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Archived questions from: December, 2007 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

I have a long problem. Please help me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6192 days ago

31 December 2007 (?) - I no longer know what to do. I feel as though my BF and I are getting inside this never ending suffering... Ok, I'm 19. He's 22. I have asked for help with this before, but even though he says it hasn't I feel this has gotten worse. He has is...

Should I break up by email, as it's the easiest method for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

31 December 2007 (M) - Hi, i was wondering what is the easiest way to break up with my long time girlfriend? I know face to face is probably the best way but i cannot handle her crying, last time i tried to break it off i couldnt go through with it and took her back. A...

He's coming on strongly and I'm scared. I think I want to break up. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - So I have been with my beau for about a 6 weeks now. He is very much in love with me, but I don't share quite as intense of feelings. He is a great guy and amazing to be with, but I would rather him just as a friend. The problem is I know we have ...

I just broke up with him and he hasn't spoken since. Should I text him or what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - If there was anytime i need some help i need it now, i just broke up with my boyfriend and i dont just feel emotionally sick but i also feel physically sick...like i cant breathe and my stomach is in knots. This is the worst feeling in the world and ...

We've been together 6 years but he's told me he loves his ex as much as me, and he wouldn't be able to resist her if the chance came up. Do I stay or leave him??

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - My partner and I have been together for 6 years and I have a Daughter from a previous relationship who calls my partner Dad(No contact with my ex).When we first got together he explained that he and his ex were still friendly and i accepted ...

I don't want my ex to be hurt that I've found someone else, and I don't want my church group to think I'm a slut

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - So I met my ex through my church youth group. We dated for a little over 3 years, but then i broke up with him. Only a few people in the youth group know that I have a new boyfriend. I'm afriad that if someone finds out, they will go and tell my ex. ...

He likes me alot more than I like him, should I settle for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6197 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - I have had the ultimate worst luck with men! From being in a serious relationship for 6 years, to being with another guy for 2 years who ended things with me cos his mother controlled his every breath and hated my guts for some reason :o@ Now I have ...

How long do I wait after my recent break up before accepting a date? I've received an invitation but I'm worried about my... public image.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - i have just broken up with my bf of 3 years, i knew it was coming long before it did - but this really nice guy now is asking me to go on a date with him, i'm not sure: is it to soon, will i make myself out to be bitch, i really need help plz, i ...

My ex wants me back but he's hurt me in the past, how do I move on and find someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - So New Year's Day would have been mine and my fiance's two year anniversary. I recently seperated. He was the love of my life. He still wants a relationship with me and wants to be my friend, but it's so difficult. I am hurting so bad right now, and ...

I found hair in our bed that is NOT mine, my boyfriend won't explain, help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6197 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I've been having some problems with my boyfriend lately. we've been together for quite a while now. He's been trying to make up what he did to me, and we've been seeing each other and trying to get our relationship back to normal. Just yesterday we ...

My dad used to hurt me and I can't let anyone get close to me, please help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - gee...well i've never actually used one of these before. um...hiya, im 17 and i went out with this guy for 2 years who i've recently broken up with. and he was great, y'know? and i'm pretty sure i loved him but the thing is i got terrified of how ...

She dumped me and is with someone else but says she still loves me, do I try to move on or try to get her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - ok, I am not together with my girl anymore. she has gotten into something with another guy and everything. she broke it off with me. I still love her and i want her back. I could let this go, but she's not letting me. she still wants to talk with me ...

We just broke up. If you don't talk for a few months will he forget you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend just recently broke up with me. Is it better to not talk for a few months, until I am over him? Do feelings just disappear or if its a real connection will they still be there? Or is it better to occasionally talk so he doesn't ...

What do I do? Stay with my current bf or get back with my ex when he comes here, to live?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6201 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - I moved to Australia 6 months ago and broke up with my fiance of a year and a half to do so, i have now found another boyfriend who i have fallen for. My ex fiancee rang me up today from home and told me he misses me and is going move to Australia ...

We got back together again but I feel like I made a big mistake. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - i broke up withmy boyfriend of 4 years but we got back together after about 4 weeks now been together a further 3 months, i feel like i made a mistake i really like this guy (who i was seeing whilst we were apart) and i feel like i just need to be ...

I don't want to live with him and his family..now he threatens we will break up! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I m acctually living a dilemma I recently knew someone who asked me for marriage quite rapidly I was a bit confused ,its true that he is a good guy who has many good qualities ,he works ,he is well educated but he comes from a diffrent...

