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Archived questions from: February, 2011 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

He cheated and I haven't responded to him for 7 months. I will be moving back to his country, should I make peace with him?

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28 February 2011 (F) - Hi there, I have a complicated story. In 2009 I stayed in Australia for in total 4 months for an internship. I met this guy through a friend of mine, we hit it off instantly, and it was supposed to be something casual. We spent time together...

Do I listen to my sister and leave, or was the break a mistake?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - O.k.... I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2, nearly 3 years now and although things have not been perfect, overall we've been quite happy and I've had some of the best times with him, but my sister has told me throughout our relationship she ...

We broke up over his emotional affair but I'm having a change of heart

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I can't get over my finace. I found out he was having emotional affair on Facebookand instead of talking he called our engavement off and wouldn't admit to this. ( I gave him space to think and told him if we were no longer together (2.5 years) then ...

She's happy I'm heartbroken, is this just a rumour or true?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Recently one of my good friends told me that a girl who is currently in a relationship with someone else is happy that I am heartbroken because of her. She is a very close and good friend of mine. In the past, she helped me out a lot in a lot of ...

When I asked my boyfriend to set up some healthy boundaries with his children, he broke up with me! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I have been in relationship for 5 years. It was great for 3 years until his children ages 16 and 20 started to cross boundaries when he and I were together. I asked him on several occasions to set up some healthy boundaries to not have them wake us ...

He's 38, and I'm 21. Someday I would like to have kids, but he doesn't think he wants them. Should I stay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I am 21 years old and have been with my 38 year old boyfriend for over a year...we live together and get on sooooo well. He never upsets me, treats me like a princess and I love him to bits. The problem is, I would like to have children in the ...

Ex ignores me after initially crying to be friends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Ex broke up with me a month ago...went into no contact right after. She cried about being friends and I said no since I still had feelings. We dated for 5 years and were each others first...in everything. i knew I was going to see her at the c...

Hurt and confused, was it all my fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Today makes a week since I last spoke with my ex and I am really taking everything hard. I feel like I'm the only one hurting, like I'm the only one who cares as he is just moving on with his life happily. Long story short, we met through mutual ...

Will my husband ever move back in with me and the kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - My husband is happy to live seperate from me and the two kids and just pop in and stay a couple of nights a week and chat for 5 minutes on phone per night.... Am I crazy to think he will ever come back after living the life of a batchelor. And week...

I absolutely have no idea where I stand!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I am 25 years old, and a lesbian, I broke up with my ex girl friend after 3 years of relationship.But we still share the same room or stay under one roof .She has a long distance relationship with another woman ever since we broke up. Now the thing ...

How do I forgive and let go of an ancient relationship that still haunts me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5014 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I broke up with a guy 6 years ago. He was my first love and I can't let him go. I have tried etheric cutting of the cords, I have travelled, I have had children since and many other blessings in my life. The break up was sudden and unresolve...

How do I find out if they are into me for who I am or for my money?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hi I'm bisexual. How can I find out if a woman or man's into me because of who I am or because I'm financially wealthy and is there a difference between women and mens thoughts about my financial weath and whether those thought effect his or her ...

How do I distance myself from my ex-bf who goes to my school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - My ex boyfriend broke up with me a month ago because he didn't like me anymore, (but there was also lots of rumors around saying his friend who's a player, that played my best friend, told him to dump me because being single is better and you can do ...

If a couple breaks up because one of them didn't want anything serious, yet that person marries someone else in a few months...how and why does that happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Just wondering when you hear about a couple breaking up , because one of them didn't want anything serious. Then you hear about that person getting married/ having a baby to someone else, maybe months down the line. Why do people do that?...

Iv stood by this girl in every way, yet now she's back to her ex who used to abuse her physically and emotionally!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Hello, I have been dating this girl for about 6 months, when all of a sudden she started to ignore me. The relationship was going great, we got along great, we had fun together, nothing was going wrong. She had been ignoring me for about 2 week...

Should I stop talking to him and move on? Or do I need to stop being so dependable and act a bit hard to get instead?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - This is my first time posting so I'm a little nervous but hopefully I can still explain this properly. Around valentines day weekend my crush suddenly stopped talking to me. For a couple of weeks previous to that his previously long messages...

