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writes:Why is it so hard to move on from a broken marriage / relationship?Thought of ex with new partner is soul destroying.Why is it so tough to let go?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2007): I have read all the answers above...and i realized moving on is a tough situation...hurt and pain remains in the heart...but GOD will always be the answer...giving out love will comes next. Mending a broken heart requires a lot of prayer. The pride of being cheated will stay in your thought but adds up to a new lessons in life and survival will always be sweeter than ever...We have to accept things as they are and look forward to a brighter and better life....
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2006): It is probably one of the hardest things you will go through apart from the death of a parent. The hurt and pain will be a massive hurdle to get over, but like everyone else has said time is a great healer. You have to keep busy but don't jump into another relationship, take time to get to know yourself and learn from your mistakes. You will be a better prson for it and someone will fall in love ith you again.
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reader, Toria +, writes (28 September 2006):
 For some reason when you aren't with them anymore our minds only seem to remember the good things about the relationship and the good parts to the ex, missing the things you use to do together and panicking about someone else having that with your ex, someone else in a way taking the place you use to hold, moving in on what was once your territory.
It is normal to feel this way but remember an ex is an ex for a reason therefore you need to try to forget and move on from them.
Good luck :o)
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reader, fallenman +, writes (28 September 2006):
 It depends somewhat on who leaves who, if you are the one that was dumped then the feeling of rejection / betrayal and loss are significant, and in a way similar to a grieving process.
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (28 September 2006):
 It could be a combination of things. I broke up with my ex 9 months ago and I still miss her. Its something that gets easier to deal with in time, but to answer your question its your heart and mind. You can't forget the good times and good things about your ex and your heart longs to be with that person and have that same feeling again. It is gut renching to think about your ex with someone else, let alone see it. It's the inevitable I'm afraid and its something that you will have to live with. I wish I had the magic words to make it go away as I would use them on myself but its only time that will make you feel better and getting to know someone new. I know it hurts like hell now but it does get better.
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