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*cotte9202
writes:My girlfriend and i have been dating now for almost 3 years we have an apt together and just recently she said she cant handle me not making her happy.. so we are taking a break and i thought she didnt love me anymore but i went over there and all the pics of us that i took down were back up! i love her to death and this is all my fault she says she needs space to think if she can give me another chance. i know i need to work on my problems of not showing her i love her and i dont know how to change Ive got no help from my friends or family at this point im all alone and i want another chance cause she is my world and i cant live without her. we grew up together, and im afraid to hear her say im done. i basically dont know what to do right now. there is a knife in my gut and everyday i dont hear from her it gets deeper. i dont want to push her away by bothering her yet i hate not hearing her voice or even getting a txt from her please help me!!!
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reader, TEM +, writes (28 February 2011):
 Have you tried to email her? If you sent her a letter telling her how you feel, she might give you another chance.
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reader, scotte9202 +, writes (26 February 2011):
scotte9202 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe is unhappy because when she gets home from work i say hey babe, and thats all i dont get up and kiss her and its not that i dont want to its ive got a very stressful and physical demanding job...i want another chance to be at the door waiting to pick her up..kiss her and ask how her day went but she says she wants space and i havent heard from her in 2 days..she used to atleast say goodnight love you but not anymore and i dont know how to take it
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reader, TEM +, writes (26 February 2011):
Why don't you let her read what you have written here? You are expressing your love for her very well. If you can write so strongly about your feelings for her in this post, I am unsure why you cannot show her in person.
If she has all your pictures up, I don't think she wants to end things with you, but you must get to the root of her displeasure. Why is she so unhappy with you? Do you know? If you do know, is it something you feel you can change? If you love her as much as you say you do, you will figure out what is wrong (if you don't already know) and take steps to change it.
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