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Archived questions from: September, 2006 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

My babys father abuses me by text and now seems like in nearly 3 years together I was always a secret!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - until recently i was in a relationship with my babys father and he dumped me by txt and then started to abuse me by txt calling me horrible names and a liar.we was together for 2 years 9 months and through out this time never did i meet his best ...

I don't have feelings for him anymore, should I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6657 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - I am dating this guy we dated for a month then broke up and like a month later we started dating again. He went to germany and when he came back i didnt have feelings for him anymore... we started dating the day he left for germany. he got back like ...

I miss my bf so much...should I hang in there or end it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6657 days ago

29 September 2006 (F) - im missing my boyfriend so much i live in england [uk] and he lives in australia i havent seen him at all...i dunno if i shud hang on or end it?!?! ...

I broke up because I was so depressed with her, she says she will change, but Im confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6658 days ago

29 September 2006 (M) - i am a 21year old male who just got out of a relationship. when we first got together we were so happy together my weight was around 180. Now my weight has gone down about fifteen pounds. We used to be so happy together and when we get around h...

Why is it so hard to move on after broken relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

28 September 2006 (M) - Why is it so hard to move on from a broken marriage / relationship? Thought of ex with new partner is soul destroying. Why is it so tough to let go?...

We keep breaking up, but still have sex and act like we are still together!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - Hi, um where shud i begin really well i was with this guy for 3 years on and off i met him over the internet when i was 16 and went to meet him, it felt like love at first sight then he left me 4 times through these 3 years and always came back to ...

We broke up because she cheated and now..she ignores me! I still care for her..what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

28 September 2006 (M) - What should I do me and my girlfreind broke up about 3 weeks ago. Well to start out she has cheated on me twice before when she was really drunk. She kissed two guys. She broke up with me first saying she felt like there was not a spark anymore. ...

How can I get it through to my ex, that its well and truly over!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

27 September 2006 (?) - I am hoping that some of you can help me with this problem – you see I was with my boyf for 9 years, for 2 of them we were engaged to be married, we broke up 18 months ago after I found out he had been sleeping with my supposed “Best Friend and ...

We act like a couple even after past history of breaking up, things are great, but we are not a couple and she's moving out! What should I do ??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - LONG BUT I AM DESPERATE FOR ADVICE Hi there, I am in a right old mess. I was with my gf for four years, lived together for much of it. We had usual ups and downs and had a baby last Xmas. Our ups and downs took a toll on her and her feelings cha...

After having "Goodbye Sex", we are considering making it casual. Is this a good idea?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and i recently broke up. We dated seriously for a year and a half. when i went over to get my stuff from his house we ended up having "goodbye sex". This led to the decision that we should keep in contact with eachother whenever we ...

My first lesbian relationship has ended, now it seems she is playing mindgames. Its screwing my head up, please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - Please I need some advice. Until my last r/ship I have always been straight, but I ended up very close to a female friend who is a lesbian and ended up with her. I moved away from family and friends to be with her, we moved near her family. Anyway 8 ...

Bf keeps finishing with me over stupid little things. He seems to enjoy hurting me. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - hiya...... well me n my boyfriend have been 2geva now for 6weeks. n i love him but its asif he dosent want 2 see me because he lives 20mins away n still there is always an excuse not 2 see me. and he finshes me ova stupid little things really ...

Why is my boyfriend acting in this way? I am not used to being alone. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - my boyfriend broke up with me 9 days ago. he lived with me and my son, he was at the hospital when he wa born and from then on lived with me and my son calls him daddy. he has always been there then he just got up and left saying he dosent want ...

How do I get him back, Surely he wouldnt come around to help out if he were not interested ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - Hi its me again from yesterday i asked about my ex b/f who left me. Now he is saying he just wants his stuff and i cannot ever have his love anymore that i pushed him away. he wants to come over to do the yard but i told him thats okay i can do it ...

Im married and work over seas, Ive fallen for someone else and am thinking of divorce, but feel pity for my child, what should I do ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - I am a married guy working overseas away from my wife and kid. I met a girl who at first was my best friend but we eventually became lovers despite the fact I am already committed (she knows). I am suddenly thinking of divorce but I feel pity to my ...

I would like to offer some help with his cocaine addiction, but he wont answer my calls, why doesnt he want to know me now ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I have a strange tale and a question that I wish could be answered. I met a young man at work who first pursued me with friendship and flirting. Within the two months that we saw each other about every day we developed a strong attachment, and ...

Im waiting for he current relationship not to work, so I can get back with her!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - I'm trying to work my way back in with my ex, will it work? Please read my last post first: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-love-and-want-to-marry-this-woman.html Well, as I mentioned, we have been talking a lot lately, mostly me contac...

