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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 12 months. I love her more than anything, and I can't imagine being happier with anyone else. But, she's my first partner and my first love, and I feel like I need to see other people. But I don't want to risk losing what we have, and the last thing I ever want to do is to hurt her.I know that suggesting taking a break would destroy her... and I don't know that I could handle it, myself.But I want to know that I'm with the right person. I want to be sure that I'm not missing out on something.
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (26 February 2011):
I will tell you something: after dating thirty people you won't be sure if you are with the right person. Because you can never be completely sure about it. If you love her, I promise you that you will regret taking a break just because you didn't dated anyone else.
In the other hand, you are too young and chances are you won't marry this girl. So you will have time to know other people. I'm talking about a statistical fact here. I can't be sure if your relationship will or will not work. But right know it's working so breaking it makes no sense to me.
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