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female
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41-50,
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writes:Hi all, i really need some advice i am so confused. 3 month ago my boyfriend sent a flattering messageto a girl(saying how no1 can be as beautiful as her). He sent it to me by mistake. We broke up. He said it was a girl in work, even told me where she lived, what she looked like and everything.In the end i forgave him. We were out the night after xmas day and his "friend" that was with him that night said it wasnt a girl he worked with at all but his ex!!! Its over now between us. I just cant get over his lies.Does this mean he still has feelings for his ex??? He said he doesnt and it was stupid what he did and he's ashamed of himself!!I know they were together 2.5yrs. But i have been with him for over 2 years now....i thought in that length of time that he wudnt have feelings for her. It was even over with her for a year b4 i met him. He said she txt outta the blue...and the 1 time she txt why does he have to fall for her strait away!!! I bet she was thrilled with his attention! She must think im stupid and that he wants to be with her! And she is in a longterm relationship herself like. Im gutted, how do i carry on, what do i do, how do i forget him? I really loved him so much and never would have hurt him. Never.
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reader, mama2three  +, writes (28 December 2007):
 Easy...just keep reminding yourself that he was putting another girl before you! And you don't know what was going on with them, do you know how long they had been talking? Regardless if there was 'physical' cheating on his part, he went outside of your relationship to find *something* from another woman...still cheating in my book! I don't care if it was a girl from his work or his ex, or a bum on the street!
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