I don't think I am in love with my fiance anymore. I feel like I am staying with him for the sake of our daughter. What should I do? Any advice welcome.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years and we got engaged a year ago. He has a 6 year old daughter from a previous relationship who does not see her mother and who I consider to be my child. We have had our ups and downs, but for the most part ...

Can you be best friends with the person you have just broken up with?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

25 September 2006 (M) - How can you be best friends straight after a break up which your g/f made? i don't want to feel bad by not being her friend, but it seems hard to see her as a friend..especially saying best friends staright after a break up, i don't get it...

We broke up, now he's depressed and I feel guilty!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - I finished with my lover because our relationship wasn't going anywhere. I was with him 2 years but i wanted more then what he could give me. Now he keeps txting me saying he cant sleep and that he is suffering from depression,i feel guilty and i do...

we broke up---so if I give him his space, will he ever come back to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - I am currently going through a hard break-up. I cheated on him but he still is willing to be friends. He says he still cares for me. If I give him his space, will he ever come back to me?...

Worried I will never find somebody else if I leave my husband. How can I stay with heim when the relationship is long over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6663 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - I married a gentle caring sort of person but being an inter community marriage and his mother's overdrive at nastiness and control has come between us for a long time now. He is such a good person with the world but has taken all his resentment out ...

How do I know when I am ready to kiss my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - How Do I Know Im Ready For Kissing My Boyfriend??????????...

How can I get my lying, cheating slapper of a girlfriend out of my head?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

24 September 2006 (M) - Ever since getting together with my girlfriend, there have been problems. All she basically has ever done is lied, flirted, broke promises, totally disrespected me and slept around. Me being me, I took her back over 60 times, yet she still continue...

I've been having causal meaningless sex but this guy is developing feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - So I've slept with this guy a couple of times now... I'm not really into him but I sleep with him anyway. Weird I know. Part of this is because my first time meant nothing to me and wasn't special at all and as a result I've been having causal ...

Finally! We've split up..so why do I feel so guilty? Any thoughts on this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 September 2006 (F) - My house has sold almost a year after I started sleeping seperate from my husband. I felt since the moment we married years ago that it was a mistake. I do have feelings for him, but not 'that' way, never could say 'I love you', never wanted or ...

We broke up after 4 years together...any advice on what to do to get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

23 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me back in January of this year. It is really a very long complicated story so I will try to sum it up as best I can. We had been together for 4 years. We were deeply in love and it was a first seriuos relationship for ...

Old college friend has made me realise my true feelings for my boyfriend. Should I leave him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6665 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - Hi, I am currently in a relationship where I have been living with my boyfriend. We have been together over a year now I am starting to think we are not working. we are very different. I have also recently been reunited with an old college friend w...

My friends girlfriend has fell for somebody else, now she plans on marrying her lover. How can I break this news to my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6665 days ago

22 September 2006 (M) - Hi.. I have a frend who was goin around wth a gal for more than 2 yrs now. Virtually they wer engaged n both parties agrred to their relationship. But that gal realised dat she was not serious wth him. And she fell for a frend of his so called lo...

Is there a chance he could still love me, or should I just give up and move on??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

21 September 2006 (?) - hey, im 16, ive just broken up with my bf who i was crazy in love with. im rli rli hurting, and confused what to do. he told me he wanted to end it because it wasnt the same anymore, bt he told other people it was because he had problems and he ...

We argued and he moved out. Is this my fault or was he looking for a reason to go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6666 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - Me and my partner have just split up for the second time in 3 years we have a child together. We had a row and I asked him to sleep in the spare room. He has now moved out. Is this my fault or was he looking for a reason to go?...

Am I right to break up with my boyfriend because of his promiscuous past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - I want to break up with my boyfriend, as I cannot get over his promiscuous past. However, I'm scared to do it, as I've had a boyfriend constantly from being 16 (I've been with my current boyfriend for just over a year, I'm now 20) and I don't know ...

My boyfriend admitted he has gay relationship with his friend, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - Hi, I'm 19, my boyfriend's 22 and recently he has admitted to me he had sex with his friend Johnathan. My boyfriend said he wasn't gay or even bisexual and his friend offered him £1,000 if he'd do it - which my boyfriend did; he had sex and got ...

Caught in my unstable relationship and now I fancy a new girl!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6666 days ago

21 September 2006 (M) - Hello, I am 16 years old, and have been in a quite serious relationship with a girl now for over a year. But i cant really see it lasting for much longer, due to us seemingly drifting apart more each and every day. I have recently started at a new...