He dumped me and now I find myself...going past his place everyday to see if he's in...advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Ok you lot will think im a complete idiot here but im not. I was kind of seeing this guy he was a few years older than me and to be honest ive never before had a relationship and this guy was so special i was so happy to have a guy like me. anyway c...

His mistress is pregnant and is threatening-- that my husband cannot see his child if he remains with me!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I found out about a year ago that my husband was having an affair. I was devestated. However we dealt with it and I forgave him. After he broke up with her, things were to my knowledge really good, and I felt like we were going to make it. However ...

Is he stringing me along or trying to breakup with me in a nice way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6201 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I dated a guy for four months. While that may not seem like a long time, we had a strong connection, all our friends also said we were perfect for eachother. Out of the blue he broke up with me. To add to us breaking up, we live an hour apart, saw ...

How do you get over an abusive relationship when you're being framed as the crazy person?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Recently my boyfriend broke up with me. This relationship has lasted over a year. It was at first the greatest thing I had, but became abusive - I seemed to be blind and held onto it because I remembered his kind self at the beginning and hoped he ...

How can somebody go from loving you to being with somebody else in the flip of a switch??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6201 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - I have had a relationship with a girl who has been a long-time friend of the family. I have been married once for 19 years and in a relationship with another woman for 8 years. The woman that i was seeing has been married twice and is legally ...

I told my insecure gf to move on if she did not trust me. She did. What can I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - my girlfriend of 8 months recently broke up,due to me telling her if she did not trust me to move on. she is very insecure. she slept with a person 2 nights in a row and says he showed her the attention she was wanting. she will not talk to me for ...

My friends keep telling me to get over him but I just can't.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - I had fancied this guy for about a year before he asked me out. We live a long way apart and met on two other previous holidays. We had talked by text and msn. And we met the weekend before he asked me out. When he asked me out i was so happy. I...

How do I keep her in mind but not irritate her independance??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6201 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - My girl broke up with me after thanksgiving. She admitted she just not sure what she wants. She does need to get her life straight no doubt. But i'm in love with her. She admits she loves me too. She is just screwed up and I know it. I knew it ...

I just want to be single and see what is out there...but my ex loves me and won't leave me alone.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - I recently broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago. I had realized that instead of being tied down to one person i wanted to enjoy the rest of my high school experience single. Ever since the day i have broken up with him, he hasn't left me alone. ...

I know I should move on from my long-distance ex but just feel I can't.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6201 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - How to i get over my ex? We split a month ago after going out for 4 months, it was long distance but we fell in love but he broke it off as the distance was gettin to much and he couldnt keep affording to come up as i'm only 16 and not allowed ...

How could it happen that the next day after asking me for reconciliation, they declared their love for each other and became a couple?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - I decided to end my relationship with my alcholic boyfriend 3 months ago - we were together over 5 years, living and working together 24/7. He spent a week in hospital early in 2007 where he underwent detox and suffered the most dreadful ...

I moved with my family in Turkey to be near my bf. He has proposed to me but the fact he at times ignores me for days is confusing to the point I'd travel back to UK. Your thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1836 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - Ok before I even start I know I am stupid for putting myself in this situation but I dont know where to turn or what to do. I have been with my turksih bf for over a year. we are living apart however i moved to turkey just over 3 months ago with ...

Do you think that he is taking time out to think now that Christmas is over or he has already made a choice? Is it maybe a mid-life crisis?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - Hi, please help. My partner/fiance left our home 2 months ago after 5 years for a reason i did not know. I saw him last sunday and he told me that the reason he left was because he had met someone else. When i asked him he told me it was a 26 year ...

If I feel that there's nothing between us on my side any longer, how can we carry on? Has the relationship reached the end of the line? How should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - I really don't think I want to remain with my partner. We don't live together or anything and after splitting up earlier this year, we got back together in September. He was the one that kept contacting me to see if we could try and sort the rel...

She left me after 3 years and I don't understand what happened, what is she trying to do to me? Is it too late for us to fix things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6202 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - my xgirlfriend left me after 3 years.we never fight, we always got alone.well she left me befor hollween this year.I was going to ask her lets go out to eat and she said no and i was shocked i was going to be nice.well she said we got to talk well ...

What can I do to bring my husband back home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - my husband and i seperated and we have 2 kids and i just want to know what i can do to bring him back home?...

My husband left me telling me he is not in love anymore, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - My husband left me three weeks ago and has told me he is not in love with me anymore, what can i do??...

