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writes:After almost 5 years my girlfriend says she still doesnt know if she wants to be with me! Personally i dont think she does want to be with me but is too scared to say it, and ive thought this for past 3 years. She also says she needs me in her life, but has never said she wants me in her life. Our relationship has been on the rocks for last 3 years and doesnt look like it will ever get any better. She has said it will never ever be how it was, and because she feels that way she sees no point in even trying and seems happy to just let our relationship slip away. Is it time to move on?
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (22 December 2011):
 It sounds like it is time to move on. It's tough but it is the best thing for you to go find love instead of just waiting for the relationship wo go south. You also have to choose whether you still want her in your life or if it would just be best to fade out of each others lives and go your separate ways. I wish I had done that more instead of trying to stay in touch until the friendship ends bad.
It's a tough decision but you have to do what is best for you.
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reader, Fatherly Advice  +, writes (22 December 2011):
 From what you have said, She has already moved on. You may as well.
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (22 December 2011):
 If she doesn't know whether she wants to be with you after five years, then it's time to move on. She's not putting in any effort and she never tells you she wants you, which is something you should hear often. Move on and find someone who wants you, because she seems to be taking you for granted.
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