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writes: My boyfriend has just moved away to university and i've stayed at home. Its not far, maybe 25 minuites on the train, we always said we'd stay together, until the day he went, we hadn't seen each other for a couple of weeks before he went because we were both busy and thats what our relationships like (which is why him going to uni would be easy,)anyway he rang me the day he was going and said he thinks it would be too much hassle, he said he doesn't love me as much as he thinks he should and that theres something missing. (Bear in mind that he was crying and saying he loved me, which was totally confusing) However me being really weak, and i love him so much i rang him the day after, and he seemed happy and said that in a couple of weeks when he's settled in uni we can try and make it work. I would love more than anything to make this work, however all i can think is that he's only saying that to keep me happy and its not what he wants at all. So now i'm waiting for his call, i can't handle heartbreak at all, i'm a really weak person who gets attached way too easily, so i think it would be easier for us to drift apart rather than getting my heart broken. Does anybody think this could work? We get on great, have a laugh and are totally compatable. He still says he loves me, i'm so confused!
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reader, claire_x100 +, writes (20 September 2006):
 To make things easier for you talk to him ask him, about trying it again if he says no (hopefully wont) then say well why do you keep telling me you love me. It will be natural for him still loving you because if your relationship was reli good then it must be hard to part even more. Maybe if he doesnt want to try it again, you have to think whats best for you if your a weak person. So do what you said drift apart because dont forget in break ups you do have to think about yourself. Good Luck.
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