Who do I contact to separate from my wife, 3 months after the marriage? Will I lose the house? Can I banish her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - hiya any help on what to do next ive got to get out of this relationship i will start from the beginning, my girlfriend and her son (not mine) moved into my house about two years ago all seemed great she did not pay for any bills as said she had ...

Do I really owe him anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - I have been involved with a married man for almost a year now. I have three kids and he has four - all of which are outside of his marriage of 18+ years. I know, this is awful. Well, I want to break it off now because of how guilty and degraded I ...

He lied to me so I broke up but I still love him, how can I forget him and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6203 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - Hi all, i really need some advice i am so confused. 3 month ago my boyfriend sent a flattering messageto a girl(saying how no1 can be as beautiful as her). He sent it to me by mistake. We broke up. He said it was a girl in work, even told me where ...

How long should I say I waited before embarking on a new relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6163 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - Ok, so I was with my present ex for almost 3.5 years and i lost my feelings for him. So I broke up with him. We are still kinda good friends, we don't really talk but we have to keep it nice because we see each other almost once a month volunteering ...

How do I get over him? I miss him and cant stop crying.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - Hi I am so upset as i broke up with my boyfriend last night. I asked him a simple question, if he would stick by me if any unplanned pregnancies happened and at first he wouldnt give me a straight answer then he just simply said well i wouldnt ...

One minute he didn't want me anymore, the next he's acting like we are a full on couple. I don't understand.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend recently split up with me mid-december, claiming that he could not handle our relationship and was jealous of my friendships with other men. He stayed in touch with me over the course of the last few weeks and only a week after ...

I did all the embarrassing/annoying ex things and now I'm a mess. How do you move on from someone that doesn't love you anymore?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6197 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - The first person that I've ever had real feelings for finished with me just over a month ago and I'm still having a hard time trying to stop thinking about him. We were only together for 5 months and I can understand why it didn't work out. We hit a ...

She says I ruined her Christmas and any chance I had and now I'm confused and don't know what to think or do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6203 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - Sorry if this is a bit long, it is a developing story that I have been posting to here about... Well, My girlfriend of several years told me she needed time and space. I gave her some, but tried to fight for her back. We were back for a short w...

Is it love or do I just want to keep control over her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - Very complicated situation but I'll try to summarize it. I'm a 23 year old guy and I broke up with my long term girlfriend about a year ago. We went out for 2 years, had an on/off relationship for a while (I was the one who kept breaking it off)...

How can I explain to my ex that I cared for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6204 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - I need your help guys. I saw this girl last yr very briefly but quickly bailed out b4 it got serious (just wasnt ready for a serious rship). In Jan i started thinking abt her again thinking i didnt give her a chance and decided to go back and not be ...

Things are so complicated. Somebody help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6204 days ago

27 December 2007 (?) - right you wont belive the mess im in, bassically im 19 years old, jus come out of a pretty destructive relationship, ive known this girl for 4 years, we dated when we were younger although it wasnt very serious, she was besotted with me, but being a ...

Am I in love or only feeling jealous of her moving on? Why are my mind and heart going in thousands of directions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - I would like to know if I am still in love or is it just being hurt. Please let me explain. My ex and I broke up 5 months ago, after 7 years, because I cheated on her with a friend of hers. I know I am a very bad person and I pray all the time...

I just can't find a way out! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I was friends this older man and all i wanted a frienship, but somehow it lead to being more than just that. He wanted more but i did not because of the age difference. Later in the last year I ended the relationship and continue the friendship. In ...

I've broken up with my girlfriend of 3 years. When is it ok to start dating again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend of 3yrs about 3 weeks ago, and i was wondering when is it a good time to start dating other people? Ive started to like a girl that i work with and shes made it pretty clear that she likes me also, but im not sure ...

I've known him ten years and we have different birth sigs. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6204 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I have met him 10 years ago, he is my first love. We dated back in 1998, then we split up bcoz he was seen with a girl while I was away studying abroad. Then we dated again briefly in 2000, and went out again for several months in 2005. The last ...

I think she's ruined my life. What am I going to do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

27 December 2007 (?) - this girls screwed my life. i dated this girl 4 years ago,nothing serious we were kids,i was shy didnt let on i liked her,didnt know how to deal with it lol, at the time another girl was txt messaging me,i never even met up with this other ...

So many questions - anyone got any answers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, So i've got myself in a real pickle. I've recently broke up with my ex girlfriend of 18 months. She cheated on me once in january, and then she was so amazing to me we got back together. She then went to uni, and i moved to italy f...