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Archived questions from: December, 2011 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Has my break up given me an eating disorder?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - I'm 32 and have 2 children. I split up with my partner on the 9th December. Was quite a bad break up and since then I just don't have any appetite what so ever.....I just push food around my plate and barely eat anything. Typical daily example is a ...

How could he do this to me.....please help.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - Me an my partner split up a about 3 weeks ago we were in a serious relationship, but had a big argument and he decided we needed a break. Said he still loved me but just needed time to think. I let him think an thought he would get in touch....... ...

Do you think she and I will ever be friends again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 December 2011 (M) - Hello aunts! Even if I'll try to sum up my story in the best way possible, I think this will be long. Thanks in advance for reading. I met this girl like a year and a half ago in a one-week summer activity we both signed up for. She is from Japa...

Is my long distance romance over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I met a guy online in august. Things built up gradually, we were a great match and had lots in common. I loved spending time talking with him each day and getting to know this guy who I found to be lovely. We had similar, goals, aspirations and ...

B/f broke up with me saying it was best to move on, now he's cold. How do I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hi please help my boyfriend decided to end our relationship of 5 years just before Christmas. He has got annoyed because I have tried calling him, speaking to him and texting him. I know this is making things worse but I cannot cope, though I know I ...

He's my ex. I still love him. Why does he keep me as his FWB? How do I heal myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hello, I will make this brief. I am a 23 year old female, who just got out of a relationship with a 22 year old male. We'll call him K. He and I had a lot happen between us that was mainly my doing, I was not ready for a relationship since I had ...

I miss him so much! And he's dating someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hey, any advice would be really appreciated. My ex and I broke up about 8 weeks ago. We were friemds/flatmates before deciding to give things a go. We are very different, but we just seemed to click in some way, especially in bed. He is a quiet ...

I became too controlling and she wanted out. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

29 December 2011 (M) - i have being going out for a lass for 4months it was all good until we started rushing things abit n seeing each other everynight. thats when i started making mistakes n became over protective of her i deleted her male friends numbers of er phone n ...

She broke up with me because I took her forgranted. I want her back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 December 2011 (M) - My girlfriend also my baby mama of 6yrz broke up with me yesterday. Thing is i knew she loved me and i took her for granted. What i mean z i sometimes disrespected her and mistreated her. Not physically tho. Wel 2dy we finally spoke she says she ...

I want to leave but I have nowhere to go.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - How do i get my boyfriend (soon to be ex) to stop eating his boogers, every time i see him hes diggin in his nose and putting it in his nose.. i am so grossed out.. i dont even kiss him anymore, and he gets really really made and throws temper ...

Should I leave my boyfriend? If yes, then how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4710 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - Hi Agony Aunt's, I need an advice about my relationship... its a little long but please every one i need help... :( currently i do not know what am i suppose to do at the moment... I am with my boyfriend it's being 2 years now, at starting it was ...

He wants to stop chasing women. So he dropped me. What can I do to encourage him to not just walk away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - Hi, I have been really foolish and now I'm stuck in a love relationship with someone who doesn't want to be with me. I'm 31 and female and met this amazing guy last year in a bar with friends, he's 3 years younger then me, funny, intellig...

How should I move on from a 2 year relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - this will be long but please take time to read. I badly need an advice right now :( -------------------------------------- last week, I broke up with this guy whom i dated for exactly 2 years. we broke up because he doesn't make an effort a...

What should I do? We still fight after 10 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - I have been dating a man off and on for 10 yrs. We have a 5 yr old son. we were recently apart for a yr and a half and met new people, dated others, i grew to travel and play poker, and he has stayed the same. Hanging out with bad people, drinking ...

Should I speak up & still walk away w/ my dignity?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - Met him about 5mos ago thru my bro-n-law, started talking, hung out a couple weeks later and its been physical ever since. I've been open, telling him I like him, wanna get to know him better and he gave me his busy schedule excuse about 2mos ...

I broke off temporarily from my girlfriend because she won't let me see my family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (M) - After a long time of her not being willing to spend time with my friends/family, I recentley suggested to my girlfriend we should take a break from eachother so she could decide if she's willing to change that. I felt quite lousy for suggesting it, ...

Should I break up with him and start looking for a more mentally mature guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4693 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for nearly 10 months. But for the past month, I've been feeling really, really tired. We always go to the same places and discuss the same topics. Basically, we don't have any common interests - he's ...

How do I let go of him and move on with my life? or should I stay and fight for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, So here it goes...a year and 1/2 ago, I met my soul mate...online. I know this sounds very cliche for this era, but it happened. What seemed to be attraction and coincidence, I soon found to be a connection deeper than I had felt bef...

