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writes:My ex-boyfriend and I were together for a year we were wonderful together... But things started getting crazy. We broke up three months ago but still we were living together. He started talking to this girl and ended things completely with me. He moved out and left me with the camper we were living in. But the camper is in his name. He says I can stay in it as long as i'd like... Well he hangs out with this girl every day. He recently just came over and told me he still wants to be friends and hangout and chill but he doesn’t want to tell the new girl.... He said no sex, no talking about it, no talking about them, just hanging out. Well I tried it last night and we chilled for like an hour and watched a movie together no cuddling or anything. It was kind of awkward but I’m in love with this boy so kind of nice. What does this mean though?? He wants to still see me but don’t want to tell her and doesn’t want to ruin things with her that’s why so secretive??! He also just told me that if they don’t work out then it’s possible in the future I could have a chance?!? Helpppp?!?!?!?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 February 2015):
 you are the spare in case the new girl does not work out.
you will never be the ONE for him. He will ALWAYS leave you for the "better one"
it's better that you find a place to live, give him back his trailer/camper and go NO CONTACT with him.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (8 February 2015):
It means he likes you but doesn't want to be with you and doesn't want to cheat.
You having a chance means he knows you're not right for each other but likes you enough that he'd start saying you again until something better came along.
In other words I'd try and move on because you'll never be "the one".
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (7 February 2015):
 Start looking for your OWN place to live. That should be your main concern, NOT what is on HIS mind.
He is keeping you as a spare. That is why it's a "secret" but he is trying to be a "decent" BF, so the no sex.
Honey, move out and move on.
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