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Archived questions from: July, 2011 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

What's wrong with me? Am I weird for this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - What is wrong with me? am I weird? is it normal? My ex boyfriend and I broke up 6months and I've not been with anyone else since. I had a lot of guys come my way but they all wanted sex, but I can't have casual sex, I've got to be in lo...

Husband made me stop working , now wants custody of our child!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - My husband got a new job, and we moved to this new town and he started his new job. He was telling me how great this was going to be and that I did not need to work anymore. I stayed home and took care of our child, he ended up cheating on me and ...

How come she has a new guy in her life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend of 4.5 years split up abaout 2 months ago. We have a 1 yr old son and we started working it out. Things were going good untell she started being mean. Then we didn't talk much for about a week and then I found out she was ...

The day before he told me he loved me, now nothing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I have been in a very toxic, deluded relationship, but got over the guy and started a thing with someone else. A sweet, loving and caring man. Sometimes we had fights, but in general everything was ok. For about 1,5 year. We talked about getting ...

I took him back, but I don't love him anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I've been with my husband going on 12yrs. this Aug. we been married going on 9yr. we have 4 little boys. what i need is a mans view,we were arguing a lot but nothing serious,or so i thought,well he left me for a girl who ive never met ,but he was ...

My ex came back into my life, who do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - torn between two lovers, whom do i chose? dear cupid, i have been in a relationship for 4yrs, and last year our love was on the rocks, and in the mist of our arguments and misunderstanding i met a guy and i realy liked him and he fel the same too...

She broke up with me yet still texts me, how do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - my girlfriend of almost 3 years broke up with me to be independent and because of my different religion. yet she still texts me like a couple times a week telling me that she misses me and if i could change something we would still be together. my ...

He's cheated on me 5 times, constantly lies and disrespects me but he has my heart and I want him back....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid How can i get over a guy whom i've been with for over 2 years now who has cheated on me 5 times, who constantly lies to me, who disrespects me, who doesn't show any affection or that he cares, who ignores me, doesn't communicate whenever...

This jealous woman made my life miserable either because she was interested in my BF or because she was not happy in her own life. Thoughts or similar experiences anyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Ok so a while ago, my boyfriend started renting a room from a couple (a husband and wife) who were also living at the same property. Everything was fine at first, however things quickly started to go wrong. The couple own the property, the husband ...

How can I stop worrying about ending up alone for the rest of my life??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - when i split with my boyfriend 4 months ago i found it so hard, we was only together for a year but i love him so much. when i found out he cheated it broke my heart, i cryed for 2 months and wouldnt go nowere but mop round. i am much better now ...

How do you get through those first few days after a break up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - I will keep this short and sweet. Whats the most effective method of mending a broken heart, in the early days when you dont even want to get out of bed and when you feel so low you actually dont know what to do. I know the cliche - time is a good ...

Is he finally realising what he lost or is the jealous dog coming out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Its been three months since we broke up, maybe more, which is a good sign since i stopped counting the days. I feel im at that point where, yes im thinking about them still, but they aren't my only thought. So i began to move on, i have been gettin...

Feeling guilty for lying so much to my ex, help me get rid of this guilt

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - My girlfriend dumped me one year ago. We remained together for two years. It was long distance relationship with occasional meeting here and there. When I looked back into that relationship, I felt guilty and ashamed for lying with her about my job ...

Left my ex and got with a new guy, but now I miss my ex and have ended it with the new guy! What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - So basically about 5 months ago I came out of a 2 and a 1/2 year relationship with someone called Adam, our relationship was one of those where then it is good, it is really good and when it is bad it is really bad. We had, had our ups and downs to ...

I don't know what to do or feel anymore.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hi again! So the last time I was on here my question was about an ex and now I'm sad to say that I have a new ex. We had been dating for a year and 3 months and now we've broken up. The past 3 months have been on and off bickering about silly ...

I cant deal with the fact that my boyfriend of two years suddenly wants to break up with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Wednesday night my boyfriend of two years unexpectedly rang me up and asked if we could just be friends because he didn’t want to be in a relationship. I feel like someone ripped my heart out, I haven’t stopped crying since. I love him so much and...

