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writes:My girlfriend also my baby mama of 6yrz broke up with me yesterday. Thing is i knew she loved me and i took her for granted. What i mean z i sometimes disrespected her and mistreated her. Not physically tho. Wel 2dy we finally spoke she says she want out permanently. The past 26 hrz without her in my life really gave me a wake up call, iv bn doin thngs dat i didnt have to, sayin thngs i didnt have to. Plz give me some advice on hw to show her im sincerely sorry and that i need her , love her more than anythng in ths world i jst forgot to show her that!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2011): @jonas thanks ur giving me exactly the kinda advice im hoping for. I spoke 2 her friend ths morning and she said shes very upset bt she stil loves me. She said i need 2 gv her some time 2 cool down n dat i need 2 stop stressing. Its very difficult knowing i may have ended the best relationshp of my life due 2 some silly mistake. Its like i said, we men have ds problem of forgetting 2 show appreciation 2 doz dat matterz d mst in our lives. So wat do i do? How long a space wud u say a gal needs?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2011): Really i am not being selfish at all n i am truly sorry! Letting her go is a lil difficult to do not bcoz of my selfish needs bt bcoz i love her and i wana spend d rest of my life with her! I jst need help getting her back n helping her heal! Anything but letting her go, we have so much planned together!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2011): The best way to show how sorry you are and how much you care for her, is to leave her alone and not try to get her back. If you're really sorry for what you did, you would be sympathizing with her desire to get away from you. If you're trying to get her back it shows you still don't care about her you're just being selfish all over again.
Some times when you mess up and really hurt someone you don't get a second chance because that person is so hurt by you they have to move on from you so they can heal themselves from the damage you did to them. As long as you're in the picture they can't heal. You had 6 years so you had more than one second chance already.
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