It's very difficult and hard to get over him when I see him every day!

A female age 41-50, *ngel delight writes:

I was with a a man for 18 months but we ended the relationship 8 weeks ago. A week after we split up he told me that he missed me but it was never acted on. Initially I didnt want to stay friends even though we work together and i knew id see him every day at work. He persuaded me to stay friends with him and we meet up on a weekly basis to either go to the gym or for a beer. Its never usually for long and its always me that asks him or arranges it. Sometimes i take leave from work just so i can meet up with him(i never tell him that though) I have tried not texting or calling him like the usual advice given on this site but he always texts me and i dont agree with ignoring people and playing games. After thinking about it lately I honestly believe that he is after another girl we work with. He is in charge of her and she can do no wrong!!... the only thing is she has a boyfriend who doesnt work at my office but is also in the same job as us and used to work on the same team as her. When my ex is at work he hardly ever texts me....unless she isnt in!!! I have seen him flirting with her and its embarassing because she obviously loves the attention but makes him look like an idiot!!! When my ex is on his rest days however, I hear from him all the time. Im getting really sick of being the person he texts when hes bored or doesnt have anyone else to look at or flirt with!!! I know that I am 100 x better than her but its making him see it!!!! This situation is really upsetting me and i dont know what to do. Its very diffucult and hard to get over him when i see him every day!!!!

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