Any advice on this situation? because I can't stop these tears from falling, but this isn't the first time

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hi. Well my boyfriend, who's my ex now, has been treating me terribly. We've been through so much, well i've been through so much with him 'til it doesn't matter what he do, i'll take him back. He has been caught cheating numerous of times, 5 times ...

Why did he move on so fast after he said he wanted to be single?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - I was dating this guy for a little while not that long then he broke up with me saying i became too clingy and that he doesn't want to be with anyone for a while but it has been two days i called him and he had someone over and he hung up in my ...

Worried all the time bout relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

28 July 2011 (M) - I got this problem which is really annoying. I'm always terrified that my girlfriend is going to dump me or stop loving me. Even the smallest action sends me into worrying and i have to physically stop my self from calling and txting her all the ...

Can two completely different people work it out and stay together? Or is this a lost cause?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4864 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - I'm confused. I've been with my bf for 3 years.we live together. He's a great guy and would make a great father/husband. However lately we've been fighting because I'm ready to have a baby and he's not.(i'm 28, he's 30). we argue about money because ...

It's very difficult and hard to get over him when I see him every day!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4864 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - I was with a a man for 18 months but we ended the relationship 8 weeks ago. A week after we split up he told me that he missed me but it was never acted on. Initially I didnt want to stay friends even though we work together and i knew id see him ...

The "Runaway:" is it likely that a person would stay in a relationship for over 4 years if they weren't really interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - Is it likely that a person would stay in a relationship for over 4 years if they weren't really interested? Would a person waste this much time with someone they didn't really want? I was in a confusing relationship for this amount of time a...

I am finding it so difficult to move on....do I stand a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

28 July 2011 (M) - I'm extremely depressed right now. To introduce myself, i'm a 17-year old gay man who has been in love with my ex-best friend till now. I have liked a number of guys in my life before, and none had worked out (They either found out and started ...

He feels like the love of my life...and I just don't know what to do!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - I have lost the man I have loved the most and whom I still think is "the one". We are both 29. We had an instant connection and our relationship was fantastic. We shared so many things in common and really supported one another in each other's ...

Has she really moved on this time? Is there a way I can get this back on track?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4863 days ago

28 July 2011 (M) - Hi everyone; I was in a 5 years relationship with my exgf i reckon she had either borderline personality disorder or some sort of disorder because its not normal to brake up and get back together so many times. I cant resist her because im hooke...

I don't want to leave him and find that most men out there are cheaters and liars with no morals!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - Are there any decent, loyal men out there? I am currently with one and although I am treated well and he would never cheat on me, the relationship lacks passion. we have sex so rarely as he does not have a high sex drive and is more happy to cuddle ...

How do I break up with my first serious boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - I want to break up with my bf of a year. Nothing has 'happened' as such to trigger this, just a general sense of,no, I dont want to spend the rest of my life with this person. He talks of marriage and kids, and I do love him, and always have, and ...

How can I attract better men? And how do I forget about the ex-con I dated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - I met a guy last year and into this year, who was an ex-con, but seemed like a good guy who came from an abusive childhood. He came on very strong, saying that he was falling in love with me, began fixing things in my apartment, talking about ...

How do I get it across to him that I want him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - ive made such a mess of things and Im so depressed about it. I finished with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago because of something so trivial. A couple of days later I realised Id made a mistake and told him I wanted him back. He said he needed time to ...

He hasn't said anything about last night......

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - I am living with my boyfriend. We are together a year now. He has a 7 year old son. He had to work last night so I was babysitting his son. I hadn't heard from him all night so at 10 I text him and said we are off to bed and what time would he be ...

Ex girlfriend said I did nothing for her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - My ex gf popped up and we got into a huge blowout. She yelled at me, insulted me and said stuff but when I said the same thing to her it was a blowout. She started talking about how she did all this stuff while we dated, I'm not good with ...

Should I take my ex-girlfriend back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 July 2011 (M) - My girlfriend, after having spent two years together, dumped me April last year saying I was doing smalltime job , so I was too poor to afford her. Now two nights back, she resurfaced , telling me that she wanted to come back. She knows I am still ...

How many months should pass after a serious relationship ended before a new relationship is not consider a rebound?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - So almost everybody tends to have a rebound relationship after a serious relationship ends...my question is, how many months should pass after a serious relationship(Like 1-2 yrs relationship)ended before a new relationship is not consider a ...