I broke up with him, he's in another relationship now, but I really miss him! How can I get him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I went out with this boy a while ago and I dumped him because well its a long story. Anyway he cut his hair, got a new hair style, and he has really mutured...but he's got a girlfriend and he keeps rubbing it in my face like...oh I'm going to see ...

I have a boyfriend who loves me....but I'm starting to fall for my ex again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I'm 17 years old, and I've been dating my boyfriend (let's call him O) for around 6 months, and its properly serious. I've only had one serious relationship before this one (let's call him L), here we were friends before we started dating. It end...

My boyfriend was losing interest, so I broke up with him. Later, we had sex, but now he is ignoring me! Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - My ex boyfiend and I broke up 6 weeks ago. It was my decision as he seemed to have lost interest, though he said he still liked me and wanted to still see me and occasionally go out! He started texting me almost straight away, it got dirty flirty ...

I love her but her last lie may cost me my life. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - Hello everyone, This is my first time writing, I'd really like some good advice with the situation I am in involving myself and my ex girlfriend/girlfriend - this I will explain below. There is so much to consider it will be difficult for me to ex...

Does body size matter to a guy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Do men find a curvy body attractive??? I am short lol! Only 5'4" JUST!!! and I am not a skinny girl like, I wish I was more hourglass too, my measurements are 38-35-42 and I just want to know, do guys like girls with a bit extra on the bottom a...

I just want another chance, but how do I do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I'm sorry if this is a little long, so for those who have time to read it and give me advice - many thanks in advance. So, it's been about 4 months since my ex bf broke up with me. We started dating the summer before I went back to school for my l...

My hearts in prison, but I'm with my ex and our baby, am I committing a worse crime??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Hello everyone. I haven't been on this site in a while, but now i'm in desperate need of it again. My situation is very unique. I fell head over heals in love with someone I met in my past that i've always loved. The thing is, he's in prison for 1...

She denied cheating on me, and I've gotten over that hurdle, but now I am losing her! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - I am in a long distance relationship with a girl I met about 7 months ago. We only officially started dating about 3 months ago. Things were wonderful in the beginning. We got along so wonderfully, we would talk all night on the phone. We would ...

We both just got out of other relationships. I like him, but he acts hot and cold toward me! Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Well where to start with this one ... My boyfriend, now ex boyfriend, who I was with for 4 years, (I am now 20), well we have split up and it has been very hard for me. He was my first love and boyfriend but we have been through some very difficult ...

I cannot get over someone who I never really had in the first place

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Hey all, well here I go again with my problem. Ive already posted about this before, but Im still not feeling any better. Basically, I just cannot get over someone who I never really had in the first place. I met him at new year, we started seein...

B/f broke up with me and is now ringing me asking for another chance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - What should I do about my boyfriend? I love him so much:(? My boyfriend broke up with a couple of hours ago, he said he's not the guy for me he doesn't deserve me and I could find someone better who would give me everything I want in life, a...

I want to move on. How do I let go and forget about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

27 February 2011 (?) - I'm going to try and cut this very long story short. I met up with a guy who i hadn't seen for a long time. We never really spoke at school but got back in touch over Facebook and started chatting on there. A few months later we met up and it wa...

I am so hurt.... I really feel dead inside!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - So I posted another question and it's about how me and my ex have been broke up a month and my ex that I haven't heard from in a month had his guy friend that I do not know anything about and he doesn't know me send me a text message.He said that my ...

He's practically stalking her, but if I step in to stop it, am I crossing a line?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me a few weeks ago. She insists she just needs time to find herself and I'll give her that. I'm not going to get my hopes up.. if we get back together it will be a new relationship.. not the same one. Anyw...

I fell in love with her, but she brutally rejected me. What should I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5016 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - Does it mean it's an end to my story or should i ask for friendship. I'm 25, alright looking guy. i fell in love with this customer(who's a female cop). Lately, she came to me and she was getting transferred to some island for 2 years. This news...

I feel as though my brother intervened in our relationship, and now I can't trust him. How can I fix this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5016 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Let's call my brothers friend L, and my Brother G. For the past 1 year and 2 months i have been in love with L... about 6 months ago i told him how i felt and got rejected. I found it strange when he came round asking G where i was, i was upsta...

I missed an opportunity before. How can I convey to my co-worker that I am attracted to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - around a year ago a co-worker and I both left our partners and began seeing other people. we began talking about our problems etc eventually going on a night out with friends during the night i got the vibe she was attracted to me but never acte...