We broke up but its like we hadnt, but then he was seeing someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - right this is my problem,basically i got with this guy last year in jan and we got on so well i was really startin to like him,i hadnt been with anyone sexually before him,he was my first for everything n i love him so much, but this year has just ...

My ex wants to see me as a friend, but he wont accept we are over, is it possible to be friends in this case ??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - I ended a relationship with my lover because i felt it wasn't going anywhere and i told him that.We couldn't agree to compromise so i walked away.Trouble is my ex will not accept this and says he misses me alot.He wants us to remain friends and just ...

Its all about her and what she wants, but I cant end it or I will look silly to others!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6667 days ago

20 September 2006 (M) - I am trapped in the marriage that I never ever thought will turn out to be like this (just married 6 months). Basically the core of the problem are many, among them is that she is so obsessive about money, she sees everything as money, lives and...

I was mean to my ex and want him back. Should I keep trying or just give up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6652 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend about a year ago and met someone else who I know now was a rebound. I did not really end the relationship with my ex that nicely. The rebound guy insisted that I call my ex and tell him goodbye while Mr rebound was ...

He wanted to break up but said he still loved me...is he only saying he loves me to make it easier for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6667 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend has just moved away to university and i've stayed at home. Its not far, maybe 25 minuites on the train, we always said we'd stay together, until the day he went, we hadn't seen each other for a couple of weeks before he went because we ...

In her mind her relationship is over, we see each other quite a bit, how can I give her the confidence to leave him ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6668 days ago

19 September 2006 (M) - Hello all. I met a girl about 2 months ago, who is currently living with her boy friend. In her mind it is over with them, but he bullies her emotionally, making her think shes the one whos always in the wrong. He smokes a lot of weed, and never ...

My bf blames me for everything, we broke up, I had a miscarriage, he treats me bad but I love him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - Wrote earlier when I was pregnant. My bf blames me for everything. I had a miscarriage at 16 weeks. My bf blames me for telling his parents that I was pregnant. I know I did not do it but he blames me for it. His parents got sick because of it. ...

My Bf broke up with me, told me he loves me to bits but cant be with anymore!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6668 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - Hey! Bad news, my bf and I have split up. He text me saying he loves me to bits but doesnt wanna be with me anymore. How can i get over him and become a single girl who's over it? I'm dreading seeing him happy with someone else. I did every thing ...

My Long distance guy proposed, but I've Cheated!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6668 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for the last 6 months, now he has proposed. but I cheated on him, with this guy at my school I am still seeing him and I think my feelings are divided, I'm actualy supposed to meet his ...

I am hurting so much after our breakup - when will my broken heart mend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6669 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - I'm hurting really bad. My days are consumed with thoughts. I need to know I will forget him and I will have a normal life. I cannot give details for I fear someone I know will read this. I cannot discuss this with anyone. I can hold out and live ...

He made me feel so cr*p, trouble is we share the same friends and will see each other at Uni.. How will I cope ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6668 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - hi, my bf of almost 2 yrs split from me a couple of months ago. we're at uni and lived together there for 1yr. To begin he was slightly geeky but a sweet guy, but he is now obsessed with being cool. He cheated in a club one night and on returnin...

Divorced for a year but I'm still pursuing her, why doesn't she want me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

18 September 2006 (M) - Hi, Lisa and I have been divorced for one year(total 1yr6mo with seperation). Lisa is 35 yrs old. We were married 12 years. She recently got breast implants and since then her attitude has changed. But still I love her. This has nothing to do with ...

How do you know when your relationship is actually over ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - How do you know when a relationship is over? - I have been with my guy for 11 months now...He keeps saying he will cut down on his drinking (he's drunk at least 3 nights out of the week), will find a better job so that he doesn't have to borrow ...

The affair started out daring and fun, now I feel like im being used for sex, but each time I try to end it he gets hostile!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6669 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - hi, i've been married for 11 years and always thought that i was reasonably happy, until arpund 4 years ago, when i suddenly realised that i wasn't compromising in my relationship, but just giving in all the time. I became very depressed and my ...

I gave up partying as I was committed to her, she however hasnt, I dont feel this is right advice please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

18 September 2006 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are in a commitment relationship and currently living apart, in a long distance relationship. I stopped drinking and partying for us, changing over to a new leaf of life so to speak. However she continues to drink and party and ...

I get torn up about the whole thing we had and cant get past, how do I ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6665 days ago

17 September 2006 (M) - In january last year i went to south america to travel and do charity work with a group of 15 other people i had never met before. I immediately fancied a girl on the trip called Rachel and she showed that she liked me. We hung out alot and I had ...