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writes:Hi, I was just wondering...is it easy for some people to get out of a relationship unexpectedly? Me and my gf dated for a year and a half but were friends and "getting to know each other" since 2006. We broke up because of differences, I'm moving an hour away to a university, religion, ect.). The breakup was WAY unexpected. She actually was begging to stay together and then realized maybe this is what she needs. Fast-forward a month and she is "casually seeing" a new guy and I hear from her every other day but its brief and unmeaningful. Is it possible for people to just NOT CARE about someone they were in love with that fast?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks so much. It's frustrating because she doesn't miss me at all I don't think. She doesn't even text me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2011): Yes, I believe it's possible, but it's definitely not probable. If a person seems to recover from a break-up too fast, it usually means one of 2 things. They're either covering up their hurt or they fell out of love long before the break up happened. In your case, I think it's the first one. It's quite possible that this other guy your ex is seeing is just a "rebound". She might be one of those people who can't stand being single even for a short amount of time. Or, she could be seeing him to make you jealous. After all, she begged you to stay with her, then suddenly she "realized" this is what she needs, she could have just said that because begging you didn't work. (From your post, I'm guessing you were the one that initiated the break up?) Look at it this way, if she didn't care about you, you wouldn't be hearing from her at all. Her briefness when she talks to you could just be that she fears if she talks to you too much or for too long, she'll accidentally say something that lets you know she still has feelings for you.
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