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writes: Hi.. I have a frend who was goin around wth a gal for more than 2 yrs now. Virtually they wer engaged n both parties agrred to their relationship.But that gal realised dat she was not serious wth him.And she fell for a frend of his so called lover.Now both that girl and his frend are serious about their relation and wanted to get married but are very afraid as to how to break this news to this guy??Can anyone advice as to how to handle this situation?
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reader, Toria +, writes (22 September 2006):
 Is there really any good way to handle this situation?
whatever you do you are going to hurt your friend but better you deal with this soon as the longer you leave it the more hopes he will put on the relationship he feels is going fine.
One of you needs to talk to him, you both know him so you should be able to work out which one of you it would hurt him less hearing it from, just choose words wisely and remember his feelings are involved so details are probably not the best way to go.
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