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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I need your help guys. I saw this girl last yr very briefly but quickly bailed out b4 it got serious (just wasnt ready for a serious rship). In Jan i started thinking abt her again thinking i didnt give her a chance and decided to go back and not be so fickle this time. Unknown to me was that people started gossiping abt reasons why i bailed out b4 saying that i disliked her family/mum etc...which wasnt true. She was sceptical at first but then gave me a chance and we got back together. Everything was going swimmingly for abt 6 months (i honestly thought she was the ONE) then we had a little argument which "blew up" and she sulked for a week and didnt return my calls which got my back up so in anger i finished it VIA TEXT. felt bad immediately this time and tried calling her but got cursed at and she hung up. I thought fair enough and that was my closure. However again i keep thinking abt her and have sent the odd meaningless email saying -"hope ur well" (which have understandably been ignored) but without expressing how i genuinelly feel ie that i did really care for her. Do i let go and leave it as have already caused so much damage and it's now been 4 months since we broke up or do i tell her that i did care. The problem is that i'm unsure that i want her because of the fact that she cursed me and then cut me off and if she's done it before she'll do it again (and what happens with the next argument) or do i still risk the wrath of being blasted again (which is the likely outcome) or express how i feel and take it from there? Am confused!!
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reader, truly_unique  +, writes (28 December 2007):
you want to let her know u care? then tell her but dont blame her if she doesnt come running back into your arms. remember that actions speak louder then words and you actions have not been so good previously have they.
as for getting back with her? u got make sure that you REALLY want it. i mean really as in serious lets get married and be togethr for ever. she has feeling too..and nobodys perfect. if one little argument broke up your 6 month reltionship then it wasnt as solid as you thought. send her some flowers say your sorry and that you cared butonly if you mean it! and then just sit tight. its all on her terms now.
g0od luck
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