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writes:My girlfriend and I recently got back together after being broken up for about a year. We've been back together since September of this year. Everything was great, emotionally and physically, for the first month. Then, all of a sudden, she's not turned on anymore. She went from being extremely sexual to rarely wanting to have sex within a few weeks. She tells me its the medication she's on but she's been on meds since June. Is she being completely honest with me or lying about something?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (22 December 2011):
 Sounds like it's time to break up again... and, this time, make sure that it STICKS......
Good luck...
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2011): Maybe her feelings towards you changed all of a sudden? They can, at first when you got back togheter, she felt very excited about it, but now maybe she isn't all that exicited anymore. Maybe she have something on her mind, so don't pressure her about it, just sit down and talk with her, listen and understand if she have something to say. In the badest case, maybe she have checked somebody else out. About the medication, to be honest, I don't think that is why she doesn't get turned on anymore, because when you don't feel or want to have sex you make up all kind of excuses, like ''No I'm to tired'' etc
Good luck!
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reader, xsugarx  +, writes (21 December 2011):
hmmmm ... could you could be pushing her to much ?! ( bearing in mind you did just get back together) do a little 4play, get her in the mood rather than just sex make her feel wanted rather suiting you all the time..etc when you feel like having sex (try and wait till she aniciates it )
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2011): In all honesty, just ask her.
Be open about it and ask her what the matter is. It may be the medication, side effects if she's been on it since June then they could be affecting her hormones ect.
Or she has something on her mind.
Don't pressurize her about it, be gentle and see to it that she feels open to you even if it is something else.
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