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writes:im driving myself insane wanting an ex back who treated me like utter crap. When Im with him I dont even want him. And now hes gone I miss him like crazy even though I know if we got back together it wouldnt work out. Im itching to text him or call him but I know he will just ignore me. I just dont understand myself. I dont want him yet I feel desperate for him because I know he no longer wants me. How can I move on from this? I even know his mobile number by heart so its not like i can just delete everthing about him. I feel so desperate I just want to contact him and I cant get him out my head. Its like im obsessed with getting him back even though in my heart of hearts i dont actually want him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2011): if he wanted you then maybe you would not feel that way. delete his number.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2011): Its not him you miss. Its not having a guy in your life. I think you need to be on your own for a bit, I know its hard but you will be stronger for it, and your independence will grow, plus the next relationship your in will be better for it.Tell yourself you don't need a guy to make you happy, especially not one that treats you badly, you do need your friends. So why not spend more time with them. Remind yourself why it wouldnt work out with this guy, and tell yourself that you would be wasting your time. Just focus on having fun with friends, join a gym, go clubbing, go on holidays, go to music festivals, whatever. Focus on creating memories with your friends, that should take your mind off this guy and not having a guy to text.Then when your so busy enjoying life...BAM!! another guy will catch your attention when you least expect it and this guy will be history. Until then occupy yourself with things you enjoy.Good Luck.x
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reader, Roshii +, writes (26 July 2011):
 perhaps its routine that you miss, the having someone there, crap treatment or not, its hard when suddenly that persons in your life.
Just ask yourself. "Could i go back to that same treatment" and stick to what your answer is.
You should do what you want to do. But think very hard about it first.
Give yourself time to think and dont act on impulse. Get your girls together and go out and enjoy yourself fill the void with activities and then see how you feel.
I hope that helps
Roshii
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