I was mad and cheated on her, but now her family and friends hate me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 July 2011 (M) - My ex and I got into a fight while we were still dating and I was mad and cheated on her. I felt horrible and told her about it the very next day. She was mad and we broke up. A few weeks later we got back together and I cheated again. This all ...

Should I get back together with my partner or go travelling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - My partner and I broke up a couple of weeks ago. We desided it would be best to take a good break from one another as our whole relationship we have been living together. I was really gutted about the breakup and really love him alot, we are getting ...

After this, do you think I will hear from him again??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

26 July 2011 (?) - Me and a guy i knew from school (we're 24 now) used to have a casual thing when we were both single. I'd never done "casual" sex before and after a while i began to have feelings for him. At one point i told him that i didn't think i could be casual ...

Should I take him back after what he did??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my ex boyfriend for 5 months. He was in the army during the week, and during most of the weekends he was home. When he was here in the weekend we spended most of our time together. He was so in love with me t...

I don't want to be somebody who is never happy with what they have....but I dream of being with another man!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - I just turned 30, well, geeze, I'm not sure what's really important to outline here, but here goes: I've had long relationships throughout my life with the most recent being 5 years now, but I've never made it past 6 years... maybe that's just coi...

If your fella cheated and left but still said he cared and looked out for you, what would you think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - If your fella cheated on you and then got into a relationship with her, but months later is telling you that he is looking out for you and still cares about you what would you make of it? I do not want him back at all as I believe I deserve better ...

How can I move on? It's like I'm obesssed with getting him back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - im driving myself insane wanting an ex back who treated me like utter crap. When Im with him I dont even want him. And now hes gone I miss him like crazy even though I know if we got back together it wouldnt work out. Im itching to text him or call ...

I don't feel I can continue in this relationship, but I cant bear to hurt a child in the process....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - I am really struggling and just don't know what to do. And this is from someone who always has a solution for everything. I feel I need to end a relationship to survive - but I can't bear to hurt a child. I have been with my Partner for two ...

What is going on in his mind? Will he contact me again? Should I contact him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - After 1 year my ex returned to me. He dumped me for another girl. I was very hurt at that time. But when he came back to me I forgave him.He loved me a lot after reunion. But dont know what happened to me I always blamed him for his past. He tried ...

Trying too hard to make everyone else happy is making me depressed! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - Any help is appreciated. So my girlfriend and I broke up and we have always been on and off but recently we've been really great. She says we act like friends and its true shes my bestfriend, but I feel like she wants to just jump into another rel...

Will I ever meet someone who won't cheat on me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I just broke up two days ago. Prior to this we were having some problems, but we talked about it and things seemed to get better.Three nights ago was our anniversary,he never gets weekends off from work, but he requested off. At thw ...

We broke up today and he was my 1st everything!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - Ok, so i am 17. I have only had one boyfriend in my life...and we have been together for almost three months and today we broke up and now we aint even freinds or anything...we do well to talk any now. I just don't know what to do. The reason i am ...

How to face my girlfriend after 7 months break up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (M) - I am a very arrogant and proud guy being from very rich family here. I get everything in my life without dropping a single drop of sweat . 30 months back, I fell in love with a amazingly beautiful girl here and I kept my family status in hide from ...

We had split up because he was not serious about our future as I was. Should I take him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - I was talking to this guy for a year and a half. We weren't in a relationship and I was gone for school most of the time. We "liked" each other, flirted etc Eventually I told him to go away since this wasn't going anywhere. After that he says he ...

I want a family, he wants to join the RAF. How can I end it without hurting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - Okay, well this has been a really hard decision for me to make and to be honest I'm still not a 100% sure if it's the right decision either. Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 5 years now and we seemed perfectly happy together, we wante...

I'm pregnant and nearly married but my partner has changed;

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - Well i have been with my partner for 3 years. ^ months ago we split up dor 6 months but he said he loved me and wanted me back. When we got back together all our previous problems seemed to have dispppeared and he proposed. Wedding is in 9 weeks and ...

Not sure what to make of my ex's messages

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - What is going on with my ex ?. We broke up in May. He broke up with me. He dumped me for a girl he spoke to online, who he has never even met !. We live in England, and she lives in America. They spoke to each other through webcam and microphones. ...