. I've never written to a site like this before but i feel like i can't really tell anyone how i'm feeling. I had a casual sexual relationship with a guy a few years ago, which i very much regret as it's not something i'd ever done before and ...