I'm really confused. Do I stay with my BF or go to this other guy? And how will it affects the kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Need advice please. I have been with the father of my kids for six years now. We have had our up and downs. We have even split up a few times and got back together within days. About 1 1/2 years ago I started my job unknowing at the time that this...

How do I completely cut my ex out of my life? He keeps writing to me as if there is nothing wrong. He's put me off Online dating forever

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - I "dated" this guy for a year before we broke up. We met online and during that year I never fully trusted him. I always felt like something was wrong or off in some way, that he wasn't telling me everything. I mean, I never met his friends, I don't ...

His Mom tells lies about me. We have a baby girl. Should I wait until he wants to come back to me? Or contact him first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Just had a huge fight with my boyfriend, his mom and sister. He was drunk and was arguing with my mom and me....he was saying all kinds of things to us and well my mom was screaming things back so it turned out to be a huge fight! We ended up ...

He can't have loved me like I thought! Is he a loser?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Me an my x broke up 3 months ago. I have never heard off him since. I did cheat on him, but i was drunk and it meant nothing. He changed his number. He cannot love me like i thought because he would have wanted to sort our problems out. Is it time ...

Should I walk away from this relationship for my partners sake?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

26 December 2011 (M) - Ok so I have asked for help here before and you aunts have been so sweet to me. This is an actual relationship question. Basically as some of you know I'm trasnsgender. Born into a male body but defiantly female inside. I do have trouble finding ...

What lessons can I learn from this? My Boyfriend left without any warning after almost 1.5 years

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - I’ve read a lot of wisdom on this site so I thought I’d seek some guidance and advice from you wonderful people. My BF of 1.5 years left me without any warning a month ago. I came home and all of his stuff was gone and only a note left saying...

My boyfriend's lazy, unhygienic, has cockroaches on his bed,wants to get married and live in a trailer park..I'm done with him! Is it bad if I break up with him through text?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Hey. I have an issue. I've been dating my bf for a year, and I want out. The problem is, he doesn't know I feel this way... Yet. I told my friends that I wanted to break up with him and when they all got drunk at a party, they told my bf's best ...

How do I forget someone who meant so much and gave me so little reason?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - my ex after two years went home for a week, told me he wanted it over. that i could do better he wasn't what i needed. i replied lets wait well talk. we did the day after over text had it out. i said i can't cope put me out my misery i love you....

How to be friends with an ex???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 December 2011 (F) - My ex and I just broke up a month ago and I'm ready to take the next step to be friends..how do I do that?i want to get to know him more..we only got to know eachother or two-three weeks and things got too fast!..but we both don't want to be ...

What's up with her - has she met someone new?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

25 December 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have had a very rough patch. We split up but kept talking. She would send 10 messages every day letting me know I was on her mind etc. She's needy and high maintenance I've not minded, I like her that way. Though she's b...

Why do I feel guilty - my boyfriend cheated on me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

25 December 2011 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for three years. I didn't think we had any problems,only trying life circumstances, but since he ended the relationship by cheating on me, I've found out he was unhappy. The thing that shocks me about the break up is that...

Why do guys say what they think you want to hear?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - why do lads whether its your best friend or your boyfriend, always tell you what they think you want to hear, like the phrase "i love you" "ive missed you". Me and my best friend have not spoken for the past five/six month. i work in a bar and he ...

How do I get through possibly the worst Christmas ever? Just broke up and he will not return my calls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - I dont know where to start..i just spent the last two months with the most wonderful boy. We broke up on thursday. When i first met him he had a girlfriend but split with her. They have a child together. I knew he was very down the last week and ...

I'm terrified that I'm going to like him too much

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - I just need a little advice about this guy I just met. It's important to know that I have just been broken up with by the guy I deeply loved (first love) and we had been together for four years (since being 17) and he decided to end it six weeks ...

Just found out he has another FWB. Should I break up or continue with the little comfort he provides?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - I just found out my friend with benefits, over 1.5 years now, has another fwb for a year going. It hurt and i felt used because i thought what we had was special. I am 40 and dont feel there are many options for me, and have settled for less. no...

I don't want to ruin Christmas for him, but should I be worried about the two of them??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - i need you to help me in my relationship I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and 3 months, but now i think he is cheating on me. My boyfriend and I are in a LDR, i know about the girl he has been in contact with at the same time. she is outsi...