7 years together and torn apart by her parents...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

26 February 2011 (M) - Hey there Dear Cupid, its been a long time. The question I have to ask is one that has been on my mind the last few weeks (Since around Valentines day). My girlfriend and best friend of 7 years and I were split up in late December by her ...

Why are we constantly hurting each other if we love each other so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - I need some very blunt, and honest relationship advice. My relationship is barely hanging on by a string.. and I guess I need someone to kind of 'counsel' me through it. (We've been together for a year and a half) I'm 17, he's 19. About 2 years ...

Why isn't he returning my calls or acknowledging my texts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - I have been talking to a guy for a little over a year and a half now. We waited 8 months to even have sex. We decided we wanted to take things slow. Well about 7 months ago things weren't going right....mostly a lack of communication and we quit ...

I'm not sure whether to end this unhealthy relationship or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - Cant quite believe I’ve come to asking this sort of advice on a forum! I'm 27, I've mean with my bf 2 years now, living together but no kids, planning a life together etc etc. We've had a few problems which I’ll write about below; but basically w...

After dating for 3 years, I suspect my boyfriend is cheating! How do I approach him to ask if it's true?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - Do I or don’t I break up with my partner? We have been seeing each other for 3 years now and I suspect him of seeing some one else. How shall I approach him to ask him if it’s true? Help please!!!...

Is my ex really over me or he's trying to see me hurt? I'm really confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - Hi there, I hope to hear some of your opinions on my problem. It's been going for nearly 2 weeks since we broke up. We were together for nearly a year. It was a mistake from both sides. We had been in this distance relationship and haven'...

I want to make sure that I'm not missing out on something!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5016 days ago

26 February 2011 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 12 months. I love her more than anything, and I can't imagine being happier with anyone else. But, she's my first partner and my first love, and I feel like I need to see other people. But I don't want...

Three significant relationships have all ended due to circumstance. Is it my fault?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

26 February 2011 (M) - Is it true that women just want bad guys? I'm a good natured guy, and whenever I'm in a relationship with someone I will do anything to try and keep them happy and show them I care. Unfortunately I've just gone through my 3rd break up from a signif...

B/f thinks we should break up till I finish my studies

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - My bf and i have been going out for almost two years. For 5 1/2 months he was in Austria and we stayed together. He was back for a week before he had to leave for uni. Everything was fine for that week. Two days after going to uni we get into a ...

I caught my fiance sexting his ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - I need help. i have no one to talk to. my fiancée texted his ex girlfriend, that cheated on him, saying he want to squirt a load in her. this is the second time i caught him saying sexual things to her. the texts where a year apart. he said that i ...

We're on a break, the no contact is driving me nuts

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

26 February 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been dating now for almost 3 years we have an apt together and just recently she said she cant handle me not making her happy.. so we are taking a break and i thought she didnt love me anymore but i went over there and all ...

Moving on from an 18month relationship when he cheated

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5016 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had been together for 18 months, but we split around 4 months ago, as he cheated on me.. I've been trying to get over him by going out with my friends, listening to songs to make me hate him and it works at the time, but a while ...

My ex gave his friend my number? Why would he do this? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - I asked a question yesterday about how my ex had a way of coming into my life again after our breakups, since we have been on and off for a year. Well we haven't talked for a month since our breakup, but this morning I woke up and had a text from ...

Boyfriend has gone off on a vacation with his ex wife and kids, does he love her more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - I don't think that I'm being unreasonable that I'm fairly annoyed that my partner, the guy who says he loves me.. has just gone away for a few days away with his ex wife and kids. Staying in a hotel in a family room! Last year I begged him to go aw...

Sad breakup...slowly moving on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I need your perspective to get healed faster. A year ago, I fell in love with my close friend of 6 months whom I knew for quite few years. He proposed me,I had deep admiration and love for him,I said yes instantly. We were/are in diff...

Is it possible to get over someone you've loved so quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

25 February 2011 (M) - Hi, I was just wondering...is it easy for some people to get out of a relationship unexpectedly? Me and my gf dated for a year and a half but were friends and "getting to know each other" since 2006. We broke up because of differences, I'm moving an ...

Is he using me as a comfort blanket?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - Well was with a guy for five years, engaged, lived together for two, he broke it off cos we weren't getting on for our last month together.I had been away studying and when I came back I do think that he enjoyed not having to worry bout anyone bar ...