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writes:I have had a relationship with a girl who has been a long-time friend of the family. I have been married once for 19 years and in a relationship with another woman for 8 years. The woman that i was seeing has been married twice and is legally still married but been split up for 4 years and before me she lived with a man for 1 year.She has 3 daughters and they all love me to death and are always asking me to be there dad. I keep telling her that until she gets a divorce i will not take her places in our hometown together because we both have great jobs in the community. She tells me that she loves me and we spend time together and the girls have no idea i have been staying there at night because i will get there late and leave early. We have been on trips together and we are great together. Our sex life is the best and matter of fact she said that up until she met me she could not have orgasms. Up until 2 weeks ago she was at work and i went to a company Xmas party. We talked that night and i was having fun singing and enjoying the co-workers. She tried calling me and could not get hold of my cellphone because of reception in the building. On my way home she called and asked where i have been. I told her and she responded you have not been there. I told her if she did not believe me to move on. She did not talk to me for 2 days and that was when i told her i was sorry for saying that to her. I got upset and took her house key and a new watch she had bought me back to her. I have sent flowers to her with no reply, i bought her a diamond ring and bracelet for Xmas and the daughters gifts as well. She made me come pickup the gifts and told me that she met a man and slept with him the first night and fell in love with him. Should i move on are try to get her back by giving her the time she needs? I guess i do not see how a person can go from loving you to taking me out of the picture with a flip of the switch. There is not another woman in my life, just her.
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (30 December 2007):
 You should move on, this woman has issues with being faithful and her pattern shows this, as well as the recent chain of events. She's leaving no room for a future with you. Take that as a cue and don't contact her anymore. My guess is, she just uses men until she grows bored with them, and then moves to another. You deserve better than that.
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