I flipped out on my boyfriend...He's separated, has 3 kids, and not enough time for me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - so ive been involved with my boyfriend for 9 months (hes 40 and i am 29)....i care about him so much but sometimes things are so hard.. he is separated and has three young children who always come first as i know they should. a big part of the stru...

Is my verbally abusive Bf cheating? Should I leave him? How do I stand up for myself better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and I recently had twins a boy and girl and I feel my boy friend doesnt love me no more ! I DO everything for him I cook, clean, give him sex when he wants it , i take care of the twins i told him 'if you want to help me with the twin...

Is it over for good? Or do I just give him space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 December 2011 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for about a year now. Lately in the last month, it was extremely rocky. We've been getting into a lot of arguments I admit a lot of it has to do with me picking at little things. He wanted to break up in the beginning ...

Do I continue to try with the 19 year old reluctant girl? Or try with this amazing girl I just met?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 December 2011 (M) - I met this girl, we dated for a month and it was all going so slow it annoyed me. She didn't let me kiss her until after a couple of dates and it was not even a kiss it was a peck. When I tried giving her a real kiss she got so tense I stopped. An...

I'm worried I'm in love with a guy I grew up with. What will I do about my boyfriend, who I don't love now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 December 2011 (F) - I grew up on a rough estate, and I hung around with the bad boys. That was 7 years ago, and since then i met a lad through college and we got together in 2009. He cheated and lied constantly, i forgave him, Though I don't know why I did forgive him,...

I've decided to break up with my Bf. Should I wait until a week or so into the new year and just have a peaceful x-mas?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 December 2011 (F) - I have decided to break up with my boyfriend of 2 years because I no longer feel right in the relationship. I made this decision finally yesterday after lots of thought over the past few weeks, so it's not a spur of the moment thing and I am not ...

Is it over?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

23 December 2011 (M) - Hi, I've been dating a girl for a few weeks and the last couple we haven't seen each other as she doesn't live in my town but is here usually working on weekends. She's been a little distant not sending me messages a lot as before and in the space ...

I'm not over him and I don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 December 2011 (F) - Ughh, I feel like I'm asking questions all the time now! Sorry. Anyway. A couple weeks ago me and my boyfriend broke up ya know, and well, I kind of miss him. People keep saying no commitment, just have fun and date, which is all fine and dandy I ...

I would give up the guy I'm seeing for my ex... but what does he want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - Hey guys i need some advice... ive been with my current partner for the last 7 months and he is amazing... hes so kind, lovely, caring everything i always thought i wanted in a man, but i realise that there is something as to nice... however after ...

Am I justified in feeling insulted by his behavior towards me over his 'present?' to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I (relationship of 6yrs) dont do presents however today he bought a present for his son's Gf (live-in rent-free gf) a ok Body shop set n some loose items. In jest I asked if he had anything for me and he took one of the items .wra...

How do I resolve that my ex is on my mind and we talk daily but I also like this guy at work? I think I love both.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - I think I am in love with 2 people. S and M. What should I do? S is my ex-partner of nearly 6 years. We split up 2 months ago and it was quite a shock to me. We had a very good relationship and spent alot of time together. S said he was unsure wh...

My girlfriend after 5 years says she doesn't know if she wants to be with me. Is it time to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

22 December 2011 (M) - After almost 5 years my girlfriend says she still doesnt know if she wants to be with me! Personally i dont think she does want to be with me but is too scared to say it, and ive thought this for past 3 years. She also says she needs me in her life, ...

We broke up because she is a go-getter and I wasnt figuring my career out quick enough...but now I want her back, how do I show her things will be different this time?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

22 December 2011 (M) - I think the main reason was my wavering mind about my career, and the pace at which I was going in trying to figure things out - more slowly than her. She's a real go getter, and she really wanted me to match her pace, which I wanted to as well, but ...

I wasn't entirely sure about commitment and let him go. Now I know I was wrong.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

21 December 2011 (F) - Please someone shed some light on my heavy heart. I recently broke up with my partner of 8years. I was deeply in love with him..almost to obsession. He wanted to get married and start a family but throughout our r/ship, there were a lot of red flag...

Is she being completely honest with me or lying about something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

21 December 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I recently got back together after being broken up for about a year. We've been back together since September of this year. Everything was great, emotionally and physically, for the first month. Then, all of a sudden, she's not ...

Has anyone ever spent New Year's Eve alone?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

21 December 2011 (F) - Hey aunts! So, I'm going through a pretty rocky phase in my life (my mom passed away last spring, I recently broke up with my 5year bf and I'm very heartbroken). Looks like I'm gonna be spending New Years Eve alone. I know it's a super loser thing ...