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writes: im missing my boyfriend so much i live in england [uk] and he lives in australia i havent seen him at all...i dunno if i shud hang on or end it?!?! Reply to this Question
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reader, lovett_23 +, writes (30 September 2006):
How long have you been with him? I have been in a relationship a lont time and if I have learned one thing it's that you can not fight what your heart feels. How does your boyfriend feel? A relationship can not survive without quality time unless you both want it that bad. I always ask myself can I see myself with this man for the rest of my life? If I can then I say to myself if I can't survive in a relationship then I won't make it in marriage. Hang in there and when you get to the point where you just can't take it anymore then you let go. Don't put any more strain on your heart than you have to. Don't let miles determine if your relationship will make it or not. You and your man determine those factors. Don't allow something or someone take away what you have worked so hard to achieve.
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reader, Toria +, writes (30 September 2006):
 Has he always lived in Australia and you in UK?
If so this is something you should have taken on when getting together in the first place, only you can decide whether you feel enough for him to put aside the distance and make this work.
Good luck :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2006): Oops, I meant hang in there or go... 8/
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2006): U shouldn't ask us whether u should hang in there or stay. What do YOU want to do, and have u considered visiting each other? Why hasn't he flew over to see you, or why haven't u flew over to see him?
What is the foundation of your relationship? Have u two met before? What does he have that make u yearn for him and vice versa? Talking on the phone, msning, emailing, sending each other stuff through postal can only go for so far until the lack of physical touching, and seeing each other in person takes a toll - of course.
You speak of leaving or staying, but if he is someone you truly adored, then why don't u make some 'sacrifices' or some 'risks' and see him yourself? It is ALL about how willing u/him are to change things. If you're short-sighted, and unwilling, then the easiest thing to do is break-up. If you're far-sighted, and willing, then the next step up is to "just do it". Go for the goal.
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